I have liked this guy for four years and in the beginning we were friends but one thing led to another and he found out i liked him and stopped talking to me. Two years passed and we didnt talk we couldnt even look at eachother in the face and i felt miserable because i didnt understand why he stopped talking to me. This past year i turned sixteen and invited him to my sweet 16 party . I told myself that if he came i should still wait for him but if he didnt forget him but he came to the party and we had a pretty good time together. Ever since the party i can't stop thinking about him and no matter what i feel like theres not going to be any other guy for me. To me he's not like any other guy he is so sweet and nice.... please help me with this problem... should i give up or talk to him or what?? please answer
AbsoluteCuti170 answered Sunday July 31 2005, 7:41 pm: it seems like you really like this guy.. and im guessing he might be shy because he stopped talkin to you... definatly dont give up on him he seems perfect for you because he is nice and sweet which is great. and the fact that you cant stop thinking about him uis great.. well flirt with him for a while and jst like smile and if he smiles back then thts great..like then that means show that youre interested by looking into his eyes and you'll know if hes looking into yours because you'll get a happy feeling in your stomach something like butterflies. well try being closer to him like sitting near him or touching his hand or even giving him a hug..if he responds positivly(like not moving away when youre near him) then he totally adores you!YAY FOR YOU!!!
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VanityScore answered Saturday July 30 2005, 3:42 pm: He's so sweet and nice. You told him how you feel, and he was so immature that he couldn't handle it and decided to stop talking to you. That's so sweet and nice.
This is a classic movie plot: Guy ditches girl, girl waits around and he doesn't talk to her for two years, but then, because she decides to torture herself by inviting him to her birthday party, they start to kind of talk again.
Ever hear of that movie? I didn't think so. People don't write about that kind of thing when it comes to romance. Love is supposed to inspire you and make you happy. You shouldn't have to wait.
navybrat302 answered Saturday July 30 2005, 2:26 pm: Well I suggest that you tell him how you feel and if he still acts like he doesn't like you or anything then you will have to move on even though I know its hard. If he does like you thats great but if he doesn't then eventually you will find someone that likes you and is as great to you as he was. Take it from someone who knows, you can't be stuck on one person forever because if you do your going to miss a lot of other great guys. Good luck and hope everything turns out for the best [ navybrat302's advice column | Ask navybrat302 A Question ]
VOGUEx answered Saturday July 30 2005, 2:03 pm: Definitely talk to him. It may be embarrassing and tought, but you HAVE to talk to him. If you love him as much as it sounds like, you have to do your best to let him see that. Maybe he feels the same way about you, but he's just too shy to make the first move. You'll blow him away if you talk to him first. Good luck! [ VOGUEx's advice column | Ask VOGUEx A Question ]
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