My name is Christine. I live in a popular town in The Caribbean island of Jamaica. I grew up in China, Texas (not a very popular town though) and then moved to Crystal Beach, Texas. We finally moved to Jamaica, and as i got older, i had to deal with the experiences of friends, teachers, school, family, mental illness, drugs, and others. I know a lot about sex, though not enough to get completely by, because i want to remain fresh until i am married. NO offence to others, because as an advice giver, i have no right to judge. I am catholic, (which is a denomination pf Christianity). I am part French, Indian, Spanish, and British. My mother was adopted, so i dont know the other side of me as much. I took my father's side more, and i am as you can say cajun which is mostly french. I look like i am American, though i can look like other races if i spoke the language. I really do hope you like my advice, i am very sweet, and experienced in certain fields, and I try to help my absolute best with anything you give me. If there is no happy answer or postive one, i will try to calm it down for you as much as i can. I am sorry if i fail to give good advice, but i try my best, Thank you in consulting my opinion, if you ask for my advice.
E-mail: lilgothicbiotch@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: texas
Occupation: student
Age: 13
AIM: xxlunaxspikeyxx
Yahoo: yes i do now sweetybodeety@yahoo.com
MSN: yes i have msn lilgothicbiotch@hotmail.com
Member Since: May 20, 2006
Answers: 145
Last Update: October 25, 2011
Visitors: 9614
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How did you bleach your hair with clorox without
riuning Your hair? (link)
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Bleaching your hair even with the right products can ruin ur hair if time isnt managed well.
i suggest getting the 'beyond the zone' hair brightening / bleaching kit from sallys. should cost around ten bucks, come with a bottle of volume developer and a blue tub. its great and gets my hair very bright!
get some protein treatment and special conditioner (and i mean special for chemically screwed up hair) that will make it silky and purple ion toner shampoo to get rid of the orangy/brassy tones left from the bleach . source - (ive done this about 7 times in two years)
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So i was in the shower today self examining and i found a pea sized bump on my cervix ( the other bumpish like) and i just had my annual checkup in August and it was normal. And i haven't had sex since. I was wondering if it was cancerous or a cyst. Should i be worried? Help! Thanks. (link)
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Doctor! now. No matter what anyone on this website says - doctor.
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Im really into music so im always looking for more. Im pretty much into stuff like evanescence, lilly allen, atmosphere, the band perry, skrillex, bruno mars, dev, drake, duffy just to name a few. so please post any music that you think i may enjoy and thank you so much for your time. (link)
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noisia
excision
datsik
deadmau5
christina perri
adele
modest mouse
florence and the machine
La roux
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I have recently started stretching my ears...i am at a 18g. I want to skip gauge sizes and get down to an 8g pretty soon. I only want to buy 1 pair of gauges so i dont have to keep buying size bigger after size. So would it be safe if i would skip sizes??? or would i get a blowout?? (link)
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you can always buy a gauging kit online that has all the sizes that is as expensive as buying only TWO sizes.
go from 18 to 16, and skip 14 and go to 12 and then don't skip sizes once uve reached ten.. only size that is okay to skip without it hurting too bad is to go from 16 to 12.
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Hi,
I am a teacher and part of what I do for rewards is give children stickers. With this tough economy, I have little to none money to spend on the kids this year, this includes stickers. Is there anywhere I can buy stickers for a low price. I tried Target, but 1,000 pack is about 5 dollars. That's too much, given that last year I bought the same pack for 1,000. I'm looking close to 10,000 stickers. Help me, please!
Thank you so much. (link)
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Here is a link to it on EBAY! starting off at a PENNY!
http://www.ebay.com/itm/5-SHEETS-98pcs-Stars-reward-sticker-7-5x3-5-c-/110750286421?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_2&hash=item19c93b4255
you could possibly get them in bulk on the same page
then there are other nice stickers if you scroll down http://www.ebay.com/sch/i.html?_from=R40&_trksid=m570.l2736&_nkw=reward+stickers
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My period had been on for the past 4 months it will get light and then heavy but it won't go off i stay tired but i made a doctors appointment but i want to know should i just go to the hospital (link)
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This could be easy and controlled by medicine.. or dangerous and needs surgery. call your doctor and tell him why u need to see him. he will suggest what you should do from then on.
