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My friends story:

It started off in a friends birthday
My friend lets call her Happy
She is very bright and the person that makes you smile, friend
She wanted to see if her friends would noticed if she was gone for a long time
She called this a game to her to see if they were friends that would worried for her
She went outside and hid somewhere, where no one would see
She waited for minutes and then she heard people yelling and my friend Happy knew that they had started hitting the pinata already
Happy still waited for them
Then a few minutes after the hitting of the pinata stopped she went back inside
By the time she went inside they already sang the birthday song to the birthday person
Happy went to a seat and just sat
2 minutes later her friends started to leave the party and Happy was like ok bye and she went home and just cried the whole day

Did you think her friends were her friends ?
Thanks for reading
I just want to see if they were really her friends
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well i think that her friends probably were a little preoccupied with their time that they didn't realize she was gone. because this was a party, they probably were distracted by the pinata and cake/singing happy birthday to realize that their friend had gone missing. it's possible that some of the friends did look around for her to try and see if she was there but didn't think anything of her being gone for a little while because they saw her at the end of the party. people might've asked around to see if anyone had seen her, too, but forgot that they hadn't seen her when they saw her again and just didn't bring up not seeing her for a while.

i'm sure that they are friends, but just were a little distracted at the time to realize what had happened.


I'm a bit underweight and I'm doing my best to gain. The problem is that I really don't like eating meat. I like eating chicken and turkey, but that's really about it. Is there anything I can do to bump up my nutrition without having to eat beef?? I do eat a lot of fruits & veggies, but are there any other foods I can try to replace beef?? Thank you!! (link)
i'm a vegetarian and struggle with nutrition issues constantly. you want to make sure you get enough protein in your diet- which can be found in peanut butter and beans. (or any kind of nuts) also, if you don't eat fish you need to make sure you get a lot of iron in your diet. i'm not sure any specific foods that are high in iron (other than fish) but they make iron pills that you can take daily. a variety of different fruits and veggies can also help with getting your nutrition. different colored fruits and vegetables contain different chloroplasts and chromoplasts that your body needs. green peppers, kiwis, strawberries, bananas, melons, apples, etc. all very good! hope i helped!


THIS QUESTION IS FOR ALL CATHOILICS
okay so ive been doubting the existance of god. I mean i know im supposed to beleieve hes real and all, but i just....havent been lately. This is my theory "If thousands of other gods in the world exist to other people, how am i suposed tot rust that this one exists too?!"
i really need osme help because i just dont trust my faith and i really really want to.
I beleieve, but i doubt more. (link)
hi, i'm not a catholic, but i felt like i could answer this question. I went through a period of questioning just like you are which ended up making me agnostic(leading towards atheism) i hope that this exclamation doesn't prevent you from reading the rest of my answer because i know a few people who refuse to talk or look at atheists. there is a quote that your question reminds me of that is "When you understand why you dismiss all the other possible gods, you will understand why I dismiss yours." this quote says to me that when Christians ask me why i "dismiss" their god, or don't believe in Him, i can only answer with "why don't you believe in any other gods? why does yours prevail?" there is a lot of controversy over gods and what exists. personally i believe things that are proven by science and fact. god has no scientific proof to his existence so it makes me question him. if you are interested there is a movie that you can watch on the internet called zeitgeist that supposedly proves why gods do not exist (i have heard a lot about it but haven't seen it). some people tell me that i'm going through a phase and my faith will return (i was once christian) and this may be true. if you're having problems with your faith, questioning and reading more into your religion and faith can help you find answers. if you talk to a Priest or a religious figure about your doubt, they can also help you. and contrary to popular belief, agnostics and atheists can be good people, just like christians, with the same morals and hold themselves with high regard- so don't fear change if it comes! this response might not have given you any help, but if you have more questions feel free to drop a question in my inbox. hope i helped!


