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im really scared


Question Posted Wednesday July 27 2005, 5:47 pm

Hi my name is jess my sister was going out with this kid named rob and they just broke. Well until after they broke she found out he was one of those stalker people. Today he broke into my house and my sister and i locked ourselves in my moms room and he kept banging on the door so my sis called the police. Well they came and caught hijm and we didnt press charges but they said if he steps one foot on this property again he will be arrested. i was crying when this happened cause i was afraid he had a weapon. Im really afarid he will do this agin. How can i get over this really scary moment im scared ut of my pants right now?
plz hurry love jess


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LongLostHeart answered Friday July 29 2005, 10:47 pm:
Ah,another Jess...It would be my honor to help.
First,I suggest you get a security system for your house.
Maybe even a gaurd dog or two..one in the house and one outside.
Always keep all windows locked.
Lock all doors at night.
Keep a weapon (ex: bat,mace/pepper spray,even a gun for your parents) in your room and near doors.Also you can carry a small blade and pepper spray in your purse.
Take martial arts lessons...they make you stronger,more confident and prepared.
Hope I helped,Jess
~Long Lost <3

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hottie_blondie answered Thursday July 28 2005, 9:56 am:
oh my god. He did.. I hope you and your sister are ok. Well my advice is .. if you have a relitive close by.. go live with them..
for like a week. He wont know. If you have a dog,.. thats really good. Because they bark and stuff.

I hope you and your sister are ok.. I hopefully know you will be safe.
I hope i really helped
x0x3
Sam

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polly_pocket answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 10:37 pm:
dont worry you are protected 100 % of the time and if any thing happens again he will get his butt thrown in jail he cant do any thing to you belaive me if he could they would have already put him in jail for doing that so sorry about what happened and hope my advice helps
if you have any questions you can email me at heather_luvs_u123@yahoo.com or my friend brittany_angel12345@yahoo.com

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britt_any345 answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 10:33 pm:
aww I am so sorry this happened to you just like every one else said

buy a alarm
keep some one always by your side at all times
and remember if he does step foot in your nabor hood he will be put in jail if you have any questions just ask

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xomellanie answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 9:42 pm:
Those stalker ppl can be really dangerous. You and your sister just have to stick together. and try to trust God to take care of everything. This stalker dude obviously has issues, so maybe he needs to get some help. But hopefully, the cops scared him off for good.
<3

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brittany_x31 answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 9:30 pm:
the same thing happened to me but I wasn't home but what you have to be SURE of this what you can do is
keep your doors locked at all times
keep your windows locked to
always have some one with you
try to find a new house
get a animal that will attack people when they break in
get a alarm to know if this happens
get a weapon as quick as possible just in case if he/she brakes in again
park a car out side so they think that that some one is home well these are some things you can do to prevent this from happening hope my advice helps and if you have any questions you can email me at
brittany_angel12345@yahoo.com or you can write me in my inbox

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gUeSsHoO278 answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 7:34 pm:
wow i would be scared too...but just make sure you keep your doors & windows locked all the time for right now. Don't stay home alone..make sure you always have your sister with you and even when you go somewhere, dont let your sister go alone...thats really dangerous...I hope you guys stay safe( :

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miketheman answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 7:09 pm:
You need to face your fears and put some trust in the government when they say that they will arrest him if he steps one foot on your property again. If you pass him in the halls in school then try to stay as far away from him as possible

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Patron_saint_of_Squirrels answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 6:28 pm:
well, i don't know If you are religious or not, but i would suguest praying for comfert and saftey for yourself and your sister, maybe getting a preisthood blessing.

you might try getting a restraining order, keepign the doors/windows locked. stay close to your sister.

hope i helped
Ally

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Teza answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 6:25 pm:
After that happend its okay to be scared. I mean everyone would! I'd freak out. But you will get over it. The police gave you their word and if he does it again he will be arrested. Keep thinking it wont happen and that you are safe. You know that your family is there to protect you so thats all you need right now. Just keep your doors and everything locked to make sure.

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spacefem answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 6:06 pm:
There's no garantee that they'll arrest him unless you get a restraining order, and get one fast! This guy is seriously crazy and even though it sucks to be scared, it's the right feeling to have right now. Why didn't you press charges?

Talk to the police about a restraining order quickly, that's my advice.

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x0xdReAmEr answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 6:02 pm:
TRY TALKiNG T0 S0MEB0DY iT SEEMS LiKE A BAD THiNG T0 D0 BUT iT WiLL HELP ! AND iN A COUPLE OF WEEKS Y0U WiLL FEEL SALF AGAiN TALK T0 Y0U SiSTER AB0UT iT 0R S0ME FRiENDS Y0U REALLY TRUST ! G00D LUCK ! H0PE i HELPED ! &hearts; X-0H

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