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my ex left me for someone else
up in till a few weeks ago we thought she might have cancer thank god she don't she has something but nothing that bad
anyway i'm young just 22 we was having to talk about nasty things her asking me like will i still love her if she loses her hair and other things that
you shouldn't need to think about at are age she is 18
anyway i was needing to be strong and do all the hard things but there was someone else who could make her feel good cos of not needing to talk about this stuff
i think he might of been easy to talk to or something he keeped telling her he loves her and how happy they would be together and thinks like that when i was saying we need to stop drinking and eat better cos of her health(
both of us i wouldn't ask her to do anything like that if i wouldn't do it myself)
what chance did i stand haha
but the point is he is a snake
to go thru that for any one is hard it makes it impassable when theres a fun guy who's not needing to think about the hard parts and can just be fun
anyway she left me for him like a week after we found out she don't have cancer
i hate him i feel a bit like now should be the time her a i should be making happy good plans and getting on with are life but instead she is doing that with him
and i'm drained and on my own
i know beating him up might be wrong but its all i can think of he came into her life at a hard time and took her (he knew about me and didn't care)
i don't see why he can just have nothing for what he has done to me any advice ?
sorry about my poor spelling i think its all readable
thank you for taking the time to read this and reply
its approached its nice to know strangers are nice
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Your girlfriend just left o be with hime because she probably felt overworked by the stress. You were once probably the guy that took away her stress but since you care about her so much that you started talking about things (like her possible cancer) that made her stressed.. In turn, she tried to find an outlet to relax and not think about her cancer (which is that guy). Sadly she should have taken a second thought into leaving you and realize that you loved her through that scare she she should not take you for granted because most likely that guy would not go through that stuff with her. I think you should not be violent, but just try to talk to your girl about it and see if that's why she left you.
there could be another possible thing. Maybe during her cancer scare she realized that life is short and she wants to be with someone that is more for her. maybe it's not really against you, maybe yall just weren't working out and she waited until she realized she had a chance to not be sick to be with someone else.. either way .. what she did was wrong and you need to talk to her about it but don't make her upset and don't pick a fight with the guy, even if he did know that you and her were together. Most guys don't do it to personally get at you, they just want the girl .
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I hate my name and id like an emo name cause some people at school call me emo. To help u ill tell u my name. My name is Tia. ^^ (link)
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TiaTantrum
TiaTorture
TiaTelly
TiaTarantula
TiaGore
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hi so i am a sophomore in college and i need to get a laptop for school, to take notes, write papers etc. next semester i am taking chemistry, psychology, and history. i know for sure I'll be using it for psych. and history. so what kind of laptop would i need? i want one with lots of space, a good hard drive, doesn't weigh a lot, etc. so if you could give me some ideas that would be great. thanks! (link)
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I agree, a MAC is great, but if you're tight on money then i suggest a refurbished (or non refurbished if you want to pay the full price) on the dell inspiron 15.
you know, the lollipop laptop commercials? i love this computer. it has windows 7, which i like a LOT
and my computer never crashes.
it has a very fast pentium hard drive and i have about 250 gigs!
it's light, and if you buy the full priced one online, you can choose your own skin for it,
orrr if you get a refurbished one you will have to go for what color the person is selling it as, but there are also other websites to buy customizing skins.
i really love this laptop. it has been very good to me, and out of all the windows, this one is the most user friendly.
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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i believe that you should first talk wit him about it. he shouldnt even be having his facebook hidden from you. relationships are about openness and trust. it's not like you're badgering him about it.
it's his own fault of why you feel like this. if he still doesnt budge, break up with him.
by the way, this is his fault, but he made a dumb decision because that's a stupid way to get himself dumped.
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22/f
I'm a bridesmaid in my best friend's wedding in October. There are going to be 3 bridal showers (all of which I'm going to, since her maid of honour can't attend). The first was this past weekend.
I'm not a rich person, by any stretch of the imagination. She has registered at some pretty expensive stores, for expensive items, because her family and the groom's family are quite well off and she has higher-end tastes. I thought I would do something a little different for her present and make her something, as I'm fairly crafty. I'm hand trimming a set of towels for her in lace that I'm crocheting. Since it takes forever to do, it's a huge emotional investment on my part.
