My name is Andi Im 18 and I'll be going to Sam Houston in the fall....get excited!! I love giving advice and I've been known be pretty good at it I can't tell you everything but I'll tell you what I think and hopefully that will help
Gender: Female
Location: Southlake
Occupation: College Student..HECK YES
Age: 18
AIM: dragontennis05
Member Since: June 13, 2005
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uhh it makes me so mad. i have lost almost 10 pounds and ALL of it went from my boobs.i normally have a full D and now i can hardly even fill up my D! is there anyway i can lose fat in other places? please please help. thanks in advance (link)
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When you lose weight one of the first things that goes...are the boobs...i know...it sucks i went from a D to a C but i lost 40lbs...as far as losing fat in other places...im not an expert but try concentrating on certain areas...work your abs and your arms...legs n ur butt...i dont really think i was much help but i do know that when women lose weight their boobs go first..Good Luck
Andi
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my friend is coming in to visit from out of state..shes lik a sister to me but im worrie about her and my friends getting along...i just dont want nething dumb to happen bc she wont be here long
advice needed desperately! (link)
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hey i had the same problem actually really recently...just talk to your friend from outta state n make sure shes ok with hangin out with your other friends and youll be fine....if you think about it she should be comfortable with your friends b/c you get along with the same kind of ppl...does that make sense...usually people get a long with people like themselves...yea im not making any sense..sorry....but talk to her and make sure shes ok with it and tell her that if she feels uncomforatble for a sec...to tell you..also pay attention to her attitude...you should be able to tell if shes ok with the sitution or not
Good Luck and have fun
Andi
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im a freshman in like two weeks. i want to ask if its really going to be as bad as some people say it is (acedemically & socially)
thanks for the advice!!
x3 dw33bi3 (link)
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no its not!! my brother is about to be a freshman and well i am too...but ill be in college..lol...but no your first year in highschool is gonna be a lot of fun just be careful who you hang out with....freshman year in highschool is when you try a lot of...new stuff...just be careful and try not to get in trouble...my freshman yr in highschool was one of the easiest as far as acedmics was concerned but youll be fine just have fun and be safe just dont forget to do your HW
HAVE FUN
Andi
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well there's this guy i like..and we've dated before and we always seem to fight now but we're the best of friends..well today we got in a big fight..and i told him i didn't want to hang out with him again this summer (we don't live in the same town) and he's like w/e and he got all mad at me..later i told him i was sorry and i still want to hang out with him and he's like yeah right and than i got an e-mail from him and it was this chain that he sent to me and it said that like he will always be there for me and everything and how i'm a great friend..but later he sent me a message when i wasn't there and it said i hate you (one time i was talking about someone hating me and he said "who could hate you"). so it kills me to know that he hates me. and he pretty much said that he could never hate me. i have no idea what happened..cause we always kid about that stuff be he didn't say he was kidding or anything..i'm soo worried about our friendship now..and i didn't even do anything..i love this kid right to death and i would do anything for him..i never knew how much the words "i hate you" could feel until you hear it from the one person you would do anything in this world for..even give up your life for them to keep living. it hurt me so bad..and i just want to tell him but i don't know if i can even express to him how much it hurt me. please help me..i just want to know what to say to him..i know it's really what i feel i should say but i need some help. i rate high! please help me! i'm stuck in the gutter on this one. =/ (link)
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Usually when people REALLY mess up they know what they did...but since you dont know what you did wrong im assuming that he was just really mad and said it in the heat of things...and that happens a lot. He might have been really upset and didnt want to deal with it so he said he hated you. Hate is an extremely hard word and im sure he didnt mean it. But hes obviously upset right now so give it a couple of days before you go talk to him let him cool down and get his stuff together then call him and tell him that you want to talk him. Sit down with him and let him know how you feel that you are for him a lot and it really hurt you what he said. I hope that helps but just give him some time to cool off
Good Luck
Andi
