okay, im goin to the shore towards the end of august.. and i wanna wear the kinda bathing suits i want to, without lookin bad in them. im 5'3 120 pounds. i hate my stomach, 'lovehandles [hips]' and my legs.. does anyone know anything i could do to get rid of the fat in those places. a n y help would be GREATLY appreciated. thanks
first of all I can't see you being fat because that is the average weight for your height. I am 5"4 and 106 pounds meaning I am underweight. Personally I think if you think postively and say hey I look good in this bathing suit you will begin to believe you do. If you are still into losing weight maybe go for a nightly jog and cut back on the junk. Just be careful though and love yourself for who you are not what you want to be.
Hope I helped
Kelli
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i hav a twin hes friends w/ a lot of populer boys if im goin 2 start dating how can i should i date my bros friends? well theres 1 person whos my neighbor and hes my bros best friend kinda and i kinda like him a lot wen eva he comes over its hard 2 not play w/ him and my bro we hav some laghfs but then my bro says that i like him even tho thats true i deni it also myt mom obveosly thinks im 2 young but mayb nxt year or the year after should i try 2 be friends w/ him till then so he could get 2 no me or should i just leave him and my brother alone i also tend 2 flirt a lot 2 give me some good advice quick and soon and ill give u a good rating and good feed back i need answers!!! please!!!!!!!!
ok well this one is kind of tough. I don't know how old you are but if you really wanna go out wiht your bro's best friend I guess you have two options. 1) you can ask your brother if he feels comfortable with it ( this is only if u can trust him) if not maybe talk to the boy you are looking to go out with and explain to him that you like him a lot and want to go out but he can't tell your brother because he won't understand. Hopefully this guy will get what your saying since he knows your brother. For now just be ready to face the fact that your bro mite find out instead of always hanging with them maybe invite one of your friends over and sya to your bro and his friend that you guys should play a game with partners. You and your friend could be partnerd first and then after you can switch partners and be with your bros freind! I hope this is good advice!! send me some feedback if I helped
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This is a long story so bare with me, please! Ok... i've known this guy since i was in about 6 but we were never close until the begining of my seventh grade year when i had a crush on him randomly. Unfortunately, i had the stupid idea of telling him that at the begining of my eight grade year/ his ninth. He said we were just friend and we've continued to be that off and on, but i think i still like him. Anyway... he said he was asking a girl out when he got his permit which his 15th birthday is tomorrow. I know he probably won't ask me unless everyone else turns him down, but i don't know if I should say yes or no if he does. I don't think he likes me, but if he does then should I say yes? I've also heard from his sister that he's starting to act a little... "different" so I feel weird around him lately. What should I do? I'm really confused
Sorry It's so long
~CoNfUsEd~
I wouldn't risk your friendship... to me it sounds like this guy is only going for you if everyone else says no and in my opinion second best isn't good enough ya know... follow your heart though
hih
kelli ♥
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Okay well i have this boyfriend and he is my neighbor and i am 12 and everytime we are together with some of the other kids playing a game called man hunt which is like hide and go seek but with partners he is always with me don't get me wrong i like it and everything cause i get to spend time with him and see him it's just i am kind of uncomfortabale hiding with him cause he always tries to make a move on me what should i do tell him not to or what cause it's not like i havn't kissed him before what should i do
If you feel uncomfortable kissing this guy then simply tell him to back off (nicely) say you know I really like having you as a boyfriend but I think we are a little young to get into the kissing stuff after all we are only twelve... if your still feeling uncomfortable like this guy is pressuring you then break up with him... dont EVER let anyone pressure you into doing something that you don't want to do. Its your choice. If you decide later on that you want to get back to kissing this boy let him no your ready... I hope I helped please rate me!