As I said, the first shower was this last weekend. So that I didn't come empty-handed to any of the showers, I brought the facecloths first. She opened the gift and sort of casually tossed it aside, and just a couple gifts later exclaimed over the (super-expensive) guest room towels she had registered for.
Now I'm really on edge about having to do the rest of the towels for her, because I feel like she really didn't appreciate the effort that went into them. In fact, I don't think she realized that I hadn't purchased them like that. I'm embarrassed, because I feel like she thinks I'm cheap, or that it wasn't her style and she's wondering what I was thinking. I honestly could have cried, I was so upset, because I had been really proud of my idea. I'm almost at the point where I want to just cancel on the other showers so I don't have to go through this again.
My question is, do I keep going ahead with it and complete the set (which will take me about 30-40 hours more of work), or do I bail from that plan and just try to buy her something from her registry?
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This one is a toughy! I'd go ahead and buy her something. If she's going to act like that, she probably doesn't deserve the things she's getting. PLus, if you are that good of a craftsmen, it's very hard to notice that you hand made those. so ull have to tell her. Buy her something cheap like 30 bucks from her registry like candle holders or something. invest 30 dollars, not 30 hours. especially if she's gonna be like that.
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I know this is kind of a dumb question but what do you bring to class in college? I was thinking like my computer, the textbook, a binder with some paper, a pencil, highlighter, and some pens, and a calculator for the math like classes. Do I really have to bring that much? (link)
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Talk to whoever is kind of in charge and ask if computers are allowed. if they are, bring your computer anyway.
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I'm seventeen years old. I love singing. I can't even describe how much i love it. Its my passion,my hobbie, and something I would love to pursue as a career. This passion has been a part of me since I was four. Its just one of those things that you can feel that you are meant to do. Anyway, getting to the point....I have always had dreams where I'm running, and my way of escaping is flying. In the dreams I'm able to fly over mountains, and over each mountain, I end up in a different continent or country. For the past six months, I have been with this guy. For three months he worked hard to be with me, I didn't feel the same way he felt. I decided to give him a chance, so we started going out. I was still not happy. He turned out to be pretty much obsessive. He didn't understand the fact that I don't believe in sex before marriage. And it became a huge issue because he just always tried, and I would have to remind him. I ended up liking him but a part of me still felt like it didnt. I felt like I was with him to make him happy. Like the whole relationship was forced. During the six months or the time we were together, my dreams were more uncomfortable. I wasn't able to fly as high as before. I struggled to stay up to long. I couldn't even get above a tree. Whereas usually I could go really high in the sky, and a few times over into the clouds. I broke up with him about two weeks ago because I was just sick of him disrespecting me. I also had some singing competitions coming up, so I did those, and it felt really good. Last night, i had another dream, and in this dream I was able to fly higher!..not as high as I used to, but it was so much more comfortable and It felt good. I feel like i'm on the right track of not being with him and focusing on my singing. What do you guys think? maybe some of you are able to read into things. Maybe tell what dreams mean? Sorry this was so long. Thank you for reading and for all the input :) (link)
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You don't need a guy that disrespects you. I've had those flying dreams before. It literally means that you're feeling free and intuitive. Go with your gut. It was good that you guys ended it. You need someone who respects your morals and loves you for your morals. good men will appreciate them. You need to concentrate what you want to do with life rather than worry about a guy who makes you feel uncomfortable. I'm happy you ended it. Gotta let me know who you are so when you make it big i'll buy your albums :)
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Okay i'm 15 years old and i recently became sexually active. I got my mom to put me on the pill. I was just finishing my first pack and was on my period until a Sunday. The next day, I had unprotected sex, but he didn't didn't blow inside of me. I was late starting my next pack of pills about one or two days. I immeditaly started again though, all throughout the pack i was having unprotected sex. Well, it's the end of my pack and i'm supposed to be on my period but it hasn't started yet...
Could I be pregnant?
What is the most likely time of your cycle to get pregnant?
Any other information would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. (link)
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Yes, you could be pregnant. you're supposed to start the pack on time, every time.
the 'no hormone' pills at the end of the pack help you start your period, and you're NOT supposed to have sex when you're taking the no hormone pills, because it has NO EFFECT, except to help you start your period. you really should be more responsible, and have your partner help you remember, because it is his responsibility too. you need to take a pregnancy test.