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my dad moved out of my house but my parents are still married. my dad has a girlfriend. he dosent think we know but we do. he always promised me he would move back home but he hasnt and a few days ago he called me saying that hs not moving backhome. he told me and my sister it was bc of my mom and how shes changed. he has gone to a divorce lawyer of whatever theyre called. my dog has a brin problem like he was born that way so he does stupid things and he cant help it. he chases his shadow and pases 24/7, literally. my dads a vet and said he mat need brain surgerey or be put to sleep so i hae been asking for a pug for like 3 months straight and my dad keeps saying no. right after he called and told me hes not moving home he said "you know, i was thinking that we should get another dog to keep him (my dog) occupied and so he has a friend. were gonna get a pug. " he is like trying to beibe me so im not mad at him !!!!!!!!! also my mom cries a lot and is so upset. my sister dosent cry when she s upset, she just holds it all in and flips out and goes to her friends houses anddosent come home for a couple of days. what should i do? my family is falling apart. omg and i forgot to say something. i went far away last week with camp from tues to fri and my mom went to the spa with her friends from tues to thurs. while we were gone my dad stayed at out house with our dog and my sister. people told me mom that my dad ahd another woman in my house. what shuold i do?! its his girlfriend. please gimme advice,..PLEASE! (link)
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Wow im really sorry that must be really hard for you....my rents got divorced when i was little....my mom had an affair with well my current stepdad....my mom n dad use to fight all the time i remember hiding behind the sofa when they were screaming at each other. From the looks of it your rents may get divorced...its gonna be really hard for you and the best thing for you to do in go to your best BEST friend for support cuz youre gonna need it. It will be hard but as you get older and as time goes by everything will be ok i promise. Marriage is a really difficult thing...the divorce rate is 50% right now. There are going to be some really hard nights where you wont be able to sleep but there are going to be some really good nights too.....there really isnt anything you can do...but be there for your mom she is going to need you there. Comfort her and let her know everything will be ok...and it will....just give it time and you'll see...if you ever EVER need to talk to anybody and cant find someone my AIM s/n is dragontennis05....please feel free to IM me my rents have been divorced since i was about 7 and now im 18 so i know what im talking about dont be shy if you wanna talk im there ok? Good luck
Andi
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i've been dating this high soceity broad for about twelve years. the other weekend, i finally met her parents for the first time. they were nice old timers, a little mad that we havent tied the knot yet, but polite enough to me anyways. the point is, i was at the dinner table in their *HUGE* home, and, being the lower-class truck driver i am, i had my elbows on the table while eating. her parents, sticklers for etiquette, were appalled that their daughter would date someone like me and forced her to break up with me. i think this is stupid. i left the house that night and havent seen her since. should i get back with her, even though her parents kicked me out of their house for talking with food in my mouth? what should i do?
signed,
mannerless (link)
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My mother raised me to use my manners...yes ma'am no ma'am please thank you...n all that jazz. If you've been with this person for 12 years and you love her dont let something like her parents get in the way of your happiness. As far as they are concerned... i totally agree with you....that was stupid. I think it was more of they didnt approve of their daughter being with someone who was not of their stature...but again...stupid a lot of the high soceity families are like that...my mom is..not AS bad as this case but i understand to some degree. You need to ask yourself how much this woman means to you. You've spent more than a decade of your life with her. Are you really going to let something as silly as her parents being...well...you know...bring you to leave the one you love? Good Luck I hope I helped
Andi
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my friend goes to a different church then i do and she met this guy there named cory, and they see each other alot and i rele want to meet him and my friend likes him alot and even though i dont know cory i still like him i have dreams about him and i cant control them. there not like normal dreams there more like im in some kind of novel and cory is the man of my dreams and we have sex and everythings okay im just rele confused about my feelings. I like Cory alot from the way he`s describes and like what he does but i dont want to hurt my best friends feelings and i promised her that i wouln't steal him from her. (guys tend to like me more than my friend) So can u plz help me and dont say anything like thats retarded or stuff like that i rele need help
I RATE HIGH
thx in advance
my love michelle (link)
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Dont take this the wrong way....but sounds to me like youre a little jealous...which isnt a bad thing its completely 100% normal...it happens all the time...i use to be jealous of my best friend and i ended up liking her guy. But the dreams you are having are your way for kinda....getting your fix. Youre friend has something you want...a great awesome guy yea you havent met him but fromwhat you hear hes amazing and youre jealous...its natural. What you need to do is come to realize that cory is you BEST FRIENDS boyfriend....dont do anything that will risk yalls friendship its hard to find good friends so dont let some silly boy come between that...dont worry one day you'll find someone who is meant for you Good Luck
Andi
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hey!