Good luck
kelli
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well i have a boyfriend and he really likes me and i like him we've been going out for about 2 weeks and he wants me to do somethin all the time when i see him i don't mind doing cause i have done it once to him and i really liked it it's just i don't no if i am nervous because i really like him or because i just really don't want to do it.
ok i guess I'm a little unclear of what you mean by "doing something" but im gonna guess I know what your talking about. If you feel uncomfortable for one reason or another I wouldn't do it. Your best guide is your heart. If you feel that "doing it" with this guy is the right thing to do and it makes you feel happy then go for it! Just don't let yourself be pressured into something you don't want to do. Your nerves will definatly be a big part of this either way so I can't help you there. Just listen to your heart and do what you feel is right. Its only your choice. Hope I helped
Kelli
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how do i make a first move on a guy, he knows i like him and schools about to start so i want to make a move on him before i dont get the chance. thanks
Schools about to start so maybe ask your parents if you could throw an end f summer party let them no how many people would come and what you would need right off the bat. Invite this guy you like and you to could start talking... flirt a llittle and let him know that you two are good for going out... dont get obnoxious flirty... when you get to that part tune it down if you 'rents say no to the party maybe ask all your girl friends to take a guy friend with them somewhere like maybe dinner and a movie. Then you coud ask this guy out and after having so much fun with you that night ( pick a comady so you have a lot to talk about after ) he'll want to say yes! If this doesn't work then just give him a call or drop an email. Send feedback on what you think,
Kelli
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What are some really good love songs? My boyfriend is in the Navy..so I'm looking for some songs maybe dealing with love apart. Or missing somebody. Thank you!
Personally I think that
1) listen to your heart by DHT
2) A moment like this bye Kelly Clarkson
3) Collide by howie day
4) take my breath a way by Jessica simpson
are all some really good love songs. Sorry if I couldn't help father post a question for further help
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well theres this guy that im kind of seeing (jack) but hes really getting on my nerves now. i mean hes alright at times but hes always calling me and txting me and wont leave me alone. if i dont reply then he gets paranoid that im md at him and rings me even more. weve been seeing each other for like two weeks now and hes already said that he loves me!! i mean how can he? well anyway then theresthis otherguy that likes me! (noah) well noah doesnt like jack and keeps dissing him to my face. i think thats why i dont like jack anymore butthe thing is noah doesnt know that im seeing jack and jack doesnt know that im seeing noah. i dont know who the best. jack is reliable, safe and sweet but is clingy and all i want is to have fun. noah is fun and outgoing and spontanious and just so fun to be around but i dont get the feelin he can be relied on! what should i do? who should i pick?
sorry this is so long
i'll rate high for a good answer!!
uh oh sounds like your about to make a big choice. Well Jack sounds like he is very nice but being clingy can be very annoying to the person there clinging to. Personally Noah sounds like he'd be fun but I don't know I guess Jack to me sounds like a better choice. Maybe let him know that he shouldn't be so clingy but let him know nicely if he still doesn't lay off and you still want noah then sit him down and ask him if he is ready for a relationship... just say you know before we start going out I want to make sure I can turn to you... and all of that other relationship stuff. I really hope this works... send me feedback if it does and if not go to my advice column and ask again there I'll think about it some more
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okay so my b-day is coming up and i want to make some mexican food any suggegtions
for dinner maybe you and your mom could lay out a tabel in the kitchen on the deck whereever and you guys could put out thinks like salsa chesse meat onions tomatoes lettuce anything that you think would taste good in a taco. Then when you and your friends are ready to eat come up and let them make there own tacos! As a side dish you could lay out chips and salsa and as dessert, get the recipe for fried ice cream. Its very simple yet its all mexican! Leave feedback for me if this helped.
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Hey All!
Homecoming is a way away, but I am currious. I have never gone to a dance before. My boyfriend and I are going to most of the dances at both of our schools this year, because it is his senior year. I already have a dress for Prom. and it is floor length. I wore it in a wedding.
So, is homecoming like prom at all? Do you get an almost to the floor dress? a knee length? what? What are good colors?
Is it a huge deal? How much should one spend on a homecoming dress.
What about shoes?
its in September or October. (I cannot remember!)
thanks so much in advance.
