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old frien with new friends???
my friend is coming in to visit from out of state..shes lik a sister to me but im worrie about her and my friends getting along...i just dont want nething dumb to happen bc she wont be here long
advice needed desperately!
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I would tell your current friends about her so they'll be ready for her when she gets there. Tell them to make her feel uncomfortable. Also if you tell your friends a lot about her, they'll feel less weird when they actually meet her. Just keep your cool and dont worry!!! One step at a time.
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hey i had the same problem actually really recently...just talk to your friend from outta state n make sure shes ok with hangin out with your other friends and youll be fine....if you think about it she should be comfortable with your friends b/c you get along with the same kind of ppl...does that make sense...usually people get a long with people like themselves...yea im not making any sense..sorry....but talk to her and make sure shes ok with it and tell her that if she feels uncomforatble for a sec...to tell you..also pay attention to her attitude...you should be able to tell if shes ok with the sitution or not
Good Luck and have fun
Andi
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well usually all your friends have something in common but do what your old friend likes to do most likely your new ones will like it too
hope i helped love talktome224
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Well.. intruduce them. Dont talk to much about ur old close friend whos coming up.. they will get anoyed. If your friends here... ask a question to her. Make sure its a good question. If its not then just inturupt like soo you guys want to hang out soon. And make sure it the questions never come up. That leads to bad!
If u need more advice.. ask me !!
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Sam
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i know how you feel...sort of...i just went to visit old friends in UT and a lot of them changed...but if you and one friend have something in common and you and ur other friend have something in common also! so maybe you all like something the same. be sure to include both friends so if you and ur old friend try to catch tell your friend about what you and your friends do...hope i helped
Rachel
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All of your friends have to have something in common with you, so there is no reason a short visit should be ruined by your other friends. Maybe you should all plan an outing or a little party for all of them at once (pool, bbq, pedicure/manicure. Do things you know she likes to do and provide things you would like other people to do for you. Don't worry, just enjoy your friend's visit.
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Just don't worry about that just get together with you your new friends and her and just hangout and do whatever you do...if they do end up not mess well then just spend time with her, if she's not going to be here that long i don't think your friends would mind not seeing you for a couple days...it's understandable...I hope I helped!
~Linda
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She will probably get along fine with your friends. If she doesn't then just hang out with her while shes visiting since she won't be around long. :)
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