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I'm 15/f and i've been masturbating for soo long now(nothing like fingering, just rubbing). For maybe a couple months ago my vagina started itching and whenever i got my period, the itching would stop. I'm going to stop masturbating. The itching got to a point where I would itch and when I pee it would burn my vagina. Now, I get the feeling when I pee I still have to pee like a couple minutes later even when it's like not even that much pee. I just want to know if this will go away over time. I even bought the original Vagisil because I told my mom that it itched but didn't tell her why (I don't want my family to know about the masturbating)and if they bring me to a doctor i'm afraid he's going to ask me something about that so i'm trying to avoid that! Has anyone else experienced this? Any advice on what to do? (link)
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its probably a bladder infectio. nothing to worry about, he will not ask you those questions.
ive had a bladder infection before and it seems like that. and if you don't take care of that, something very serious can happen.
if its not that, then it may be a yeast infection.
or maybe your vagina is sensitive to what you are washing it with.
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All my friends are boy crazy 7 idnt know what to do! They ditch me at lunch to sit with the boy that they like and I end up sitting by myself.They ignor me when I talk and they never even say hi to me.What do I do? (link)
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you should talk to one of your best friends about that. talk to her and let her know that youve been feeling neglected lately.
i would tell her exactly how i feel
and if she didnt want to make adjustments, then I would find different friends. like join a club at school or go sit randomly with other people. thats what i did when that happened to me.
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I'm 17/f and I just recently started dating this guy who's also 17. I know I'm getting him a CD for Christmas but what else should I get him?
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video game
and your cd is a good idea.
also, an itunes gift card if he has an ipod
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i'm looking for a foundation that makes my skin look really healthy and a bit tanner and is oil free because i have really oily skin. does anyone have any suggestions? should i go with a powder or liquid? and what brand and kind be specific please thank youu. (link)
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revlon colorstay with softflex for oily skin
and just pick out your tone.
can range from 7 to 12 dollars :D
11 dollars and tax at target
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my best friend is a vegetarian and she really doesn't eat much besides salad, fruit and macaroni and cheese. she does complain about feeling week sometime and she gets sick a lot! i know she needs protein but she refuses to eat anything with protein in it. what can i do? im nervous for her health! (link)
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your friend cant refuse to have food with PROTEIN in it
that sounds like she wants to lose weight.
and is harming herself.
she needs to read up more on vegetarianism.
if she is a vegetarian that accepts dairy products
she should try eggs, reduced fat or skim milk, whatever she prefers ( i would choose reduced fat)
also she can eat peanuts, which have plenty of protein.
she NEEDS protein
she cant live without it
she can live without meat.
but youll dye if you live without protein
no one can be a good healthy vegetarian unless they eat bananas (if your a girl, you NEEEED the potassium)
apples, oranges
and she could take prenatal vitamins
(its a lot cheaper rather than buying a bunch of bottles, and dont worry, prenatal vitamins are nothing to harm non pregnant girls, they are just filled with a bunch of good stuff)
she could try protein shakes?
if she is too lazy,
she needs to have some kind of talk with health advisors,
parents, or whatever
or find a good book on vegetarianism with meal ideas
if she doesnt look up on meal ideas and all the facts and what she needs to do, she wont be able to maintain this kind of lifestyle.
also,
her hair can fall out
if she doesnt have enough protein.
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my boyfriend and i had sex today, unfortunately when he pulled out there was cum on his stomach; meaning, the condom broke. he says he's 95% sure he pulled out before then, but there was a hole although the cum was on the condom & his stomach. i'm terrified and so is he. i'm not sure what i'm asking, whether it's your opinion or not, but i'm pretty sure that it would be inside me and not him? nothing was sticking from me to him so i'm just hoping that wasn't that. when i checked around my vagina, i found a lot of discharge - i THINK it was discharge - because it was odorless unlike cum.
i'm gonna wait 2 weeks for the test, but also my period since the first day i got it this month was about two weeks ago.
thanks for taking your time. (link)
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you could be!
take plan b
in america you don't need a prescription if youre 18 or over.
you have a three day window to take plan b!
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