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Hey! Well my hair straightner now is by Hot Tools, it's a ceramic plates one and it works pretty well, but I think it's time for a new one. Lately, this one hasn't been working that well. I've only used 2 hair straighteners in the past year and they're both identical. They used to work pretty well, but lately my hair is just not straight like it used to be. My hair is medium thick, and naturally wavy. Any recommendations for my new hair straightner? + Can you give me any websites where I can just buy it online?

Thanks in advance! I rate 5's. (link)
i use curlmaster ceramincs...works good


hey lauren marie brennan, how are you? (link)
im good...how are you jenna lane bohannan?? :)


alright.. i've been like.. in love with this kid jimmy we went out for a while but we broke up and i havent gotten over him for like 3months and im still not over him it sucks i try and try like.. he hates being around me cause he feels like he has to be careful i mean seriously there was nothing wrong in our relationship we never fought always saw each other always talked and this was all on a daily basis, and i cutt and shit alot now because of him i mean seriously i know its bad.. and i have therapy and everything just i dont knoww i cant stop thinking about him and my friend amber ( she is my bestfriend and his too) well she thought something up and it like makes all sense she says that he is just scared that he is falling for me and that he is just scared because he never has fallen for someone like me and that im perfect for him becausei m everything he wants and im just like him and the perfect girl for him..and it makes me sad because i cantt stand knowing that im perfect for him and lets just say im sick of crying


sorry it's soo long =/

please help
thanks alot
i rate high


brooke (link)
aww im sry..seriously try to stop cutting and stuff it might scare him!...but i would talk to him one on one...just clue him in on how much you still care...ur friend could be wrong about this whole relatonship thing but theres always a chance of the two of you...much x3 dweebie


hey im trying to raise money to go on a trip to europe so im basically doing anything i can to get money and i was wondering how much do platos closet usually pay you if u sell your clothes to them? i have a lot of american eagle clothes that i never wear anymore that are in pretty good condition! please help thanx! (link)
they really dont pay all that well i didnt have any pants but i wouldnt count on them paying too much but try it bc its better than nothing...they get overstocked too...good luck & have fun in europe!

x3 dweebie


I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."

I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.

I can't believe this. :( (link)
i dont really have any advice...do your best to get over him...DONT TAKE HIM BACK! ((by the way im going to leave him a lovely message & warn him too,,,just bugs me when people are horrible like that))

feel free to talk whenever!
x3 dweebie


hey. just to let you guys know. this was posted on louisianaisforlovers account but i have asked her perrmission and she said i can use her account to ask my question. i am a 12 year old female and i live in a REALLY small town that probably has about 500 to 600 people living in it. & my parents are WAY to overprotective. i mean take actually today for example i was at the local hangout and about 15 to 20 people were going play basketball at a schools playground just down the road. with 2 of these people being at least 16. and we all have cell phones. & i called to see if i go & i named all the people going. well she said no. and i aasked why. and she told me thats it dangerous. WTF? i mean theres 20 people there. hooly s**t im not freaking 8 years old. and when i got home i was mad so i walked up the stairs pounding my feet on them & she called me down and said yea im sure they're were 20 people going. and i was like mom i named the people. what do you think im lying. and she said i only do it because i care. but i mean. i never get to do the stuff EVERYBODY else is doing. and i always have to make up some lame excuse why i cant go. ugh. i need help!. pleasee im deperate (link)
your in the seventh grade...explain how you havnt had a lot of change in what you have been able to do from elementary school, tell her you always have your phone on, tell how you hang out with good people...dont lie!! she can take away everything if she catches you in any lies! remember you want her to trust you! talk about the subject more than once!
hope i helped ya!
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I know this might not sound like that big of a deal but it is for me!

Well my mom and me have been fighting a lot lately..........almost like every day. But its never my fault like i would say " Mom there's no more laundry detergent." the she would blow up and say " Of course we dont because you have to use so much" and then she would start yelling at me bacause i ask for so much stuff and that she has no money to spend and i hate! I really dont want to hear about her problems then when i say that i don't want to hear it then she starts yelling at me again! please help me and tell me what to do! im going to start school on tuesday, and i dont want this to mess with my head so please help ! (link)
i think she gets angrier when you say you dont want to hear about her problems because shes a person and se has problems that need to be comforted...maybe you could talk to her not just about whats wrong with you but whats going on with her...maybe an extra chore wouldnt hurt either...good luck with school

x3 dweebie


I KNOW THIS IS LONG.. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP AND ILL RATE 5'S FOR EVERYONE NO MATTER WHAT.. I PROMISE!!

