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IM HERE TO ANSWER AND ASK QUESTIONS. I THINK SOMETIMES IT TAKES AN OUTSIDE OPINION TO FIND THE ANSWER THAT U ARE LOOKING FOR! I AM VERY EXPERIENCED IN MANY AREAS OF LIFE SO HIT ME UP FOR ADVICE ANYTIME!!!
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Wat type of hair color did u use 2 turn your hair green?
Believe it or not....it was Feria im pretty sure. I just use the cheap Revlon $2.97 per box stuff now and it works great.
okay i have lots of questions!!
i've only like put the penis in my mouth, & ill go up an down for like a minute but then im too scared, i dont want to bite him..(my boyfriend, of 3 months) and like..what exactly am i spossed to do? im scared im not doing it right or it doesnt feel good
the further down you can go......the better. use your tongue a lot and make sure u actually suck. dont just go up and down. :)
while me and my bf have sex, hell cum inside. and im on birth control. but after sex and were done i have to quickly grab a towel and have it thea for when he pulls out. after the sex, i leak. like my body rejects the semen or somethin. its not like im a slut or anything and it happens because im loose, because i lost my virginity to him in just december. it wasnt like this for the first couple months but then it started happening. and like i stp leakin for a lil while after i clean up, but it still comes out when i walk around, like 5 mins after.... i dont know.. is this normal??? or is something wrong with me???
its normal.......dont worry..
i am honestly the most jealous girl in the world-
my boyfriends amazing so i dont even know why im like this at all but does anyone know ANYTHING! that could possibly help me to not feel this way..its ruining my life..
I had problems with Jealousy in the past. It felt like an overwhelming fear that my partner was looking or wanted someone else. It is very hard to just stop being jealous. But, just keep telling yourself that he loves you and ask him if he will help you with these moments of jealousy by re-assuring you that you are the only girl for him. Im not a professional, but i have lived it. That helped me. And i had very low self-esteem at the time as well. Now i feel better about myself because i have realized that beauty IS in the eye of the beholder. And there is no one more attractive then you in the eyes of your true love.
I've been with Mark for over 3 years, we've lived together for 2 1/2. Lately, I've been changing things in my life. I've applied for college, I'm getting a new job, its like a new chapter in my life after a year of being stuck at home, miserable and feeling like I'd lost myself. I've been questioning our relationship for awhile now, and we've talked about it. He's even agreed to go to therapy with me to figure it all out. He's wonderful. Great personality, makes me laugh. He's completely devoted to me. But we're both realizing that we don't really have anything in common, as far as hobbies, where we go out, etc. Maybe we're just not comprimising anymore. A normal weekend involves me going out to the clubs with my friends (I love to dance and yes, I'm a social drinker, he HATES both) and he goes out with his (to movies and book stores). We don't see each other. I love to go hiking and other outdoorsy things, he hates it. He'll try to make me happy and go anyway but its just OK because I can tell that he's not having fun. And I don't pretend to enjoy Toys R Us. Our sex life is non- existant. I feel like I'm not attracted to him physically anymore. Like maybe we're not sexually compatible anymore? Is that possible? Sex is very important to us and should be, I know we feel less close because of this. The thing that confuses me is, when we got together, this was a non issue. Don't get me wrong, he's NOT a beast, he's cute, but I guess you could say his personality is what got me. Thats how its always been with me, I'm much more about personality, which is why I can't figure out what my problem is.
I was happier then, we were happier 2 years ago. I think maybe I'm dependent on him, or comfortable and don't want to lose his huge part in my life. I have friends, but not good friends I can talk to about this, I don't know that I would if I did, things like this are so personal to us. He's the only person I share everything with and I get panicky when I think of not having him. He's my best friend and I love him, but don't know if I'm in love with him, as they say. He knows this, and I'm sure it tears him down, walking around wondering if I'm really in love with him. He wonders why I won't let him touch me. He thinks I think he's disgusting or something and this whole thing breaks my heart. I care about him so much and don't want to hurt him and turn our lives upside down. We've acheived so much together. We've got pets together, a car, a home...
I'm hurting him anyway I know. I'm afraid that I'll leave him and that that will be the biggest mistake of my life. Mark wouldn't take me back and I'll have lost him forever over something shallow like physical attractiveness or hobbies or because he's not the life of the party I wish he were. But he's not giving me ultimatums or getting upset with me. If we have a serious relationship discussion one night, the next day, he pretends like it didn't happen. Mark pretends a lot of whats going on isn't really. I don't know how to work on us, most of the time I don't know if I even want to. I think alot about being single, on my own again. When I think about working it out with him, I'm a little disappointed. But when I think of not being able to talk to him whenever, hug him, laugh with him, I cry and cry and get anxious and sick. I hate to think that he thinks he's done something wrong. This was too long a long time ago and I'm sorry. Please someone tell me, does this relationship sound like its over? Thank you.
