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hey everyone im desirae! this is my new advicenators my old one was drjwlc4..but heres some stuff about me..

i am 16 years old i am going to be a junior at beecher high school..i play softball it is half my life the other half is my friends..who mean everything to me and also my family and boyfriend..

i also like ot ride my fourwheeler work out shop talk on the phone help people and just live life to the fullest i am not stuck up i am actually a very shy person who is trying to break out fo there shell..

i love hollister and abercrombie!but theyy are really expensive..i have been playing softbal since i was four yhears old and my favorite number is 4! i used to be a cheerleader,play vollyball,soccer,basketball but now i stick to softball i am going to try out for soccer again along with basketball..

i drive a 2001 hyundai sonoata! i hate four door cars but i love this one..my dream car is a mustang ever since i was litle i have had my eye on that car..dont matter wat year just has to be pretty fast and drivable..i also want an excersion cause i love big trucks!!and also a f150 lighting so yes i am a fords girl even tho i dont drive one but my mom and dad do..i have one brother and a nephew both there names are joseph micheal..

well if you guys would like to know naything else im me

advice

when i try to put a picture in the caption box using the thingy im sorry i forgot the restof the code i press update and it gives me .. what did i do wrong?

ok this is gunna be kinda confusing but lol try to follow along..

you put a < before img scr=" heres where you put the link from tinypic.com then ">

i believe that is how you do it

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Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
Thank You So Much!!!

ok well i am a junior now im 16 and i dont really get made fun of..and the 32 is the intches around you so tell them to back off cause chances are they didnt know that not many guys do and i am a 34 a so..yeah just ell them how u feel or be like yeah well i heard u had like a 4 inch penis or sumthign then theyll kno how you feel

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okay i'm about to turn 13 and i havnt had my period yet. i live with my dad so its really hard to bring up that subject, and i cant shave my legs because, again, its hard to bring up the subject. what should i do? i cant go to anyone else either.
thanks in advance

aww..well just shave your legs no matter what you dont have to ask its your body and plus your getting tothe age where you should be shaving your legs.and he will understand that you are a girl growing up and thast what we do..and just ask your dad for money or ahve a friend go and pick up some pads or tampons for you and then your dad will see them and be like ok looks like i have to start buying that stuff now

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i need a way to cope with stress i have no one to talk to know one gets me im emo and im 14 female and all alone i'm a cutter and i hate myself and it seems like im the only one thats like this because everyones so preppy help also i get depressed alot

hey..well try not to cut get a rubber band instead of hurting your self noone wants to see u cut and everyoine will get in a depressed mood once in a while i know i do i always put on afake smile just to make everyone hapy but on the inside im being torn apart i worry way to much..ive never hurt myself ive thought baout it before but why do that i dont think i have the guts too but if u need some one totalk to about anything just im me at fallhrdintolove4

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I know this is going to sound weird but what is the actuall birds and the bees story, like how does it get told?

Thanks :)

bees have stingers which for men is the penis and the birds dont so they are the women and u should get it form there

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I got my first period yesterday and when i look in my underwear they were all ruined because of the blood. So I was wondering what am I supposed to do every month on the day when the period starts and I look in my underwear and they are alll ruined or they leaked to my pants to make sure I can be ready for it without wearing a pad 24/7?

well now that you started it keep track of the dats and then it should come around a month later or 28 days..and you dont alway have to wear a pad you can also wear a tampon and or a panti liner for when u think it is guna come

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i broke up with my boyfriend of like more than a year and he got really upset. i told him that it wasnt his fault i just didnt think we had the chemistry. so was it wrong to break up with him weither he still loved you so so much? ill rate plz answer ♥

no its not wrogn for you to brek up wiht him if you didnt feel anything you need to go and find someone you do feel chemistry with..and everyone will be sad over a break up for a little bit but he can go find someone who also loves him it will just take some time and you did the right thing ..i know how it feels cause i did the same to my ex we went out for a year and 2 months and i broke up wihthim it aint right to keep making someone think there is nothign wrong when there is but you just odnt want to hurt threre feelsings

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In England our summer holiday has only just started and my friends and I need ideas as to what we can do. None of us have much money and we're all bored of picnics and barbeques so we need cheap, preferably outdoor activities that we can all do together.

hey..well u can ahve fun playing sports like baseball soccer basketball anything like that and if you already ahve the equpiment it wont cost you anything

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what do i wear if i have my periodif i am going swiming?

a tampon

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I was just wondering,
is vitamin water good or bad for you?
cause I drink a lot of it and I was just wondering.
Thanks

its good for u duhh lol j.k cause it does give you most of your vitamans but remeber also drink reg water

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I have little red bumps going across my chest. What are they???

eihter a rash or pimples..nothign to really owrry about unless they start to bother you

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alright, I"ve heard of tts, and if u sleep in a tampon you can get it. if you have it but dont know it, can it effect your chance of having children?
thanks!

its tss toxic shock syndrome and i am sure it can effect u of having kids look more stuff online baout it

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Does anyone know a website where I could get lyrics for the band "Blackmore"? there not a real popular band so there not on alot of sites. thanks ill rate and comment!

jsut go to google.com and then type in wat u need to know about htem and they help you

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i heard that you are not aloud to bring cameras, food, etc. into the tweeter center - you have to buy it all there. im going there for a concert tomorrow night so does anybody know if this is true, what you ARE aloud to bring, or a site where you can find this info?? thankyouuu

well my friends work at the tweeter center and your not supposed to bring that stuff cause it is a distraction but people sneak it in tehre anyways..and urnot aloud to bring in a cell phone either but ..like i said noone listens and yeah i dont think u are aloud to bring food..but people do so ..go ahead just hide it nad everythingwill be fine

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where can i find a cheap cartlidge earring thats fake? (one that doesnt actually go in) thanks.

the icing..clairs..or off the wall..try anyplae that has earring or body piercings jewlery they wshold ahve it

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Hey, can you guys help me find Nelly Furtado's song Promiscuous? I just want to listen to it, so an audio version or video version is fine. Thanks so much.

www.music.aol.com

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ok, my mom is obsessed with myspace. and it's not like she has her own myspace. i suggested she gets one but she doesn't want to because she thinks that she shouldn't have one and she says she only wants to play on mine. she spends her time there. she starts changing my music, looking at different layouts, adding music videos and putting pictures on it. and sometimes, she doesn't even ask my permission! she puts things on and says its a suprise and sometimes she even acts like she's not doing anything wrong. she says that she's my secretary and it'sr really making me more and more mad. she comes home and checks my myspace! i really need some advice! i'm 15/f

well all i could say is you make a new myspace and be liek oh yeah blah u can just have that one..and or you can change your password

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How can I send someone a friend request if there myspace is private and you have to know there Last Name or Email Address to send them a request and I don't know either, and I can't ask them?

well then yoyou cant ask them or do anythig namybe if you know there friend ask them to tell them to add u

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Can anyone help me construct some questions to ask a guy if I was trying to get to know him more personally?

We're on sort of a personal level, so the questions don't have to be so general such as "What's your favorite color"

Thanks

just if you want to get to know him mroe cause you think that you lik ehim then be like so how is your life going..do you like sports if so wat kinda..have you ever been cheated on..ever been in love..just ask him little questions and then make them lead into sumthing big then u guys will have a serious conversation and then etc..hope i helped

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Hi, i have pink eye and i was wondering if it's normal to have like crust around your eye and on your eye lashes when you have it? Thanks in advance. ♥

yes its normal..but i think you should go by medicine for it so it can go away and your eye wont be as crusty

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