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hurtful mother
I swear my mother is really hurtful I can't take her anymore. I feel so offended by what she does. WHy can't she just leave me alone. I hate her. I just feel really annoyed by her and I don't even have anyone to talk to
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Everyone goes through stages of hating their mam. Its perfectly normal since you live with her, living with sumone 24/7 can make you both want to kill each other.
You don't need to talk to her, it will probably just make her annoy you more from her response (ive been in the same situation). What you really need to do is get out and socialise with friends, or visit other members of the family. You need space and time away from her... it would probably benefit you both!
good luck xx
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You'll get over it.
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Dear,in pain I'm very sorry to hear that but maybe your mother is being stressed out by something going on...i wish i could be more help but i don't have much information on the subject if you wish to talk more here's my email Kakashi_hero_narutofan13@hotmail.com...good luck i'll be keeping you in my prayers.
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Sounds to me like your mom is making a classic mom mistake. What that is that she is trying to prevent you from making mistakes that she herself has made or she sees parts of herself that she doesn't like in herself in you and so she attacks that.
As for what you can do about this problem I think that since talking to your mom doesn't seem to be working I would suggest that you sit down and write your mom a letter, leave out the hate and use concrete examples of what she does and says that hurt you, and makes you feel. Don't say "you make me feel..." instead phrase it as "when you say/do ... I feel ..." that way your not putting your mom on the defensive.
If you need help writing a letter or just talking out your feelings feel free to message me here and I will give you my email/msn address.
Sara
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trust me. the feeling soon passes. If you manage to stay mad at your parents for 2 days or more then there are serious problems. I can only stay mad at my folks for like a few hours, as usually i need to speak to them. What does your mum do? :)
lv Vicky x
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I dont know why some mom's are like this.
I mean its totally tearing down their kids confidence and its just not nice to be yelled at constantly and put down.
Try talking to your mom like this:
always say "I feel" not YOU MAKE ME FEEL!
but "I feel that everytime you put me down, it REALLY hurts my feelings." or whatever she says.
Sometimes people dont realize when they are hurting other peoples feelings.
If you need someone to talk to Im here!
Kaylehmae - Aim
And my msn and yahoo are on my advice column :]
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