I'll rate and leave feedback!
-SLeK-
Ok well seeing as I'm only 11 I am going to give you what I know. Homecoming I believe is in Late spetember or early october I honestly don't know. Homecoming is still one of those dances where you where swishy floor length dresses. I ahve seen a lot of light colors as pinks, blues, light pastel greens, the color however is left up to the individual. Yes I think you should bring a purse but make it a fancy one. A small satiny bag the same color as your dress ( or a color that matches) with a silver chain strap would be really nice and you can get those cheap at any store that sells purses or prom dresses. I can't tell you how much you should spend but I guess I can tell you that spending a TON of money isn't really a nessacary thing to do. You can get a really nice cheap ( well cheaper) dress at some stores in the mall like I don't know where you live but we have a store claled Deb that sells wedding dresses and prob dresses for like $250.00. I know that sounds like a lot of money but for a dress I'm sure thats nothing. I'm sorry I couldn't help you any farther like I said I'm only 11
Good Luck
Kelli
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im 13 and he guy i like is 16. we go to church together and met at church. we have known each other for almost 3 years . when we talk we flirt. he called me for 2 weeks and we almosted kissed twice. we dont talk very much though. he brought 2 girls to church 2 different times and then said sorry for the1st girl. he looks at me in church all the time and we have talkd about going out before but it never happened. he says he likes me and I tell him the same . I am crazy about him what should I do ?
make a move! it seems like tihs guy is interested in you to and it sounds to me like you guys could hit it off.. maybe say to hi after church on sunday do you want to catch a late breakfast or early lunch? Then when your out let him no that you think there something between the two of you. You guys sound like youd be good for each other and some one has to make the first move!
hope this helps
kelli
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Where can I get really cheap but stylish clothes in California besides the mall?
I honestly don't know... I don't even live close to CA so Ic ouldn't really help I guess I could recomend a second hand store... some of there stuff is really cool and all is dry cleaned if you stupid going to a thrift shop try walmart they hav good deals and if your lucky you can catch some cute cheap stuff.. sorry this isn't very helpful i dont live out there so i wouldnt no
hope i helped eights&
kelli
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its jake i need help on picking a question to ask help me
lol theres a bunch of topics to choose from just pick one lol dont go looking for a problem ask only if u need one
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I have a boyfriend for about 3 months now. For the past 1 and 1/2 months I have realized I dont really like him anymore. Every time Im out I always check out and flirt with all the guys. The only reason I have been going out with him is because I have someone to go to the movies and someone who will spend their money on. Am I wrong? Should I break up with him and if so how would I do it?
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I honestly think this one is up to you. You sound like your not into him anymore so don't kepp leading him on. My best advice is let him go nicely and slowly say to him that you think you to are growing apart and things arent how they used to be... you no that you feel that maybe from time to time u can date but u would feel much better being free to date other people... hopefully he'll understand... who knows maybe he is feeling the same way. I hope this helps!
Kelli
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My friend is nice to me a lot but when we are online she starts swearing at my and she gets all mad.then the next day in school she is talking to me and she acts like it never happened.Why do you think she does this?
you know I have a friend exactly like you... the word for your friend is two faced in school she acts nice because its so much easier to be mean to people over the computer. She most likely means nothing by her constant people but your best bet is don't get involved with her. Two faced people get there name simply because they act like two different people. One side has mood swings and can cause pain and the other side is friendly. I guess being her firend is alrighht but I wouldn't tell her secrets she should be a friend that you can have a friendly conversation with but don't get your hopes up to hang out with her... your pain isnt worth it I hope this helps let me no!
kelli
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ok im on vaca and sometimes i really wanna go home...i talk to my mom and some of my friends everyday but i still miss them...what should i do?
