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I am 5'2 and I weigh 129 pounds. I know I'm not overweight, and everyone says I should only loose at most 5 pounds. But, my stomach still is flabby and I don't look that good in a swimsuit. What can I do about it? (link)
I know exactly how you feel.
What I do is still eat what I want, but in moderation.
I don't go over 1200 calories a day.
And exercize.
Thats really what you should do.
Concentrate on getting some muscle in your stomache.
You may gain weight in doing that only because muscle weighs more than fat.

Hope I helped.


Hi I was wondering if you can use Palmer's Cocoa Butter Massage Cream for Stretchmarks even if you're not pregnant. And also is it safe to use anywhere on your body where stretchmarks have occured? Thanksss :] (link)
Yes, Thats why its for stretchmarks.

you can use it anywhere a stretchmark has been.
Try it, it wouldn't hurt.


Lately, it have been so much going through my head. I need some advice on my boyfriend. We started off as friends, then realized that we really liked eachother and decided to take the next step. Everything was all fine when we first got together for a minute, I thought he was the one. Time passed, and a year later I ended up pregnant. It was a shock to both of us but I coun't see myself aborting, so I kept it. He later lost his job. Now you would think that he could have got another job being that he has a child on the way! I started to get a little upset at that because I couldn't really work anymore. He ended getting a job right before our child was born. The sad thing is that his job is a on call job, so if they don't need him, then they won't call. That's bad because with a new baby, someone needs a steady job. To fast forward he now has been going through panic attacks, and all he been doing is think negative, he barely works, he's not meeting any goals, he still lives with his mom, don't have a car etc.... I'm starting to fell like there's too much pressure on me because I'm starting to feel like I'm going to have to take care him soon completely as well as taking care of my baby. I know for sure that I didn't want this kind of life, it seems like the best thing out of it is my child. I love him dearly with all my heart, and I know that he would go crazy if I left, but how much more can I take? I'm still trying work and finish college, he keeps saying he's going to this and that, but nothing is happening. It's almost like he's handycap..I'm just too young to be taking on his problems that really shouldn't be a problem...am i wrong for saying this? (link)
No, You're not wrong at all for saying this.

He should be helping you.
You shouldn't have to take care of the baby all by yourself.
Though I don't know all that much. I have a little sister. and I watch her all the time.
I know how babies are. You need more than one person.
You should try to talk to him,
try to get it through to him that you need help with this and if you don't get help then its not going to work.

Hope I helped a little.


My friend is mad at me. We are both thirteen. And we are both girls. She has been calling me names. I keep telling her that she's acting like a five-year-old. And every time I email her she keeps saying I'm acting dumb and weird... and up until now she's stopped talking to me. What should I do? (link)
I think that if she's doing stupid stuff like that then you shouldn't be friends with her.

I mean, she's the one being immature.
You're probably right, she probably is acting like a five year-old.
Just ignore her, if she wants to be your friend let her come to you.
Don't push her.
That wont get you anywhere.
Just hang out with the other people you know and give it time.
If you're meant to be friends it'll work itself out.


My lips are really chapped and I'm using the jar of Carmex with the yellow lid. I've used it a lot and left it on, but everytime it wares off my lips start to peel and I'm tempted to bite them again and get them chapped. Should I leave the peeling skin alone? Any additional advice would be wonderful.

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I use Carmex too.

And I have about the same problem.
I always put it on before i go to bed.
Its part of my nightly routine.

It works, then continue putting it on throughout the day.
Thats how I do it.


*Okay.. my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year.. We get along pretty good for the most part,but we do have our arguments.. Well he is always with his friends and we all usually hang out.. The things is, He doesnt like any of my friends and he has no reason to not like them. I have i have about four close friends and his reasons for not liking them are they're whores, they're bitches or he doesnt like the people her boyfriends hang out with. i never have a problem with his friends and i try and get along when them all. Everytime i'm with my friends he's always questioning me.. like what did i do.. who did i see.. who did i talk too.. did anyone hit on me.. he even asks these questions if we only went the mall for a breif second and my sister was with us! He's always checking my phone and asking me what whos numbers are in their if they arent stored in my phone book, when i tell him an answer he doesnt always believe me.. errr it makes me soo mad.. idk what to do.. why is he acting like this and why is it okay for him to do something and not me?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!!!!!!?????????? (Sorry it's so long, but i im so sick of this CRAP!=) ) (link)
He may have a trust issue.

And or be insicure about your relationship.
If he thinks that your friends are whores...
He may think that they're getting a bunch of guy to talk to you when you're around them.
Maybe you should talk to him and ask him why he's being like that.
Get him alone and ask him.


I have a pet dog ( cocker spaniel/bishon frisée mix if that helps lol)and he randomly starts shaking, he tenses up and starts wheezing. My parents think it might be athsma but none of us really know what it is. He is an older dog, about 9 years old, so maybe its just a sign of getting older. I'm worried about him, he's been doing that for a while... (link)
He may be having seizures.

You should take him to the vet.
Thats kind of how my dog started to act when he was having seizures. It may be asthma though.

Becasue of his age you can never me to sure.


I have skipped two monthes in a row. I have not had sex. I am kind of worried. Is it normal to skip? My hormones are the same, as if I were on my period, but nothings happend for 2 monthes? Help! (link)
If you have been doing unusual activity,
Such as working out more...
That may mess up your ovulation...It happened to me.
If not..talk to your mom.
Or talk to a doctor.
I'm sure nothings wrong if you havent had sex.
Try talking to someone...like a doctor. They'll help.



My girlfriend and I make a lot of contact without taking the proper precautions and the past month has been the same. She is still a virgin. My concern is when we make contact without the use of a condom and I may pre-ejaculate what is the likelihood of her becoming pregnant? (link)
Well without a doubt you should use a condom.

But if its in the heat of the moment and what not, there really is a high risk for her to become pregnant, unless she's on birth control.
If she's on birth control then your chances are less.
But you should do your best to just use a condom,
or "pull out".
But that doesn't always work either.

Yeah, Use a condom.
The chances are really likely, and I doubt you want to deal with her parents if she gets pregnatn..yikes!



ive been friends with lisa sinc freshman year. she moved lasts umemr but we were together like everyday last summer. we chilled a couple times over the year but still remained close. she started going out with this kid. he seemed really nice but he was really creepy. he hit on me and christina (lisas bestfriends) multiple times. hes over in texas right now for training and hes just such an asshole to her, i know he must be nervous but hes so mean. hes parranoid and always calls her names and assumes shes cheating but she doesnt even give any hints that she is. he called my phone over 9 times one night and i didnt answer cuz i dont want to deal with him shit to her. he left a voice mail saying mean stuff about lisa. first off.. no one messes with my friends. they broke up but now shes like talking to him and it just pisses me off. i cant talk to her if she talks to him, he was trying to send me mean messages on myspace, he called me fuckin fat and that hurts, even tho i know im not its still annoying. what can i do, i dont want her to have anything to do with him. oh yeah he told her he had a gf wen they were goin out and she replied"i never even cheated on u " and he goes i was kidden i justw anted to try to get it out of u. i hate him like all her friends hate him (link)
You should just sit her down and tell her what you think.
And if you try/have tried that, and nothing happened.
Then she's just gunna have to find out for herself that this guy is a total asswad.
But do your best to stay friends with her, and make sure you're there if she gets hurt.
But do as much as you can to get through to her and tell her that you think this guys a joke and she shouldn't be talking to him anymore.





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