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Best Friends Boy Friend
my friend goes to a different church then i do and she met this guy there named cory, and they see each other alot and i rele want to meet him and my friend likes him alot and even though i dont know cory i still like him i have dreams about him and i cant control them. there not like normal dreams there more like im in some kind of novel and cory is the man of my dreams and we have sex and everythings okay im just rele confused about my feelings. I like Cory alot from the way he`s describes and like what he does but i dont want to hurt my best friends feelings and i promised her that i wouln't steal him from her. (guys tend to like me more than my friend) So can u plz help me and dont say anything like thats retarded or stuff like that i rele need help
I RATE HIGH
thx in advance
my love michelle
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Well if she's your friend you wouldn't move in on her guy. Do something together the 3 of you and let them have their time together. Your guy will come. Untill then, be patient. Guys don't like a girl who are persistant in getting their attention. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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well tell your friend you really wanna meet him and get to know him better. If Cory likes you more then your friend you should talk to her about it. Hopefully she'll understand and if she doesnt then you have to decide if this guy is worth ruining your friendship with her.
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Dont take this the wrong way....but sounds to me like youre a little jealous...which isnt a bad thing its completely 100% normal...it happens all the time...i use to be jealous of my best friend and i ended up liking her guy. But the dreams you are having are your way for kinda....getting your fix. Youre friend has something you want...a great awesome guy yea you havent met him but fromwhat you hear hes amazing and youre jealous...its natural. What you need to do is come to realize that cory is you BEST FRIENDS boyfriend....dont do anything that will risk yalls friendship its hard to find good friends so dont let some silly boy come between that...dont worry one day you'll find someone who is meant for you Good Luck
Andi
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First of all, i would seriously recommend to stop thinking so much about this guy. Sometimes, this sounds weird i know, but you can convince yourself of things by just thinking about it alot. I know i've done that a lottt. Your dreams are probably because you're confused and you have raging hormones. And think about this, you haven't even met the guy. So he might not be exactly how your friend describes him. Liking people tends to make people think extrememly highly of the person. But right now, just calm down and start hanging around some other guys. Since you already said you wouldn't steal him, you need to honor that promise. So i hope i helped a little. (your question wasn't retarded at all :) )
4Him, Disciple (plz rate me if i deserve it)
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Ok, in answer to your problem i think it's completely normal to have feelings for this guy even though you have nevr really met him. When your friend talks about him 24/7 u start to like him to because she makes him sound like the perfect guy and it becomes a part of your sub conscious. However, i feel that you should meet him first and get your friend to let you meet him. THis way you can hang out with him one on one and really see if he's the "dream guy" that you thought he was.
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