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lately ive been wanting to have sex with my boyfriend of 4 months but i know im not ready for it..at times i think i am but sometimes i think im not, im afraid that one of these times im going to think im ready and actually have sex with him. how do i stop doing this? or should i jsut do have sex with him?
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i think you shouldnt cuz youve only known him for 4 months...if you have sex with him so early he might think youre a slut.
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Hi, you sound unsure. Never do something that your unsure of. You have also got alot to take in account e.g. age, contraceptives. Daniel.
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right now i think it is just the hormones acting up. do notttt just go ahead and do it..because you arent truly ready. it is normal to have occasional feelings like you might be ready..but until you are 110% sure..dont do it..because its not something you can take back. for now, go at your own pace..and see where that takes you
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just work your way up to it by doing different things. and once you're comfortable enough and think you're ready...then do it. just make sure you think he's the one you will always wanna remember as the guy you lost your virginity to.
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If you need to question whether or not to have sex, then you are not ready yet. Don't ever just have sex for the sake of it or just to please the boyfriend - it is never worth it. You will just end up disliking yourself for being a pushover.
When you are ready to have sex you will feel the need to be connected to the guy you have chosen to lose your virginity to.
Make sure you are properly protected by using a condom against diseases and possibly the pill as well to protect against pregnancy. It is always wiser to use double protection.
Always remember that once you have crossed that line, there is no way back to being a virgin.
I wish you all the very best.
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