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My mom..............
I know this might not sound like that big of a deal but it is for me!
Well my mom and me have been fighting a lot lately..........almost like every day. But its never my fault like i would say " Mom there's no more laundry detergent." the she would blow up and say " Of course we dont because you have to use so much" and then she would start yelling at me bacause i ask for so much stuff and that she has no money to spend and i hate! I really dont want to hear about her problems then when i say that i don't want to hear it then she starts yelling at me again! please help me and tell me what to do! im going to start school on tuesday, and i dont want this to mess with my head so please help !
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ok i think that you should let your mom cool down and then at a good time tell her that you need to talk let her no how you feel and how much you cry and maybe you will find out about what has her stressed
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well ask her to talk then tell her your problem or you can just ignore her!
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Sounds like your mom is under a lot of stress just trying to make ends meet. Try letting her talk to you and then try to be a little more understanding. Sometimes moms don't have a lot of friends they can rely on to talk about their problems with. It can get frustrating. While she shouldn't be taking it out on you, sounds like that is what is happening. Maybe a grandparent or Aunt could help you make her understand that she shouldn't take her frustrations out on you. :)
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i had the same problem and it was about really stupid stuff too. my mom is usually broke and always complains about it. i finally talked to her and now she tries to avoid talking to me about her problems. some time when you and your mom are calm and not fighting just talk to her and tell her what you said when you are screaming at her just without the screaming. and just forget about everything when you're at school.
modelkate11
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Maybe your Mom is really stressed for some reason and she is taking it out on you. Try to talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. I hope I helped!
~sarah
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I fight with my mom ALL the time, so this was actually her idea to get us through my teenage years without fighting constantly. There was awhile when I was really uspet about some stuff going on in my life and she knew I didn't want to talk to her about it so she bought a journal and wrote an entry in it, which basically said this is jsut for us to talk abotu whatever you want, we will never speak about what's in it and no one else will ever read it, i love you please respond...and she left it on my bed. I wrote back and we've been silently corresponding that way ever since. My advice is to try this, it can't hurt, and I've always foudn it easier to write something then to speak it. Good luck!
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Sounds kind of like my mom and me sometimes. Whenever she was going through her period or a client at work is bothering her little things would bother her. So i set down nad had a talk with her and it worked for a while but then it happend agin so i asked my Dad to say smthng to her. After that she apologized and now we barely fight. So talk to both of ur parents they can help!!
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ok my mom is the same way just try to ignore it and not fight back just let her vent her anger. and next time dont tell her stuff like that unless you have to instead just grab $5 and go buy some yourself or tell her they are having a sale of it(even if there not) and your going to be out and if she wants to give you some money to buy some
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i think she gets angrier when you say you dont want to hear about her problems because shes a person and se has problems that need to be comforted...maybe you could talk to her not just about whats wrong with you but whats going on with her...maybe an extra chore wouldnt hurt either...good luck with school
x3 dweebie
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yeah i think everyones mom gets a little crazy and moody like that..when my mom gets that way i try to give her space and usually shes a lot bettter in a little while. so try just not fighting back and doing something like going outside,watching tv, just anything but away from her, ya know?
and if you want to brighten up her mood a little bit...offer to help out with something..let her knoww that you know shes had a rough day and you want to help.
hhopefully my suggestions will help..let me know how it goes
-melissa-
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Sorry man, there is no easy way.
Sounds like your moms under alot of stress and so are you. You'll need to be a friend to your mom.
Sounds like you guys have money trouble, and on a perant I sure that it might well be the biggest part of her stress, try to distract her from it by telling a joke from time to time.
It sounds like she needs your support, try to see it from her side. You'll need to be mature about this.
I was fourteen when I started waitering cause my perants went bankrupt the year before, I also had fights with my dad and also the same type of scenarios you are descibing, to the extend where I told him "fuck you", and he hit me in the face. I was pretty fucked up and at school nobody understood. I wasn't making it easier on them.
that year I paid for my sisters matric-farewell dress (suppose thats like the graduation dance the americans have). IT SUCKED, but sometimes thats the way life is.
You could try to relieve some of the stress your mom has or you could be part of it. By trying to relieve some of hers, you may well relieve some of your own. In the end family is ALL you really have.
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talk to her about it, and ask her if there's a reason why she keeps acting like that. if you don't talk to her, you'll never know what the real problem is. don't accuse her of anything, just tell her you want to know if she needs your help w/ anything or something like that. GO0D LUCK!!! X0-ARii-0X
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