i broke up with my boyfriend of like more than a year and he got really upset. i told him that it wasnt his fault i just didnt think we had the chemistry. so was it wrong to break up with him weither he still loved you so so much? ill rate plz answer ♥
Christine1993 answered Wednesday July 26 2006, 12:10 pm: No it was wrong at all, he hasnt realized that you two arent right for each other yet. it's just that he got a little attached because you two have been together for a long time. don't worry at all. [ Christine1993's advice column | Ask Christine1993 A Question ]
coconutcatastrophe answered Wednesday July 26 2006, 12:08 pm: it's definetly the farthest thing from wrong.
it's better to tell him the truth and hurt him,
then to lie and say you still like him just to make him happy.
it's like if someone said that loved you and they really don't.
if you found out you'd be hurt, ya know?
you made a good decision, don't worry.
fallhrdintolove4 answered Wednesday July 26 2006, 11:40 am: no its not wrogn for you to brek up wiht him if you didnt feel anything you need to go and find someone you do feel chemistry with..and everyone will be sad over a break up for a little bit but he can go find someone who also loves him it will just take some time and you did the right thing ..i know how it feels cause i did the same to my ex we went out for a year and 2 months and i broke up wihthim it aint right to keep making someone think there is nothign wrong when there is but you just odnt want to hurt threre feelsings [ fallhrdintolove4's advice column | Ask fallhrdintolove4 A Question ]
DefinedEyes answered Wednesday July 26 2006, 11:32 am: No it wasnt wrong.
Its better that you broke up with him because you didnt have feelings for him, and just leading him on.
That would have been worse off.
Razhie answered Wednesday July 26 2006, 11:20 am: If you don't want to be in a relationship with someone it really doesn't matter how much they love you. You could be the best thing to ever happen to them in their whole life, the only person they will every truly love, but even then, if you aren't happy breaking up with them is the right thing to do.
A relationship takes two people; one person's feelings can't make a complete loving relationship no matter how strong they are.
Stop beating yourself up. It's okay that your ex feels bad, nearly everyone feels bad when a relationship ends, and it isn't your fault he is unhappy. You did the right thing. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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