I need help! Im 13 and all my freinds have gotten there periods but not me. My boobs are big and my sister and my mom got there periods while they were 11. Why am i the only left out one. I read a whole bunch of articals and i predict i will get mine in 6 months minimum. But please help in any way possible! (link)
periods are really different for every girl. my mom and both my grandmas didn't get theirs until they were 16, and my sister was 16 when she got hers. i was 14 when i got mine, so it's all different. i would enjoy the time you have without it because it becomes a nuisance once you get it :)


hi. 15/m. i eat my breakfast at about 7.30am, and after the the next time i eat is about 1/1.30 pm, because im at school and my lunch time is at 1pm. But by 10.30/11ish im really hungry, and at about 12, my stomache starts to rumble, and tis really embarrasing because sometimes the class is quiet and it starts making noise. i need something that will keep me fuller for longer. even oats wont work, ive tried virtually everything you can eat bor breakfast, and it doesnt work. any suggestions? (link)
this happens to me too.
if you can't have food with you, or eat for that matter, what i do is i'll have mints or gum with me.
if my stomach feels like it's going to growl i usually hold my breathe or take a few deep breathes or move around until the feeling is gone. mints and gum also help me a lot. i guess the flavor and association with real food calms my stomach down :)


Hi.
I dont know what to be for halloween- or if i want to go at all. 11/f. I mean i like the free candy and stuff but i mean- i like walking/exersizing but i cant stand walking in a costume. Does anyone know about any costume ideas that are comfortable? or if i should go at all?
Thanks.
-Halloween Helpless (i dont usually put a name but it sounds cool :D) (link)
there is only one costume that i know of that is comfortable.
you wear a pink shirt and pink pants pink shoes and a pink hat
on top of the hat you duct tape a flip flop
and go as "bubble gum stuck to a shoe"
haha XD
sorry if this doesn't help, but it's the only one i know!


what are some places to hangout at besides movie fair mall bowling car park etc


thanks a bunch ;) (link)
my friends and i usually go downtown to hangout. There are lots of little coffee shops with great atmosphere where we can sit around, hang out, and play games. (great for rainy nights!) there are also a lot of restaurants in our downtown that we go to between just walking around, and hanging out. if the weather permits, outside is a great place to hang out. if you go downtown and just walk around, or walk around anywhere outside it should be fun.


What does John Proctor do for a living?
What was Reverend Hale's mood when he came to Salem?
Why did Mary Warren withdraw her tesimony agains the investigation?
Why did Proctor confess his affair?
Which character pushed to start the investigations but later condemed them?
What did Ann Punam do to discover what happened to her children?
Which of the accused is never exectued?
How does Elizabeth Condem herself?

I think I know Some of these answers, but PLEASE help... I will really appreciate it!! (link)
-he was a farmer
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-the girls were threatening her by accusing her of being a witch
-to try to denounce abigail's testimony
-hale
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-she lies about proctor's affair

sorry those are the only answers i know, hope i helped


My boyfriends birthday is coming upreally soon.
we have been together for one year on that day

so i am taking him out dinner
but i still dont know a present i can get him

there are no concerts coming up.
and he has every CD possible..
any ideas? (link)
if you know his favorite number color movie song or anything you did together a good present would be..

ex. fav color blue and number 23

get him 23 blue things

or

fav number 8.. get him 8 things that revolve around all his favorite things.

you can just get small things.. like a notebook, and write him a note. a pen, candy, anything.

you can add in things you've gone through together, you've experienced, a movie you saw in theaters together.. anything like that =]

or if he's turning say 18
you can get him 18 things.

hope i helped!


my boyfriend is turning 17 this month, and i have no idea what to get him for his birthday. i know everything about him yet i have no idea what to get for him. i cant get him a cd or something like that because he knows songs but not bands, so im not really sure what he is REALLY into. i dont want to have to get clothing because then i have to find out sizes, and i would rather not get a gift card because i think they are very impersonal. i was going to give him a cd that i burned with songs that say how i feel about him, but i have already done that. he likes the washington redskins. i would like something thoughtful and not to expensive that he will really like. any ideas? please and thank you. 15/F (link)
well depending on how long you've been together, something really cute to do would be to put together a scrapbook of pictures of the two of you and maybe little items like ticket stubs from movies you saw together.. or small things that remind you of him.