It sounds like what i went through. I was married for 8yrs(got married at 17). Just divorced in Feb this year. It was the same exact situation. So, i chose to leave. Since then i have found that i was too dependant on him and now that makes it harder for me on my own. But the problem was, he allowed it from the time that i was 15(when him and i met in high school). I broke his heart. It was the hardest thing i have ever gone through and a lot of times, i wish i never did it. So, seeing that you sound a lot like me. If there is no compromise in your relationship.....it may very well come to its demise. I know it sounds like i rambled on about myself but i was just trying to show you that i can relate to your situation. If you truly love someone, you cant leave them.
I'm almost 21 and I admit it my boyfriend and I don't always use a condom, but I've been on the pill for years and never had an issue. Till recently when I was sick, the Dr gave me antibiotics but didn't tell me that they would make my birthcontrol inaffective. To make matters worse I forgot to start my newest round of pills after my last cycle. For two weeks now I've been waiting patiently for any signs that my period is coming and nothing has happened other than nausa and dizzyness, and being un able to zip up a dress I made a month ago. I haven't had the courage to take the test yet, mostly cause I'm pretty positive about what it will say. But now here comes the hard part how do I tell my boyfriend that by this time next year we could very well be parents, how do I tell him that because of one little known fact and my preoccupation with my job on campus that our whole lives are about to change. I need some advice from people outside of my cirlce of friends and family someone who has nothing to gain or lose.
First of all, if you are def. pregnant, congrats! I have been trying to conceive for 10 yrs. and still no baby. There really is no way to cushion the blow of an un-planned pregnancy. Honestly, most guys act the same at first. They either immediately state how they are "not ready" and how they "dont think its the right time financially" blah blah blah. But there are times that the guy will actually understand and just buck up and be a man. If you can determine which type of guy you have, then you can go from there. Type 1(not ready for baby)--simply state the circumstances and let him know that you are the one that has to carry this child. From your statement above it sounds to me like you would deffinitely be keeping the baby. So, Let him know that you are not planning on terminating it or giving it up for adoption. With type 1 you have to be firm. But then let him know that he can take some time to figure out what he wants. Because you cant make him stay, but you can make him pay. Who wants a man around that cant grow up anyhow?--------Type 2(real man)--this should be quite simple. Simply explain the situation and if he is truly genuine, he will stand by you 100%. Now, sometimes you will have a mix of type 1 and 2(this is usually the guy that is scared at first but then comes around in time and totally accepts the baby). In that case tell him your pregnant, he can take it or leave it. And then give him time to take it all in. He will come to terms with the fact that he is going to be a father. Good luck. And take care.
ok like i said before in one of my questions i have a good friend of mine that i like, and im starting to like him even more than i did. The thing was that i heard that he liked some other girl and i kinda got jealous but i got over it.. and he said that that girl was just pretty and that he didnt like her.. the other friend that i have that knows that i liked him went up to him and sneakly asked this.. she said do you think the girl that you said is pretty is the only girl thats pretty you never say anyone else is pretty so she said do you think im pretty he said yes and she said do you think shes pretty and she pointed to one of my other friends and he said hell no and then my friend asked him if he thought i was pretty and he said i cant really judge her because shes like on the inside a brother from another mother.. because im a lil bit of a tomboy.. but that answer really makes no sense to me. its really weird because my friend who asked him who was pretty hes really good friends with her and he gave her an answer but i dont get why he didnt give her an answer about me...also i dont really kno if i should tell him that i like him or not because i dont want him to be like eww.. but he stairs at me a lot it also could be that i act goofy and he laughs at most of the stuff i do... so please could someone help me out
It sounds to me like this girl might be lying to you about what he said. Hey if she is going to dance with him, knowing that you like him....i wouldnt put it passed her. I think you should get him in a game of truth or dare...hehe. :)
So I love my boyfriend very much but sometimes he's just always there. Latched on to me like a leech. Don't get me wrong.. I do love it that he pays attention to me soo much, but I do want to have some space sometime. But he seems to always be there all the time trying to pull me so close that our skin could be melted together. Please help me. I don't know how to tell him that I want space, without hurting his feelings.Btw we've been going out for almost 11 months.
Sounds to me like he really enjoys being with you. There really isnt anything wrong with that. Just tell him the truth. If he gets angry then there is something wrong and you should consider taking a break.
