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Long Long Question. Being in love and having ex getting invo
Alright. Well I was involved with this guy, we'll call him B, and me and B were together about 3 months and I was madly in love with him. I ended up lieing to him.. alot.. in the beginning of the relationship. And I slowly started confessing. The last time I confessed the last lie to him he took a tantrum fit and called me a liar. He broke up with me. He said he'd never take me back. Now he's sending me texts from his phone saying he loves me. Now. I'm with a guy.. moving on from B.. we'll call him T. He was my first ever love, and we decided to get back together after me and B broke up. T doesn't know about B and his text messages.. but everytime I talk to B, it makes me want to get back with him and leave T.. I don't wanna hurt T, however.. and I love them both so much. And B keeps saying he loves me yet he doesn't think we'd work out. I don't know what to do because I love T so much until B starts sending text messages and calling me.. then it makes me forget ALL about T and want B back. Then once B goes poof, I want T back. If your not confused.. try to give me some advice on what I should do. I can't just stop talking to B, and I can't just break up with T.
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you may not agree because you love oth of them but i would leave both of them alone. and get someone else because you dont want to hurt both b and t any you already hurt b so let them both go
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It sounds to me like you are leaning more toward the first guy you were with for 3 months. However he does have every right to believe that things won't work out since you were dishonest and dishonesty can cause a huge problem in relationships.
I know that your past few answers said the new guy which probably just gets you even more confused, but if you find yourself still wanting this past guy, then it's probably not a good idea to stick with the new guy because it isn't really fair to him.
Whoever you choose, always start a clean slate and be honest about yourself. If you feel like you have to lie or make something up to make you look better for a guy, then you aren't being fair to yourself. Let the guy you choose have a chance to get to know the real down-to-earth you and if he doesn't like it, then you'll notice and you can move on.
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I think you should stick with T. You can still keep in contact with B but just don't talk to him that much. Talk to him like maybe a few times a week or less, that way you can slowly get over him. If B doesn't think it'll work out with you, then he shouldn't be tellin you that he loves you & give you mixed signals. That's probably why you don't know who to choose. Just ignore those text messages from B & talk about something else.
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okay...my advice...if you truly like T...then just tell B to stop contacting you, if it's gonna make you want him everytime he talks to you. it's for the best....hope i helped??
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