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my dad moved out of my house but my parents are still married. my dad has a girlfriend. he dosent think we know but we do. he always promised me he would move back home but he hasnt and a few days ago he called me saying that hs not moving backhome. he told me and my sister it was bc of my mom and how shes changed. he has gone to a divorce lawyer of whatever theyre called. my dog has a brin problem like he was born that way so he does stupid things and he cant help it. he chases his shadow and pases 24/7, literally. my dads a vet and said he mat need brain surgerey or be put to sleep so i hae been asking for a pug for like 3 months straight and my dad keeps saying no. right after he called and told me hes not moving home he said "you know, i was thinking that we should get another dog to keep him (my dog) occupied and so he has a friend. were gonna get a pug. " he is like trying to beibe me so im not mad at him !!!!!!!!! also my mom cries a lot and is so upset. my sister dosent cry when she s upset, she just holds it all in and flips out and goes to her friends houses anddosent come home for a couple of days. what should i do? my family is falling apart. omg and i forgot to say something. i went far away last week with camp from tues to fri and my mom went to the spa with her friends from tues to thurs. while we were gone my dad stayed at out house with our dog and my sister. people told me mom that my dad ahd another woman in my house. what shuold i do?! its his girlfriend. please gimme advice,..PLEASE!
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Wow im really sorry that must be really hard for you....my rents got divorced when i was little....my mom had an affair with well my current stepdad....my mom n dad use to fight all the time i remember hiding behind the sofa when they were screaming at each other. From the looks of it your rents may get divorced...its gonna be really hard for you and the best thing for you to do in go to your best BEST friend for support cuz youre gonna need it. It will be hard but as you get older and as time goes by everything will be ok i promise. Marriage is a really difficult thing...the divorce rate is 50% right now. There are going to be some really hard nights where you wont be able to sleep but there are going to be some really good nights too.....there really isnt anything you can do...but be there for your mom she is going to need you there. Comfort her and let her know everything will be ok...and it will....just give it time and you'll see...if you ever EVER need to talk to anybody and cant find someone my AIM s/n is dragontennis05....please feel free to IM me my rents have been divorced since i was about 7 and now im 18 so i know what im talking about dont be shy if you wanna talk im there ok? Good luck
Andi
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im sorry but you should tell your mother that hes cheeting your better with out him im sorry but its the right thing and it would be what i would do
if you ever want to talk i will be able to im not trying to be strange but my friends went threw the same thing
im treibly sorry and i wish the best
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hey im really sorry for what is going on in your life at the moment i no its tough, you should tell your mom how you feel and tell your dad how you feel you should tell that we no you have a girlfriend and we no shes been over hang out with friends more often to keep your self busy and keep your mind off the subject a bit. dont worry about crying because its not good to hold it in tell your dad bribing you isnt going to work. good luck i hoped i helped a little bit <3 ash
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i know this advice may suck, but it's all i can say. Your dad is going to do what he wants to do. it sucks, i know, but i don't think there's anything you can do to stop him from having this girlfriend. And about your sister, maybe you should just talk to her about how you feel about the whole family thing, and maybe you and your sister can face this whole thing together. in my toughest times, sometimes it just helps to have a shoulder to cry on. So talk to your sister. And pray. I'm not sure if you're a Christian or not, but all that i can say is if i hadn't had God in my life this past year, i would have never made it. Even if you don't believe in God, just try to trust him while you're going through this. Trust me, everything will work out. Good luck, and i hope i helped!
<3 melanie
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