Well i have these two friends... nd lets say their names are Bob and Rob.. well ive been good friends with bob longer than i have with Rob.. Both Rob and Bob are a lil chunky.. but they're not Fat.. So me Rob and Bob became a group this year.. and ive always felt like i fit in until one day rob was me and bob are fat.. nd we hate pool partys.. and we have something against skinny people cauz we're jealous of them.. so i was like you guys aren't fat.. nd since im like a twig,.. i got offended and i was like well now im gonna feel uncomfortable in the pool with you guys since we're gonna be in bathing suits.. and rob didn't answer.. so since bob is my best friend i decided to talk to her about it.. so i told her how i felt.. and im like its not like you guys excercise or try to loose weight.. so then we straightened it out... but rob and bob want to go shopping together and rob doesn't wanna invite me cauz im skinny.. i mean i understand how they feel but now i feel like rob feels more comfortable around bob and i feel like rob and bob are friends and im not part of the group anymore.. i mean i wouldn't consider rob my best friend... cauz she's not my type of person.. nd now bob is like turning into rob.. like they use the same font colors and fonts on AIM and bob started listening to rock just like rob.. and now whenever we're together and we talk about clothes.. bobs like Lisa your such a twig you can fit into abercrombie.. and the way she says it, it hurts my feelings.. so like rob has bob brain washed practically and i hate the way she's acting now like all punk and into rock or watever and like how she's saying .. i hate you, your so skinny.. its not my fault im skinny.. im a runner.. and ive been skinny all my life cauz its in my genes and ive been doing sports since i was like 2.. so i dunno wat to do.. please help (link)
ahh im sorry this is happening to you i would talk to "bob" alone and tell her whats going on you and "bob" should hang out a whole day alone so you r both honest...try not to be angry try to get her to c that she's not being fair to you! if this fails stay freind with "bob" and "rob" but meet a few other people that dont make you feel uncomfortable about yourself.

best of luck!!!!
x3 dweebie


I just got proactive, and i was wondering how long it takes for it to real noticably start working, and if it works as well as the infomercials say. Also, could only people that have actually used this answer to this or know someone who used and you saw a difference (link)
ok well proactiv works depending on how often you use it and how bad your acne is. If you have bad acne use it everyday...not too much so it lasts though...but if you have ok skin then use it every other day and on the odd days you can use another face cleaner (anything cheap just so its clean) hope my info helps ya!

x3 dweebie


ive never been kissd...im worried it will be too akward

i guess i jut need confidence or something... (link)
good luck!


0k so i just got back from the beach with 3 of my friends and our other 3 guy friends were there too. we hung out with them alot. one of the guys (lets call him Jimmy) has a girlfriend and they've been going out for like 10 months. i know his girlfriend pretty well and stuff. then one night me and Jimmy were in the lobby while all our other friends were in the bathrooms. we were both on the couch and he leaned it and we just started to make out. hes soooo hott and i wasn't thinking so i just gave in and didn't pull away until like i dunno like 10 seconds? lol yeah so now i feel reallly guilty cause his girlfriend has no idea he did this and they are like in love. i don't want to tell anyone cause it would like RUIN me cause his girlfriend has a lot of friends and so yeah. i dunno if i should tell anyone?? please help! (link)
talk to "jimmy" have him confront his girlfriend about making out but make sure he doesnt say it was you...FREE UR CONSCIENCE! lol always be honest it'll make you feel better

x3 dweebie
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uhh it makes me so mad. i have lost almost 10 pounds and ALL of it went from my boobs.i normally have a full D and now i can hardly even fill up my D! is there anyway i can lose fat in other places? please please help. thanks in advance (link)
crunches should just work on your abs,

if u can change this question to say what workouts you did so others dont tell you something that decreased your size

x3 dweebie

RAtE!


I'm 16, I have green eyes, and medium brown hair (long) with purple highlights. I really wanna start wearing make-up, something not heavy, and NO EYELINERS. Can you please give me some tips and colors (brands would be cool too) that would go well with my face?

Thank you sooo much!! (link)
seems lik you would need natural brown eyeshadow! THATS ALWAYS PRETTY! dont put too much on you can use a brown mascara probably look very pretty! curl ur eyelashes! im sure u'll look great!

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In a week will be my first day of a new school, so i want my skin to look good. I have a severe acne problem, its all over my face. the dermatoogist gave me retin-a micro and benzaclin and a sulfur wash but its just not working. i rele want clear skin or atleast clear enough toput make up over it by when school starts. any tips or natural remedes? (link)
proactive works great! its a little costy but definately worth it

enjoy it & ur new school
dwweebie
please ratE!