Um. Well. I'm a 15 year old girl and I just started high school. And I met this fabulous guy in my english class. He's really great. He's adorable, funny, shares my political views, and nearly perfect. Nearly. He has a girlfriend. She doesn't go to our school, so I don't really know her or anything. It's really frustrating because I'm really ecstatic that I found a guy who's not a complete idiot. And I feel guilty because he belongs to another girl, and I feel that I shouldn't even look at him or else I'm somehow intruding. I am NOT looking to break them up. No matter how much it hurts, I would never sink that low. I really think I should get over him. But...I can't. Everytime I make a vow to get over him, I see him and I'm instantly enamoured again. ...He has the most beautiful smile. The heartmelting kind. None of my friends think he's cute because he's a little on the chubby side. He's not totally fat, mind you. NOT THAT THERE'S ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT. He's just a bit chubbier than the skinny emo guys that go to our school, ya know what I mean? And he has low self-esteem, which is weird because he is just so wonderful...But I really feel as if I have no chance. I don't know what his relationship is like with his girlfriend. For all I know, they could be happy and in love or they could be on the brink of a break-up. What should I do? Wait for them to break up? Move on, no matter how hard it will be?
I know this is horrible, but I'm secretly hoping for them to break up by the end of this month. You know, so I could make my moves on him in time for homecoming. I'm a horrible person, I know. But I need your advice. My friends don't understand. Thanks a bunch!
You never know, perhaps he has the same feelings and thinks the same about you(that he will never have a chance)! You should really look into this more......
This is strictly for the women on advicenators to answer. i am a male (21 years old) and I know it is typical of a guy to ask the question i have (in the title), and even more typical to be worried about it. i am not huge, nor am i claiming to be asking for a friend. i am average, maybe more, but i am thick. to make up for the lack of size, i give amazing oral until whomever i'm with reaches orgasm. my question is this; would a girl prefer a guy who is average but can really 'eat', or a guy who is well above average and only 'eats' about average? ( for those women who don't know, average length for a man is from 6-7" )
In my opinion, you sound like the perfect size. Think of this...there are large penis' and small ones and everything in between. The same goes for vaginas. There are tight ones, loose ones and in between. It all depends on the size of the vagina...if u think about it. If a girl is loose, of course she would like a larger penis. If a girl is tight, then she would get pleasure from a small penis. Technique is definitely key in pleasuring your partner. And, since you are exceptionally well at oral, you are like a dream guy for many girls. :)
me and my boyfriends 1 year is coming up! and i do not know what to get him!!! i cant get him anything, calone because the calone he has right now is like 130$ , i cant get him a watch because his watch is also very exspesive and i cant aford it, he dont wear ties, hes kind of wealthy so he pretty much has everything he wants so i dont know what to get him!!!! everytime he says something like " i want that" in the next day , he buys it! does anyone have any ideas or anything that will help?!?!?
detail his car for him, give him a romantic full body massage with some warming oil. cook him dinner...
I have ben hurt many times by guys. Too many times! I always seem to fall for the wrong type, and I really mean the WRONG type! They all seem great at first but then the truth comes out. My ex-boyfriends have either been phycos, nymphos, mythomaniacs, cheaters or just plain assholes!! I have lost count on how many night I have fallen asleep crying! I thought I had given up on boyfriends and then my present boyfriend came along and seems really nice and all. Sure, he cheated on me once in the begining of out relationship but that's normal for me now, I guess that's just a thing that guys do so I have him a second chance.
So now we are together and I can't seem to be happy when I'm with him!! I'm just waiting for when he is going to hurt me and how he's going to do it!
When ever I try to picture our relationship in the furutre I see me crying over him because he hurt me really bad somehow....
I have seriously no romance in me anymore! My previous boyfriends have crushed that! They have made me into a depressing person. I used to me known as the "really happy and fun girl" but that was a looooong time ago!
I try, I really try to be happy with my present boyfriend, he is nice and all but I can't seem to get there. What is wrong with me?!?!
They have crushed my spitit, my soul and a few times my will to live :'(
please help!!
I agree......if he cheated on you once, he will do it again. You definitely deserve better than this. Forget about all of the past relationships....take time to yourself. Get rid of him! You seem like a very loyal, sweet person...there is a guy out there that deserves you. Not this guy.
could you be pregnant and still have your period? or is that rare
my aunt had her period up until her 7th month of pregnancy... :)
Im 17. My mom keeps pushing me to get a job. I want a job, because I want to get a car. But I realise that once I get a car, Ill have to pay for insurance and gas, so basically once I start working, I wont stop until Im like 60. That makes me sad because Im not ready to grow up yet. In one year Ill be an adult and Im just not ready for bills, work, college, and other big responsibilities.