I have a couple of suggestions for you. #1 is maybe you arent talking to them enough should you set aside a special time to call them each day then maybe you feel so lonely. I understand completely that you miss your mom and friends so why not mail pictures and letters back and forth so you can see them and how they have changed! I am sure they miss you very much to and would love to "see" and "hear" from you. Email is also a very good way to keep in touch probably the easiest depending on how far away you are. And I am sure your having fun out there but have you considered coming home early? I understand that may not be an option for you but maybe you could ask... homesickness is ok for a while but don't let yourself get miseralble. I hope this helps. Let me no if it does
kelli
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I know this one girl, lets call her Natasha. Natasha goes to this high school that's pretty close to my high school so i see her pretty often. I really like her alot, but it seems like she never notices me. we met once but i don't think she remembers. She's always hanging around these other people i know who are also my friends. How am i gonna get her to notice me?
ok well it would help to no if your a guy or a girl. i\'ll give you advice for both though since i dont no.
boy) if you want natasha to notice you then maybe go up to her and talk i no you probably think you dont hav the guts but it isnt that complicated find something shes good at lets say gymnastics for example then say you know natasha i have seen you do some gymnastics moves and i think your pretty good then get into a conversation if you dont hav the nerve to talk to her in person maybe find out from a freind if she has an email adress be like
natasha- hey its ( whatever your name is) i dont no if you really no me but i thought id let you no that i have been noticing you... your really good at (whatever) and you seem like a nice person... maybe we could get to no each other some night. if you want to go out email me at ( you email adress)
thanks- ( your name)
girl- ok if you want to be friends with this girl go up and introduce your self say hi my name is ( your name) some of my friends told me that your really nice and that i should meet you... get into a conversation say like hey after practice tomorrow ( or whatever you do) i was gonna head to the mall to pick up some ( whatever) and say wanna come? hopefully she says yes
i hope this works out either way im sorry that i couldnt give you a full on answer boy or girl next time include that if you can
good luck with \"natasha\"
kelli
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im 17/f and i have a little acne on my face. the only place i get them is on my forehead and especailly my chin. i was wondering if anyone knew of any good acne products that arent real expensive? what the product is called, how much it costs, how good it works, and where i can find it? thanks so much!
there is a really good brand of cne products called clean and clear. You can get them at almost any drug sotre supermarket or convience store. Clean and clear has a bunch of acne products, thats what they specialize in you can get wipes, spritzes, sticks to rub over your acne, and I think they even have some makeup like foundation that hides you acne and recovers it. Let me no if this help most of these products range anywhere from $5-10$ maybe less depending on what store you go to.
Good luck!
Kelli
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my hair is SOOOOO frizzy, i cant stand it anymore. how can i get it to stop frizzing so much? is there a good shampoo/conditioner etc.?
will rate high!!
~thanx
there are lots of different hair products that can help this I don't know many shampoo and conditioners but if you read the bottom of the bottle on the front or back it should say something about helping friz if thats what the product is made for i do no of a brand of hair products called frizzies and it helps a lot u can get frizzie moose, hair spray, gell and im sure that they have shampoos and conditions. Read the label an they will help u to apply these products right. Also if this doesnt work then maybe speak to your hair dresser they can most deifnatly reccomend a product that is good for your hair type. Hope this helps! Good luck
Kelli
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i was with this guy for almost a year and a half. we were so in love. problem was, we never saw each other because of his parents. but we stuck through it. we started going to church together, but his family decided to change churches about two weeks ago. so i started dating another guy, mostly to piss my ex off. but it didn't work. my ex and i started talking today about how we love each other, etc. but we got in an odd fight online tonight. i don't even know how it escalated. but we blocked each other on practically all of our screennames. and he told me he was gone forever. i want to move on, but i love him so much i just can't. i don't think any of you can help me, but it feels really good to get everything off my chest.
I have been sitting here for a lil while trying to figure out what to say. I cant really give you the answers to your problem but I can tell you one thing. If you truly love this guy then talk to him. Chances are he is probably really upset to. Just let him no that u think your fight was completely stupid and that you love him. If you two really are in love in will work out no matter what obsticals you come across. I hope this helps :-)
kelli
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