i'm on a diet where i'm really watching what i eat, and not eating junk food or anything any more! but it's 9:35 at night..and i'm hungry! what can i have that won't cause me to gain weight? we don't have alot.. but suggestions would be soo helpful! (link)
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Sometimes when you think you are hungry you might actually just be thirsty, so try to drink some water or juice first to hold you over....if that doesnt help try some fruit or something low in fat...but its better to not eat anything after 7pm. Drinking something usually helps so try that!!
Andi
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hey i was reading your column & noticed one in particular that you responded to. the one where the person said that they used to be a bit chubby and was now a size 5 and could sing alto. on your response to her, you said that you had recently lost 40 lbs. in the last year or so. i was just wanting to know how you accomplished that. im not really fat, but i would like to tone up a bit. so i was just wondering how you lost the weight. thanx! (link)
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i did that program weight watchers with my mom.....have you heard of it? www.weightwatchers.com that is their website you can go there and find out quite a bit of information...um the basics of the program is that based on your weight you get a certain amount of "points" a day and everything you eat has its' own points a lot of this program has to do with proportions this along with daily exercise is a great way not only lose weight but you keep it off....there are optional wigh in meetings that are held every week i think....if you want to know anything else you can IM on AIM @ dragontennis05
Good Luck
Andi
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okay . so . this might sound retarded... but is that healthy? i mean, wouldnt the water get in you and cause problems ??
i mean, i wanna , but not if its going to mess me up. (link)
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no thats not retarted its good you asked but its prefctly healty for you...it wont cause any damage unless you use like hella hot water and excess water left up there will drain out when you stand up ive been doing it for a while and nothing has happened to me so give it a try it wont kill you :)
Andi
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I'm going to the beach for the first time in years. What things should I make sure to bring? (like make-up, how many bathing suits, what bathing suits, and other stuff..) (link)
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SUNSCREEN....# 1 thing....dont wanna get burned ew... ok what to bring....probably a one piece and a two piece....and unless you plan on going out a lot dont bring a lot of like clothes you want use them...bring lost of shorts...like those soffe ones and tank tops lots of those cuz you can just slide that stuff off and on flip flops sunglasses as far as make up i wouldnt bring a lot just hte bare minimum...cuz i mean youre goin to the beach...dont worry about that stuff...just have fun!!
Andi
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Hi, I have been talking to this guy online.....I really like him..he asked me out and I said yes. DOnt worry I have no intentions on meeting him anytime soon.But i dont know if I should tell my friends about him because they think talking to people online that you dont know is wrong..and i know they will probably get mad at me and think I am crazy. He has also sent me a picture and he is really hot!
What should I do?? And what is your opinion on online dating and long distnace relationships?
