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if you cant get what you want from one guy should you date t
well theres this guy that im kind of seeing (jack) but hes really getting on my nerves now. i mean hes alright at times but hes always calling me and txting me and wont leave me alone. if i dont reply then he gets paranoid that im md at him and rings me even more. weve been seeing each other for like two weeks now and hes already said that he loves me!! i mean how can he? well anyway then theresthis otherguy that likes me! (noah) well noah doesnt like jack and keeps dissing him to my face. i think thats why i dont like jack anymore butthe thing is noah doesnt know that im seeing jack and jack doesnt know that im seeing noah. i dont know who the best. jack is reliable, safe and sweet but is clingy and all i want is to have fun. noah is fun and outgoing and spontanious and just so fun to be around but i dont get the feelin he can be relied on! what should i do? who should i pick?
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Everyone has had a two-guy problem. Ask yourself if you have fun with Jack. I don't know about you, but I like it when guys are romantic, but I also like to have fun. If he's just a sweetheart but isn't outgoing then you'll get bored pretty easily. Honestly, I don't think either one of them is right for you. Jack you will get bored with and he's too clingy. And Noah is fun but doesn't seem like he'd be a good person to really talk to. Unless those things are true and I don't know that already. If I'm right, then you should first try telling Jack that he's being too clingy and that you like him. But that you feel things are moving too quickly. If he gets angry or upset then move onto Noah and see what happens with that. If both don't work out, then that's fine. There are other fish in the sea, and obviously it isn't hard for you to get a boyfriend. So have fun and I hope I helped.
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uh oh sounds like your about to make a big choice. Well Jack sounds like he is very nice but being clingy can be very annoying to the person there clinging to. Personally Noah sounds like he'd be fun but I don't know I guess Jack to me sounds like a better choice. Maybe let him know that he shouldn't be so clingy but let him know nicely if he still doesn't lay off and you still want noah then sit him down and ask him if he is ready for a relationship... just say you know before we start going out I want to make sure I can turn to you... and all of that other relationship stuff. I really hope this works... send me feedback if it does and if not go to my advice column and ask again there I'll think about it some more
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Tell Jack that he is being too clingy, and that you want to have fun. If he can't ease up, get another guy.
As to Noah, be his friend, not his girl. Unless you can see that you can rely on him, don't bother.
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