Any suggestions? =[
Start small,,,get a part time job and you will start feeling proud that you are paying your own way. It is a part of growing up and it scares all of us. But see it this way, if u start now, u wont be so afraid later. The longer you hold onto your momma's apron strings, the harder it is to let go. :)
I am a 23 year old female. I am happily married, but a few weeks ago, I made the mistake of having unprotected sex with someone other than my husband. I just found out that I am pregnant. I cannot keep the child because there is a good chance that my one-night-stand is that father. I want to have an medical abortion and disguise it as a miscarriage. My husband is a doctor, and I fear that he may be able to distinguish the difference between an induced miscarriage and a spontaneous one. What is the difference between a medical abortion and a spontaneous miscarriage?
An abortion is the procedure of removing the fetus with some type of vacuum device. A miscarriage is when the fetus dies in the womb and the body flushes it out naturally.
i really want to get a shampoo that straightens your hair. i don't have really wavy or curly hair, but its kinda wavy.idk it just annoys me. my cousin said something about a new garnier frutisse? (sp?) or i was thinking the purple sunsilk. idk. so could anyone tell me which one works better, and if there was any more good ones?
thanks xo
I just started using the purple sunsilk. My hair feels really healthy and it is straighter than it was. If you use a blow dryer and a brush it comes out really straight.. smells yummy too :)
ok soo me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and he thinks im to jealuos
-i hate this girl he use to like
-i hate that he whatches porn
-talks to other girls thats are sooo stuck up and snoby and thinks there hot errr!!
-talks about girls but jokingly he says!!
-stares at girls and then when i ask him what are you looking at hes all like umm i just thought i knew her!!
this stufff tottally drives me crazy i hate it do you think im to jealous and what should i do about it and do guys not like it when girls act jealous!!
Ya im the same way. There is no way im going to put up with my man thinking about, staring at, or flirting with another girl in a sexual way. I dont do it to him so i expect the same in return. I think there are all types of people in this world and there is nothing wrong with the way that you are. If we were all the same, it would be boring. You just have to find someone that has the same outlook as you do. It's funny, most guys that are like this hate it when their girlfriend looks at guys, flirts, etc. Good luck! :)
Hi, I think I have a big problem, but I have absolutely no idea how to beat it... see, I am totally obsessed with being on the computer. I have AIM, Yahoo Messenger, Windows Messenger, a website, and I have 4 email addresses. I know this is too much and I want to stop, but I don't know how. I spend half my day on the computer and because of it, I'm not as athletic as I used to be. What should I do??
-Computer Crazed
I too have a bit of an obsession for being on the computer. It seems as though, you get on and you get lost in it and next thing you know half the day is gone! Just shut it off and start doing all of the things you used to do. I know that is very cut and dry but it will work. You might also want to try and use a cooking timer and give yourself like a half an hour each day to be on it. Set the timer and when it goes off immediately shut the computer off. If you do this for two weeks it will become habit. You will find that you will be back into all of the things you used to be involved in...hope that helps even a little bit. :)
15/f
Okay so Idk what is wrong with me. Like Im convinced bad things are going to happen to me.
like when I'm 16 I cant get my license but i think to the future and picture myself getting into a car accident and like i actualy believe that this is going to happen to me.
And i read a story in seventeen magazine about a women getting murdered in her house and i think to myself oh that will prob. happen to me. like im convinced that something bad is going to happen. Like every bad situation I hear I make myself think its going to happen. Idk why but I dont think its healthy, and i freak myself out. Like I seriously think im going to prob. die in a car accident when i can drive.
please help!
OCD....Yes. But it sounds as though you also have anxiety disorder. I know it is scary i live with it every day. Check this site out http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Anxiety/definition.asp
And you will be ok. There are medications, Therapy, and other self-healing remedies to help you deal with this daily.
Sometimes my mom will say hurtful things to me and not even realize it.
"How can you possible have that many texts, you don't have more then 3 friends!"
(Keep in mind, this was after I just lost my boyfriend, best friend, and almost all of my friends so I was very upset from losing them)
"I would buy bigger jeans, you're getting fatter"
Even though I'm a size 1.
I've talked to her about this numerous times, but she just doesn't understand. What should I do?
First of all, being a size 1 is not fat at all! It sounds like she either had a tough childhood or she is unhappy with herself. Some parents expect more from their kids than they should. If you have talked to her numerous times about how you feel, and she still hasnt stopped, maybe you need to give her the same treatment. I know this sounds wierd but just cuz she is your mom that doesnt mean she can make u feel like total crap all the time. Tell her it's never too late to take some parenting classes. :)