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Question Posted Friday January 26 2007, 8:38 pm

I have two best friends and now everything is changing between us. We all three have boyfriends. Amy is always like her boyfriend and I never get to hang out with her anymore and when we actually do get to talk it's always about her boyfriend. Andrea, my other best friend is not as bad its just I dont want to lose them. My boyfriend seems to be not interested in me or something. He never calls me to hang out and then always has an excuse. He would rather play videeo games, or cheat on me I guess. (he is known for cheating). But I dont know what to do because if I break up with him then I will be by myself at school with no one to talk to because my friends will be with there boyfriends.

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LoveMeDo answered Sunday January 28 2007, 2:04 pm:
Well you DEFINENTALY (sp?)should not stay in a relationship just because you don't want to be alone. You may feel alone at frist, but it's better than being in an unhappy realtionship. As for your friends...sadly, this stuff happens. All you guys can do is keep making efforts to stay together.Hope I helped!

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chrissabelle37 answered Sunday January 28 2007, 1:50 pm:
Hey. If your boyfriend never wants to hang out with you and is always cheating on you he is a jerk that you don't deserve. He's probably making you even more depressed that your friends have good relationships with their boyfriends and yours is a jerk. I'm sure you can do much better then him and I would definitely break up with him. Find a nice guy that treats you right this way you'll have someone to brag about to your friends too. Just kidding. =). Anyways, right now your friends are probably so happy to have boyfriends (like you were at first) that this is why it's all they ever talk about. Give it time and this will wear off. I mean of course they'll still talk about them but probably not as much as they do now. Please find a guy that will treat you right too! I really hope this helped and good luck! =)

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LoveableHottBaby answered Friday January 26 2007, 10:04 pm:
i think you should break up with him if hes like that...you shouldnt stay with him if your only reason is that your worried who youre gonna talk to...make new friends and talk to new people...and your friends will be there for you and will still talk to you if they're good friends but dont stay with him if thats the only reason why...

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illdomybest answered Friday January 26 2007, 9:58 pm:
you should never choose to stay in a relationship because your scared. im asuming this is probably new do you guys and think that your friends are just overwhelmed by having a boyfriend.boyfriends come and go but if your friends are really your friends then you wont lose them. if you really think this guy is cheating on you then break up with him its for the better and really not worth it and youll find and go through other guys and eventually find the right one.it just might take some time and digging but not having a boy friend isnt a big deal. its better to be single and happy then taken and unsatisfied and having to worry if that persons cheating on you.maybe you should suggest to your friends that you guys just go somewhere with anyone if they decline tell them how you feel. you might have to find other people to occupy your time while they go through this phase.it doesnt mean break away from them but it doesnt hurt to talk to other people to and to make new friends while keeping your old ones.

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coconutcatastrophe answered Friday January 26 2007, 9:53 pm:
well, if your boyfriend is cheating on you the best thing for you would definetly to break up with him, especially for a reason like this. if your friends are good friends then when they hear about your break-up they'll feel bad for you and they'll spend more time with you. if they don't you should talk to them about it. say something like "hey well i was just wondering if you wanna hang out more because ever since we broke-up i've been all by myself." if they're the best friends you say they are they will hang out and comfort you.


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advice_wizard answered Friday January 26 2007, 9:49 pm:
break up with him and schedule time with your friends, if theyre really your friends theyll make time.

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