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Question Posted Monday July 25 2005, 11:08 pm

I have a boyfriend for about 3 months now. For the past 1 and 1/2 months I have realized I dont really like him anymore. Every time Im out I always check out and flirt with all the guys. The only reason I have been going out with him is because I have someone to go to the movies and someone who will spend their money on. Am I wrong? Should I break up with him and if so how would I do it?
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x3MaterialGirl answered Thursday July 28 2005, 12:45 pm:
If you don't like him anymore, you should def. break up! It seems to me like you are using him. That's bad! And I'm sure if you told him you have been using him and flirting with other guys.. the break up should be easy. Sounds to me like you two are totally better off being just friends!

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dw33bi3 answered Thursday July 28 2005, 3:28 am:
thats pretty bad you always have your friends to go hang out with and im sure theyd fix you up with people! lol but your leading him on and thats no good
better break it off
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cheerldrgurl answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 7:22 pm:
you should break up with him because it sounds like your just using him. its not fair to him if he really likes you and you dont like him. you should break up with him but do it gently cause if you do it the wrong way it could hurt him pretty bad. good luck. hope i helped.

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XxTxX answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 5:38 pm:
..Well I Wouldnt Say You Are Wrong..
But That Is Pretty Mean..He Must Like You A Lot If He Spends Money On You..But Its Okay You Arent Mean..And Yes You Should Break Up With Him..Dont Be So Blunt About It Though..Just Be Like I Really Think That We Should Take A Break For A Little Bit And See Other People..I Just Dont Feel The Way I Used To Feel..But I Really Wanna Be Friends With You..N Just Say You Are Sorry And Stuff..Hope I Helped`

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mooch789 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 10:53 pm:
You should dump him if you don't love him anymore. Don't do that to a guy. Wouldn't you want a guy to break up with you instead of checking out other girls behind your back? I don't think so. I say dump him but its your decision. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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lildanceQT1 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 9:25 pm:
I honestly think this one is up to you. You sound like your not into him anymore so don't kepp leading him on. My best advice is let him go nicely and slowly say to him that you think you to are growing apart and things arent how they used to be... you no that you feel that maybe from time to time u can date but u would feel much better being free to date other people... hopefully he'll understand... who knows maybe he is feeling the same way. I hope this helps!
Kelli

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C0MPARExC0NTRAST answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 12:35 am:
i believe you are treating him wrongly.. and you should break it off b.c he may end up really liking you and no one deserves that treatment! Just tell him you lost your interest but you still wanna be friends and hang out! but you reallly needa end it but yet.. agian you might wanna think about it cuz you may not like him right now.. but you might if yall stop spending all this time together you may get lonely!!!!

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Clairabelle answered Monday July 25 2005, 11:54 pm:
Yes, you are wrong to lead him on. If you don't like him as more than a friend anymore, you should break up with him. You need to talk to him in person, preferably, tell him honestly how you feel. Tell him that you don't feel the same about him and that you think you should see other people. Just be honest, but don't lead him on, in the long run it will just be worse and more painful for both of you.

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t0xicParadiSe answered Monday July 25 2005, 11:53 pm:
you really should break up with him because technically you are using him and thats not fair to him
tell him its not working out and you think its best if the two of you broke up
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AGAiNSTxTHExODDS answered Monday July 25 2005, 11:51 pm:
Mkay..yes you should most def. break up with him b.c u are pretty much using him which isnt good. Break it to him easy. Don't be mean when you tell him just simply say you dont think its going to work out between the two of you. Hope I helped =]

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karenR answered Monday July 25 2005, 11:47 pm:
You should definitely break up with him. It is so wrong to date a guy just so he will take you places and spend money on you! There are plenty of other guys out there who would probably happily go out with you. Let this guy go so you can both find people who you can really like. :)

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