Thanks
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i had a long distance relationship and it was hard but i stuck it out.....as far as online dating...i think that its easier for someone to guinely like you....b/c they dont have that physical attraction thing to stand in the way...they 100% truely like you for who you are not what you look like. if you arent comfortable telling your friends tell them that he is a friend of the family and you usually see him over the summer....something like that..sometimes its easier to lie than to be judged by those around you...but i do encourage you meeting him eventually....not anytime soon but after a while and the two of you are way ok with it..if you have anymore questions please IM me cuz i know what im talking about trust me....dragontennis05...good luck
Andi
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i was wondering if you can give me any tips or ways to make me orgasm without buying a dildo. with just using stuff around the house. thanks! i'll rate a 5 if you give me at least 6 hehehe (link)
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hmm...6 things damn i dont think im that creative umm....cucumber....banana..(make sure you throw these away...ew..lol) maybe like markers or something toothbrush...i knwo some of these suck i really cant think of anymore im sorry.....just look around the house and try things that look like a penis....width length...just make sure you clean/throw away what you use...or keep it in your room for later...lol....sorry i wasnt a big help
Andi
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I always wear jeans CONSTANTLY...and I'd like to "spice" up my style alot..I'm into a lot of different styles, I'd just like some tips of things to wear besides jeans that are still really cute..you know..new outfit ideas! (link)
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capris are always fun and since you like jeans you should like those...and then they have those bramunda shorts that stop right above your knees those are in right now...try those
Andi
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can u really get breast cancer if u sleep with a bra on? please answer quick. (link)
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no you cant it may stunt growth but thats all...and its not that bad
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when i was younger, i was a bit chubby and i was really self conscious about it...it sucked being too big for dress up clothes. i was one of the first to wear a bra and get teased by the boys. i had a lower voice than most kids in my grade and i would feel akward singing with the class. well now, i finally took controll over my weight and im known for my singing ability as a strong alto. sounds great, but i still feel out of place. for me its a blessing to wear a size 5, when its fat-pants for someone else. i feel kind of not-as-good because im a young alto. am i making too much of this or can anyone relate? thanks in advanced and you deserve a 5 for readin this. (link)
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are you kidding....i would LOVE to even have any kind of singing talent at all...you should be proud of what you do and im sure youre amazing at it...a size 5...you should be not only extremely happy but proud a lot of people complain about their weight and never do anything about it....its great how far youve gone...the whole weight thing i can totally relate to...ive lost almost 40 lbs this past year b/c i got tired of never finding anything in stores...im now in an 8 and i couldnt be happier with myself...just b/c others dont accept you right away shouldnt get you down...be proud of who you are what you did and what you do
~Andi
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you know that new eminem song that goes 'the way you move it, I cant believe it, I aint never seen an Ass like that' Well when he says 'makes my pee pee go Da Doing Doing Doing' < what does that mean?? (link)
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umm....i think its means hes getting a boner
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me and my boyfrind have been together for almost 10 months now. we never really argue, except when i talk to other males on the telephone. i tell him, they are only friends, but he feels uncomfortable with me talking to them. should i give in, and not talk to my friends or should i continue being friends with my male friends? besides i dont understand why he's uncomfortable anyways. (link)
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yall have been together for a while so yall should be comfortable talking to one another so thats what i suggest you do....tell him again that they are only friends and that is all they will ever be tell him that hes important to you and you wouldnt want to lose him but he can not control who you can and cannot be friends with...that is your choice he should trust you enough to have guy friends....good luck hope i helped
Andi
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Hey.. i'm a girl and i used to look at porn, but i'm really trying to stop. and i want to masturbate, but is there any other way then actually having sex and sticking things "up there"? i mean, i've tried fantasizing.. but it doesn't work.. will rate high thanx!! (link)
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ok next time youre in the tub turn the water on high like youre filling a bath....but dont let it get too hot...what you can do is slide yourself under it so the water runs inside you...its not that hard to do and that what i do cuz i dont really like sticking things "up there" either....try it its good i promise
Andi
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o0o0o0kkk well my best friend.. i get the feeling she doesn't like me and I REALLY WANT TO CHANGE WUTEVER IM DOIN WRONG but the thing is i dont no wut im doin! wut should i do to help our frendship here???
i rate high!
*~!desperate for help!~*
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talking to her is the best thing to do...thats the only way to get a straight answer from her...go up to her and say something like...i know youve been kinda mad at me lately but i dont know why so could you please tell me so i can fix it....start from there and things will work themselves out..oh and try not to get defensive then yall will both end up yelling and no one likes that....good luck
Andi
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