Hey, my best friend wants to have a summer party, before school starts, and we have no idea where to have it. We can't have it at her house, she said it won't work. We don't live by the beach, and we want to have it somewhere where we can be alone with some guys. Please help, we're totally stuck. Thanks.
x3 Erin (link)
public pool would work

please dont do nething stupid with those boys when u want to be alone!!!!
i bet ur way tooo purty to be sleezzy!

lol
hav fun
dweebie


i dont know if this is under the right category.. but whatever. see i have really low self esteem. i hate that! i mean i dont like my hair.. only when its straight and that doesnt matter cause its straight like all the time.. anyway. i think im so ugly! i mean i have a great complextion and really pretty eyes.. but thats all about.. i mean can you guys help me? i wanna look prettier! i mean i just moved to a new school and i wanna make a great impression since no one knows me there. can you help me? like can you tell me what kind of make up to wear.. like what color eye liner? my eyes are blue and my complextion is like olivish.. my hair is brunette with blondish/light brownish high lights i have that side hair cut. im just not impressed!! HELP! (link)
use some make up that makes you happy to look in the mirror although u described yourself i really cant tell what you should buy make a friend that has good looking make up and high self esteem....she'll rub off on u!!!! good luck with your new school

maybe your mum has advice for you!
dweebie


I have a boyfriend for about 3 months now. For the past 1 and 1/2 months I have realized I dont really like him anymore. Every time Im out I always check out and flirt with all the guys. The only reason I have been going out with him is because I have someone to go to the movies and someone who will spend their money on. Am I wrong? Should I break up with him and if so how would I do it?
I will rate high!! (link)
thats pretty bad you always have your friends to go hang out with and im sure theyd fix you up with people! lol but your leading him on and thats no good
better break it off
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ok, its really hard to explain this without going into detail on the last 8 years of my life, but ill try my hardest- 14/m

I have loved this girl my entire life and we have been great friends, and i asked her out and she said yes. Well that was about 7 or 8 months ago, and she turned out to be a SUPER freezer (for those of you who dont know, its a person who doesnt do ANY thing on dates). She wasnt at first and i thought we were goin pretty well, but then all the sudden she said she needs her space and she told me to back off a lil and slow down. and that was about 3 months ago, and then all the sudden i felt like she had broken up with me cause she didnt do ANYTHING. All the sudden i was getting to feel depressed and stuff (it wasnt only cause of her doin that, i had other stuff goin on too, and she wasnt there for me) and the last week ive called her like 6 times and she never called me back. well i swam over the summer, and i had a friend who i kinda liked last year, and so i was hangin with her, well i think i kinda love her now, and i was debating on breaking up with the first girl and goin with the second. Well, that wont work, because all the sudden the first girl is starting to show just enough that she really likes me and prolly loves me back. so now im stuck in a bind because half of me is sayin break up with her and get over her, and then go with the next girl, and half of me says stay with her and give her the chance. but i already told the second girl im breakin up with the first, so now all the sudden im just plain caught in the middle, and i have no idea what to do! please help! i rate high!!!! (link)
i think yoy might have missed something...the 1st girl could have been going through some shit... think about it do u actually like the second girl or do you just want to do "stuff" with her? although idk any of you i think the 1st girl is the best choice

luck!
x3 dweebie


I'm a 15-year old female. I've liked the same guy for approximately 2 years. I told him about a year ago that I liked him and all he said was "I don't want to get involved." Recently he has begun to act slightly differently towards me. On a mission trip with our church we stayed out and talked after "sharing night" for about half an hour. We would have talked longer, but the leader called us in. When we got up to the dorms, we kind of just stood there and looked at each other for a minute, then went in. It felt like a kissing moment. He'd been asking me if I would mind if he sat by me, instead of just sitting there like he had done previously. I brought him jello last week when he got his teeth pulled and he hugged me as a thank you, which he's never done before. The only times I've ever hugged him is in church. Not that I minded. ;) I'm wondering if I'm reading too much into this. Is this normal friend behavior, or should I "make a move"? (link)
i would hold back a little he might hav slight feelings toward you maybe a closer friend let him make the first move get to be close friends so maybe he feels "brave" enough to let you know hes interested


ok (smiles)i just told my boyfriend that i loved him and he said it back. but now i cant sleep, i dont care if im hungry, and i smile constantly. plus i get this tickle feeling inside of me. i mean....this is the only guy who i have loved and he has loved me back so i dont know how this is soposed to feel. i will rate 5's to who ever answers this bc i feel so good! (link)
im happy for you! although you both may lov eachother make sure u dont take it tooo far...hint hint...be joyous!
x3 dweebie




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