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okay...well this is stupid and i know the answer is going to probably be something like "well you lost your chance" or something...
well I was really close to this guy, and we were like practically dating, and I felt like i didnt like him (which i was totally wrong) and we stopped hanging out and we both went on vacation and didnt see each other for like a month, and when i came back he hugged me, and i realized that i still have feelings for him, but him and one of my best friends are like dating now, and I told him I'm not messing anything up between them,but I still like him. and now after I told him that he's ignoring me. I dont want him to ignore me...
and the reason i thought i didnt like him was I like this other guy more than ANYONE in the world...and he told my friend jason he wanted to go out with me again (we dated for 2 years) but then when i asked him about it he said he would email me, so he does like 3 weeks later saying i dont know what to do and stuff like that, then he emails me again because he was ignoring me, and he said he was sorry for ignoring me but he was still thinking and everything..then we went to the fair with a bunch of friends and stuff *hes REALLY shy so we didnt talk alot but we did talk* and i was the only one he let take his picture..but now i havent talked or seen him in 2 weeks. I dont know if i should ask him about it or just leave it alone... because i think i liek him more than the other guy who is dating my freind
i know thats probably stupid and confusing.. (link)
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I personally think you should just wait and not bring it up. You should let him make up his mind about whatever he has to think about and if you like him that much then you can wait awhile and not hurry into things like that. Either way he'll always be your friend and I think you should just enjoy his friendship until things are worked out. Hope I helped and hope things turn out good.
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can you give me the meaning to these words to live by....
Different strokes for different folks
People who live in a glass house shouldnt throw stones
Thereis nothing to fear but fear its self
Its mice to be important however its importan to be nice (link)
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-Means people have different problems and different ways of looking at things.
-Don't be a hypocrite
-Don't be afraid of things
-Its ok to try and be important but its also important to be nice first (self-explanatory)
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Okay. I like this boy and everything but he is like my best guy friend that I have! i like him so much. I'm not scared to tell anyone that I like them if I do. But I'm thinking about our relationship together. I don't want to ruin what we have right now. But I want more. I mean, if I told him and he didnt like me, it would be totally awkward!! Does anyone have any advice? I will rate high for GOOD advice!! (link)
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You should talk to him and tell him how you feel about it. If he didn't like you than you could still be friends either way. Tell him about how you like him but you don't want to ruin your friendship. Hope everything works out for you and hope I helped
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I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."
I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.
I can't believe this. :( (link)
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There is nothing wrong with you. If he is that mean then he wasn't worth it to begin with but if you let him know how bad it hurt you, that won't change anything. He sounds like a jerk and you need to forget about him. You will find someone better and he'll be with that Shea girl thinking about what a fool he was. Hope I helped and hope everything worked out. IF you need anything send me a message
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well my mom is looking to move and i have told all of my friends and so i wanted to know if i should tell my mom to find a place to live that i know people because where my mom is looking i know people from church should i go there or should i find a new fresh start............HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well it depends on how you feel. IF you want to have a fresh start then you should move away so you can have a fresh start but if you don't think your ready for that then move to the other option. Hope I helped and hope everything turns out good.
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I tried looking for this question as I think its been asked before, but I can't find it.
What is the formula for whitening your teeth with toothpaste and baking soda? (link)
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yeah its flouride.
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I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for good backrounds for a vampirefreaks.com profile.
Thanks.
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Maybe a background..of vampires :) I dunno really except that
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O.K. My boyfriend cheated on me like... 3 weeks ago. I forgave him, as long as he never did it again. It was pretty hard trusting him again after that, but I did. After I had THOUGHT I had gained nothing but love and respect for him again... he CHEATED ON ME AGAIN with my sister! I know it's pretty weird but I don't trust EITHER one of them. How can get over the fact that my OWN sister could do that to me? I miss my boyfriend but I have been hurt enough and don't NEED him in my life. I love my sister but what she did was wrong and I have still not forgiven her.