you could also invite him over and set up a romantic dinner and cook for him and then watch a movie just at your house.

those are both really romantic ideas and just fun to do at home.


ok ever since it turned summer here ( arkansas ) i have been losing weight. in the winter, i was 114 and now that it is summer i am 109. is this bad that i am losing weight? (link)
it's fine. a lot of people get more exercise during the summer because it's better weather to be outside. swimming, riding bikes, taking walks, playing outside.. it all adds up =]

plus your weight can flucuate within 5-10 pounds just for no reason!

i'd get concerned if it was dropping 15 pounds or more.


okay so i've heard rumors that if someone has tear drops tattooed under their eye, it means their in a gang or killed someone. is that true? (link)
well i think this all originated from the movie Crybaby with Johnny Depp. i haven't seen the full thing, but at one point he gets thrown in jail and has a tattoo of a teardrop placed under his eye.

sorry i'm not more help, but i found that interesting..


finals are next week...
how do i stay focused to study¿ (link)
night before get a lot of sleep.
in the morning eat a good breakfast- if you're hungry during the test it's always distracting.
take peppermints- they help you stay focused and help if you DO get a little hungry.

also
there is this drink called Vitamin water.
try drinking the pink one, it's called focus.
i'm not sure how much it will help or affect you
but it helped me on my math midterm!



So we're selling our house.. and i have stickers on my door, and i need to know how to get them all off so my door looks normal again. please help. (link)
take your hair dryer and put it up against the stickers- it should warm up the glue and make it easier to get the stickers off.


Everytime I look really "nice/good/pretty/stylish/glamorous" my friends always spot something on me. Like a little bit of smudged eye liner, or peanut-butter breath, messy hair, lipgloss not on the lips, or make-up prob. Its just so annoying. I hate it. I wish they would just compliment me. but they always find something. So I try to look good but then they always are so mean. I always feel bad after they told me that and embarassed. Its like they never have something to say nice to me. what should i do about this? (link)
as hard as it seems to believe this, they're just jealous. they see that you have worked hard in making yourself up and they feel threatened. They don't want you to steal the spotlight, which you are doing =].

maybe next time just ignore them and try thinking that they're just jealous which i know is hard and you still feel bad, but you have to be confident in yourself!


I feel really awkward when people ask me about my religion and stuff because i'm agnostic and don't think there is a way to prove if god is real or not. I really don't want to tell my friends that because most of them are really religious and i'm scared they wouldn't like me if I did. Why do people think it's such a big deal if you don't believe in god? I don't know if I should tell them or not. (link)
i know how you feel- i've gone all my life (14 years, after 14 i became agnostic) with eople thinking i'm christian it wasn't until recently that i REALLY thought about it and decided to become agnostic. and frankly im pushing atheism.

Christians in particular are the ones who bug me about religion. As the people who told me say, "All Christians want everyone to go to heaven, so we have to spread the word so we are not the only ones going to heaven." and i have a hard time believing there is a heaven. but just tell them that you are entitled to your own beliefs and that they should respect it because you are not questioning theirs.

what has helped for me is that i have started to attend a Unitarian Universalist Church. They practice every religion and do not discriminate. i actually enjoy it there, and now when people ask where i go to church, i tell them. but most people also think that Unitarians are weird. and i guess you just have hold your ground and not let other people influence you no matter WHAT they think.


May I still consider myself vegetarian if i do not eat chicken, turkey or beef, but I still eat fish ocasionally? (link)
no- fish counts as meat too you can check out peta2.com for other definitions of different versions of vegetarians. but a vegetarian means not meat or fish


Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers (link)
Yes- my last boyfriend and i broke up after 3 days because it just wasn't working. We're like best friends now and we can talk about whatever. I still care about him, and he cares about me, but we aren't going out. The most certainly CAN be friends.




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