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A Horrible Break Up
I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."
I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.
I can't believe this. :(
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i've gone through this a few times with horrible break ups and heart breaks
okay well the first thing you need to understand is that this is just 1 guy and their are much more guys that are probably much better people this guy sounds like he's a jerk so just don't worry about him and about this shea girl dont worry about her dont let her get to your head or anything just forget this guy ever happened
okay and if you wanna talk more my email is
baseballislife4444@yahoo.com
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hes stupid dont let him interfeir with your life . try to move on cause instead of "who cares about you", who cares about him
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To answer his question, you care about you, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question.
No, there's nothing wrong with you. You're upset, and hurt.. it's ok to feel that way. Don't dwell on it, just get back out there and find something else to do. Work, school, clubs, friends, whatever.
As for this Shea girl... don't worry, he'll get what's coming to him. In all likelihood, from her description, I'm betting it'll be an STD.
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Ok, listen up. There's nothing wrong with you. Don't worry yourself, he's not worth it. An idiot like himself deserves a girl like Shea. He'll think he's gettin a girl, but in reality, he's going to be dumped (if theyre going out now) embarassed, and ultimitly feeling awful. Trust me, He's gonna get what's comin to him, these things come back to bite you. And believe me, he's gonna get his. You arent whining, it's reasonable to be upset over somethin as rude as this. I myself have been sent an e-mail declaring I was officialy dumped. She sent that to everyone on her mailing list. But yeah, you'll bounce back, This guy's gonna fall on his face.
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Well, obviously he's an asshole. I'm really sorry he hurt you like that. You didn't deserve it, but what you can do is move on and find a someone who will treat you right. What you need to do is just be happy and realize that he is definitely worth forgetting. You can't do anything about it but move on to happier things.
I'm really sorry he did that to you, no girl deserves to feel that way or be treated that way.
~K~
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Hey it's ok, your not whining at all and THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. That guy is a grade-A JERK. You deserve better than that. Don't even talk to him, he already proved he doesn't want to talk to you and really doesn't give a damn about you or your feelings. I know your crushed, but try and move on from this inconsiderate idiot. Go to your friends and try and have them comfort you, because they will be there for you and help you out. Other than those things I don't think there is much you can do to help yourself againts this sudden and completely moronic (not to mention uncalled for) move by your jerk ex-boyfriend. You deserve better.
I hope this helped and you are able to get over this jerk you once called a boyfriend.
-Ryan
P.S. If you need anything or need some kind of way to vent out everything, please don't hesitate to put something in my inbox or IM me at (AIM) Alpha0mega345.
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There's nothing wrong with you! I'm sorry about the way this idiot treated you.
It's okay to cry, but don't make this take over your life. Don't beg him to take you back. Actually, don't talk to him at all. Don't make any of your friends talk to him. Don't try to get back at him. This shows him that you're not dwelling on it.
And as for getting over it... stay busy. Don't sit around the house and dwell on it. Hang out with friends, play a sport, or start a new hobby.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥ Manders
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He might just be doing this to make you jealous. Or maybe she told him to, or something like that. Probably not, but anyways... he's a jerk. Don't waste your time on him. He's def not worth your tears. Move on, and make HIM jealous! haha, oh and next time you see him, if i were you i'd slap him. haha, well hope you feel better about this soon. need any more advice, or if you need someone to talk to, leave on in my inbox.
♥ nicole
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Omg wtf, that is not right! IF he loves you then he wouldnt do that to you! Thats so rude and not right, he is a jerk! You dont need a guy like that in your life, you need someone who respects and loves you! Fuck him.hes gay...FIND SOMEONE BETTER!
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This guy is a jerk. Just a big jerk who you need to just block instead of talking to him at all. If he wants to trade you in for trash, then let him. You are in pain, and hes never felt the pain you're experiancing now, but he will soon for doing what hes doing. I think you need a friend to talk to, if you don't have a close friend, you can always inbox me and give me your screen name and I will talk to you as long as you'll need to get over him. But in the meantime, block this jerk, don't even bother reading his profile anymore.
-TheTeenGirl
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i dont really have any advice...do your best to get over him...DONT TAKE HIM BACK! ((by the way im going to leave him a lovely message & warn him too,,,just bugs me when people are horrible like that))
feel free to talk whenever!
x3 dweebie
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aww sweety i am so sorry this happened
wow hes a jerk!
its okie to cry
hes not a real man if thats the way he breaks up with you and right after puts an away message like that
just forget about him you dont need a guy like that who treats you so bad
one day hes gonna wake up and realize he made a huge mistake dumping you like that and feel like a total ass because thats basically what he is
go out take a walk to clear your head that works sometimes
and remember he is so not worth your tears
if you need anything at all IM me or drop one in my inbox ♥
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Hey hun IM me Id love to talk to you and try and make you feel better my sn is b00tiiEfuLlx0
Love maddie
_p.S im sorry
OUh and also when or if you IM me tell meh if i can yell at him =p
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I am sorry that this happened to you. Its okay to cry but it is useless because if he wants to be a jerk he can but u shouldnt cry over him if hes just gonna lie to you. And there is nothing wrong with you. There is something wrong with him for lying to you.
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I am so sorry...that was so mean of him to break up that way! you ahould forget about him and try to find another guy that u like
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He doesn't care about you. Sure, you should feel bad. You just need to know, he's useless if he would treat you like that.
I recommend a firm punch to his face next time you see him.
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im sorry that happened..but theres nothing wrong with you just for crying. its normal..but if he said those things to you..then obviously he's not worth crying over. leave me something in my box if you need anything.
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Well you know what, if he did this to you, then he's really not the right guy for you. There are soooo many more guys out there, guys that wouldn't do this to you. I understand it hurts right now, but just keep yourself busy, hang out with your friends, and really there at much better people for you out there. Good luck! If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to IM me. xo- Kristen
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aww sweetie, he seems like a totaly jerk.. because i have too much time on mi hands i imed him.. and he really has a crappy personality, he told me him n shea were just friends but i don*t believe him and that shouldn*t matter (p.s he blocked me too haha) But just try to hang out with your freidns and with people who make you happi instead of thinkin bout him cuz he doesn*t deserve to even be in your thoughts. Another person will come believe me i*ve had HORRIBLE break ups and other boy problems so i can tell you more if you wanna im me!! hope i helped beautiful and keep your head up!! xoxo, chelsea
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I'm making his life wonderful. ehh that's really rude. I'm IMing him. no worries.. man this is going to be fun
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that's horrible! he's a jerk . . he doesn't deserve you anyways! you could do soo much better! most guys are dogs and will do anything to get "stuff" from girls! *no guy deserves your tears and when you find the one that does he won't make you cry* my ex boyfriend broke up with me in a very rude way and at a time where many family members have died! if you ever want to talk my sn is
xoxox courtney
best wishes*
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There is nothing wrong with you. If he is that mean then he wasn't worth it to begin with but if you let him know how bad it hurt you, that won't change anything. He sounds like a jerk and you need to forget about him. You will find someone better and he'll be with that Shea girl thinking about what a fool he was. Hope I helped and hope everything worked out. IF you need anything send me a message <3 Blair
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