I can't believe this could ACTUALLY happen to me! I'm so depressed all the time and I have lost hope in ever finding the right guy again! I really thought he was the one for me. He was so right for me, so perfect and then, BOOM! He's sleeping with my sister! I don't know what to do! I'm so confused. I'm so depressed that I'm throwing up and crying non-stop. It's really sad for me. My sister keeps telling me she's sorry but I still have not forgiven her. I haven't even talked to her! Please help! This is really devastating for me and I need someone to tell me what to do!
I rate high!
Katie Marie Sanchez- age 17 (link)
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If a guy cheats on you and then cheats on you again with your SISTER he's not worth the tears and the depression. You should forget about him because eventually a guy who really cares about you will come along and won't cheat on you. Eventually I do believe you will forgive your sister but for now I think you just need to not worry about it and let things be as they are until you think your ready to forgive her. You can't just forgive her with a snap of the finger because its not that simple but she is your sister and eventually all will be forgiven. As for the guy, when you do find the guy that really cares about you and loves you, he will feel like an idiot for cheating on you in the first place. Try not to stress yourself out over it because he isn't worth it. Hope I helped and if you need anything else send me a message
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Does anyone know where i can find the lyrics to "the end" by I-94? i looked on lyrics.com, azlyrics.com, and letssingit.com, and they dont have it. Please help, i'll rate 5's (link)
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http://www.lyricskeeper.com/i94-lyrics/227344-the_end-lyrics.htm Hope I helped
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so i wanna know if i like this boy for real, or if its just a crush! SO HELP!!!, ohk well i odnt really talk to the guy i mean i've danced more then i've talked with him, we were at a party and he told me to dance so i told him he looked very cute & he said that i did to, the whole time we were dancing i got the vibe that he liked me & then we were holding hands cause that's how you danced the kind of music & i felt so comfortable... and we kept laughing cause there was this funny dude ... but anyways and when we did laugh we looked into each others eyes ... it was awsome & when he danced with someone else, i got so mad! so what i want to know is if i like this boy or if i think i do. remember i dance with him more then i talk to him! (link)
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If you really like the guy you will know. It sounds like you really do like him but maybe you should try talking to him more. If you talk to him for awhile and get that vibe again then you do like him. Hope I helped and hope eevrything works out.
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is it like totally wrong to talk to guys on the internet that you dont know? 'cuz my mom doesnt let me talk to anyone i dont know! and know i'm falling for this guy! what do i do? i wanna keep talking to him!! And my mom would kill me if she found out!
what do i do? i'm so confused! (link)
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Yes it is. You don't really know them even if they show you their picture. Usually their just men that will talk to you pretending to be teenagers and then they'll ask you to meet them and they'll rape you or kidnap you or something so I think your mother is right when she tells you not to talk to them. I can't control what you do but I'm just giving my advice and advise you to be careful. Hope I helped.
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About three weeks ago i started taking diet pills without my parents knowing. After i took them i started feeling really nervous. My heart feels like it's beating really hard and fast. I'm breathing really weird and it takes me forever to go to sleep cuz i'm soo wired. I stopped the pills shortly after taking them but i'm still messed up. Does anybody know what's wrong and how i could fix it??? (link)
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Well I suggest you tell your parents because they need to know. IF you tell them they'll probably take you to a doctor or know what to do.
Hope I helped.
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Im 14 about to b 15..whats a good way to have a b-day party n December.. My b-day is In the later December after Christmas PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Well if you are allowed you could have a party at your house or you could go somewhere like bowling or to the mall and hang out with your friends. Hope I helped.
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ok so theres this guy and i like him so much and i know theres probably nothing i can do but...i need to, i have to, i hate being without him...its crazy and it all happened so fast and i dont know what to do...but look...i like him he likes me but he doesn't want a relationship...id like one, because i want that commitment. i want him to be mine and only mine....you know...what do i do !?!?! help please please help.. (link)
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Well you obviously do love him very much but you can't change a guys mind once they have it set on something like that. I suggest you talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel and if he still doesn't want a relationship then you will have to move on because you can't wait for someone even if you do love them. I know its hard but I hope I helped and hope everything works out.
