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am i to jealous??
ok soo me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and he thinks im to jealuos
-i hate this girl he use to like
-i hate that he whatches porn
-talks to other girls thats are sooo stuck up and snoby and thinks there hot errr!!
-talks about girls but jokingly he says!!
-stares at girls and then when i ask him what are you looking at hes all like umm i just thought i knew her!!
this stufff tottally drives me crazy i hate it do you think im to jealous and what should i do about it and do guys not like it when girls act jealous!!
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NO guys hate it when you "act" jealous. they like to know that they are wanted by you, that you like him. and i don't mean by having sex with them. i mean by complemnting on their hair, new clothes, anything that you find attractive about them. but with this guy i don't like how he looks at these other girls if he does it once in awhile i don't see a problem with it because he may be telling the truth of how "he thought he knew her" but if he does it constantly i have this for you... BREAK UP! you are not to jealouse at all. what he is doing is wrong. but you shouldn't hate this girl he used to like either he is with you not her, and you have to realize that if he wanted her he could still be with her, but he is with you so that means something. with the porn, almost all guys are into it. not all but most. and it's just how guys are, sorry to tell you that, but it's true. with talking to these other girls, maybe they are friends, again he is with you not them, he talks about other girls? that is a sign that he is still very immuture, and that he is not fully ready for a realtionship. so you have 2 choices my friend. 1) stick around till he grows up or 2) dump him and find a guy who don't look at other girls and say that they are hot, and he complments you, and who treats you better. with the porn their are guys out there somewhere who are not so intreted in it. i wish you the best of luck.
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1. don't let the girl he used to like. if he still liked her he would've still liked her instead of you. so don't worry
2. haha. porn. don't be worried about that. he just watches that to pleasure himself
3. tell him that you're not comfortable that he's talking to girls that are so stuck up and snobby [as you say they are] and that he thinks they're hot.
4. same as number 3.
and i don't think your jealous. it's just something all girls have in their system..well hope i helped! enjoy your summer
<3christina
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-Don't let the other girl he used to like bother ypu. If he still liked her, he would have chosen her instead of you, so don't worry about it.
-Ha the porn thing is funny actually, it shouldn't bother you. here is why [ i don't know how old you are so sorry]. Don't let it bother you because if you do engage in sexual acts he may do something you enjoy that he learned from watching it.
- Again, say something to him about this, BUT don't let it bother you that much because again. he choose you over all them!
- Do it right back to him, and see how he likes it. Obviously he wouldn't so therefore he'll realize how you feel when he does it, and then he'll knock his shit off.
-Tell him to stop and that it's bothering you. talking is key in relationships.
well yeah, hope i helped :]
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i belive you are jealous. and its nothing to worry about because i no am to. you just got to put up with it. there really isnt anything you can do except try trusting him
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I would breake up with him i mean that is soo noyt right especially the pron part lol but whatever you choose to do is fine=]]
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If he's going out with you he shouldn't be staring at other girls. Simple as that.
If he can't deal with you being that way then he might not be someone you want to be with. I don't know him, so I can't tell you what kind of guy I think he is but from what you've said I think I'd be worried constantly about him cheating or such, and quite frankly, if you have to wonder about his loyalty he isn't worth it.
You are not being too jealous at all. Its him who has the problem. If he's with you he shouldn't care about other girls.
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If I had a boyfriend like that, I'd be acting just like you are. It's not exactly jealousy, you're just trying to keep what you have. Every guy is like that, we all just have to be able to trust them. I think you should try talking to him, tell him what you just told us. Good luck :)
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Ya im the same way. There is no way im going to put up with my man thinking about, staring at, or flirting with another girl in a sexual way. I dont do it to him so i expect the same in return. I think there are all types of people in this world and there is nothing wrong with the way that you are. If we were all the same, it would be boring. You just have to find someone that has the same outlook as you do. It's funny, most guys that are like this hate it when their girlfriend looks at guys, flirts, etc. Good luck! :)
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yeah to me it seems like your jealous but then again its normal for guys to act like that but some of the things you said aren't quite normal. just try talking to him and tell him how you feel when he does those things.
hope i help :)
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