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guy troubles..i guess
okay..so there's this guy that i've sorta always liked..and we dated at this beginning of this year but we broke up after like two weeks..and he told me a few days ago that he likes me and he wants me to ask him out or something cause he'll have more respect for me..anyways i really dont wanna get hurt like i did last time and i want something that's going to last..and he says that he's tired of being single and he wants a relationship..but i dont know if i should believe him or not. so what do you think i should do?
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well honey in a way he sounds fake I'm sorry but you should never ask a guy out let him ask you out if he really said that he don't wanna be single and he wants a relatioship why can't he prove it tp you by sayin sorry for the past or bringin flowers... has he benn showin that he wants to bewith you like always callin you to show that he's changed and bein serious... well I hope I helped just wanna say that just be really careful like notice how different he is this time even the smaleest thing ever... don't get heartbroken and ooo yea if hes yall been broken up for more than month then it won't be a good idea because you don't know what he has done in between you get me well bye =)
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lol. tell him you'll have more respect for HIM if he buys you flowers! and chocolate! and presents!
but really, maybe you two should just date (movies and stuff) without going steady?? just an idea.
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he wants you to ask him out because he'll have more respoect for you that way? Sounds like a bit of a muppet. If he wants a relationship with you why hasn't he got his act together and asked you out? If on the other hand he just wants any old "relationship" it's most likely you're ust quite convenient and asking him out rather than the other way around makes it more convenient still, something for him to just fall in to and, yes, probably fall out of again just as quickly as before. Sorry.
Why did you break up before? Just because he was flaky or some bigger reason? Either way, has anything changed?
I know it's the answer everyone gives but if you really think it's worth a shot ya need to talk talk talk. If he or you can't talk properly and openly about this then I really wouldn't bother getting in to this again because you will get your heart bruised. Again. As the ol' saying goes "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me".
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why did you guys break up in the first place??
it depends on what happened the first time and if its somthing that he did then i dont think you should consider getting back with him if it hurt you too much...unless its somthing that you know he wont do again....and the whole thing about him wanting you to ask him out just so that he'll respect you more??....wow okay i've never heard anything like that before...even if you didnt ask him out he still should respect you and treat you the same way if he liked you like that...
when you say that he wants a relationship and is just tired of being single it seems that to him it doesnt matter who hes with...he just wants to be in one...
if you want to get back with him you should make sure he likes you and will resepect you AnD you know that it will last...
good luck! and hope i helped =)
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