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Well This Is Goin To Be Long. I'm 15 a Female...and me and my ex just recently broke up we dated for a 1 yr and half..i did 1 thing wrong. i was drunk and selfish didnt no wat i was doin and we broke up..i swear up and down that i love him..he said were history were through he never wants to talk to me again...well i got a msg on icq last night..sayin him and his sister is after me..so i msged him back..and he threatened me and *ALL MY FRIENDS* which is pretty much the hole county. and he said for us to show up at his house and if we didnt we was pussys..well we didnt show up..cause we didnt have a way..and because half of my friends is on vacation. so now his sister said that she gets her liscence monday..and that i have it coming. and shes gonna stomp my ass..and she said for me to watch my back..well she said that i threatened her when i didnt..the only thing i said is if u come up to my house and try to fight me youre gonna get it..she goes thats gonna look great in the police records..well shes 18. and shes already been in jail once..and her brother (my ex) beated me and everything..what should i do???..bout the hole thing...the fight and gettin threatened..should i take a compliant thingy out on her and her family for threatening me..
PLEASE HELP
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I do think you should considering they threatened you. You should tell your parents and file a complaint. If she's already been in jail once and he beat you then their probably serious and it probably won't turn out good unless you file complaint and talk to your parents about it. Hope I helped and hope everything turns out ok.
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my very close friend who is 13 years old has never had a boyfriend nor does she want one. but she flirts with like every guy she meets and makes them think they have a chance but if they want to go out with her she says no. this really bothers me because so many guys are interested in her. is she a tease? how do i let her know shes a heartbreaker without getting her upset? (link)
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Well I think you should just let her act that way because eventually the guys will realize she is just a tease and stop liking her. Guys like flirt girls to a certain extent. Try not to let it bother you and let her make her own mistakes. Hope I helped and hope everything works out
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how do i change my xanga icon? (link)
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First get your picture and save it onto the computer then go to setup wizard and click next until it gets to the upload picture section then click browse and find your picture then upload it. Hope I helped
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i got brown hair dye on my pink shirt and i need a way to get it out!!!!!!!! except i have no money to buy anything sooo if theres any home remedy miracles to help please tell me!! if i dont get it out my parents will kill me!!
THANKS (link)
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The only thing I know of that works is if you have club soda and the stain is still wet and it hasn't dried that works sometimes
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I have liked this guy for four years and in the beginning we were friends but one thing led to another and he found out i liked him and stopped talking to me. Two years passed and we didnt talk we couldnt even look at eachother in the face and i felt miserable because i didnt understand why he stopped talking to me. This past year i turned sixteen and invited him to my sweet 16 party . I told myself that if he came i should still wait for him but if he didnt forget him but he came to the party and we had a pretty good time together. Ever since the party i can't stop thinking about him and no matter what i feel like theres not going to be any other guy for me. To me he's not like any other guy he is so sweet and nice.... please help me with this problem... should i give up or talk to him or what?? please answer (link)
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Well I suggest that you tell him how you feel and if he still acts like he doesn't like you or anything then you will have to move on even though I know its hard. If he does like you thats great but if he doesn't then eventually you will find someone that likes you and is as great to you as he was. Take it from someone who knows, you can't be stuck on one person forever because if you do your going to miss a lot of other great guys. Good luck and hope everything turns out for the best
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im going to a new skool this year and i never had to be the " new kid " i've went to the same skool my whole life and never had to adjust to new surroundings or make new friends. is it hard to be a new kid? and im sorta shy so is there a easy way to make freinds? i have some old friends at this skool but im new at having to make freinds, i never had to do that!! is it hard to make freids? ne one HELP!!!! i'll rate high. if it's easier you can e-mail me at big_brat5@yahoo.com thanx (link)
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Well this I know well because ever since kindergarten until sixth grade I went to a private school. My sixth grade year was a horrible and I decided that I wanted a change so I went to a public school. At first I was so nervous. On my first day I was so nervous I pulled the chain off my necklace and I was also very shy but once I got in and met everyone I made some friends and I ended up liking the school so much! So my advice to you is to not worry so much because you will make friends and if you worry too much your just going to look like stupid. New starts are good some times because the people at your new school don't know you and you can have a fresh start and be whoever you want to be. Hope I helped and good luck at your new school.
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