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Hi everyone,
I'm 15/f and I'm going into 9th grade this year. I was wondering what I should shop for when I go clothes shopping. I'm so used to wearing spaghetti-strapped shirts with jeans since I wore stuff like that over the summer. It's just that spaghetti-strapped shirts aren't allowed to be worn unless a hoodie or zip-up jacket or something is worn over it. I don't wanna have to wear a lot of hoodies this year, because I wore them a lot during 7th and 8th grade. If anyone can, please let me know what stores sell cute long sleeve shirts that would look good with jeans. You can also let me know what stores sell cute short sleeve shirts. I usually shop in the mall like at Deb, Aeropostale, and G&G. I also like to go to Kohl's a lot. I don't want shirts that are going to be really expensive. If you can, please help me out. Does anyone know where they sell some cute purses right now also? I really need a new one! Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. :-)

Wet Seal is awesome. I love it there, they have really cute clothes and they have the greens/browns for Fall too. The people that work there are usually very helpful and nice. And if you want to save some cash there, become a Goldmember card member and you save 10% off on everything, plus if they have any sales going on. There's also Rampage, which has the same stuff as Wetseal. Forever 21 is nice, Aeropostale, actually what you should do is go to this website.. www.palisadescenter.com or palisadescentermall.com i forgot which one. And look under "Womens". Those stores are really good, that's the mall I go to :].

Hope I helped!
Dani

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Okay so umm... There's this guy I really like at the moment... He's really cute and has never had a gf! Which I can't understand... But anyway.. he works at the same place as me, he's so sweet.. I'm not sure he notices me much because he's like 3 years older but well.. he's my best mate's BROTHER... and well... what the heck should I do :S
Do I need to tell my friend or just let things run and see if there's even a possibility anything could happen...
lol whoops :(

Definently tell your friend. She could tell you what to do and what not to do because obviously he's either very picky about girls or not very good with them. Your best bet is to tell your friend and make sure she won't tell her brother. Then start making moves on them and see what happens from there.
Hope I helped

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there was a guy that i went out with and then he told me he wanted to be single over the summer but he really broke up with me to go out with my bff. but then she was gonna break up with him for me to go out with him, but he brkoe up w/ her first and now is looking for a new girlfriend. what should i do to get him back but not sounding to eager to date him?

I know this sounds harsh, but you shouldn't go out with him at all. He broke up with you to go out with your best friend. Your best friend is messed up also because she went out with your ex right after. He b.s.ed you and gave you a lame exuse to breaking up. You're going to look stupid any way you look at it because he was fooling around with you. So if you try to get back with someone who lied to you, then you're going to either get hurt or look like a moron. Just move on. I suggest you talk to the next girl he goes out with and tell her how he is, because then she'll end up breaking up with him and he'll get revenge haha.

I hope I helped!
xOx

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hey dani i need some help,.... i have this friend that i really like and she likes me to (im a guy lol) but her best friend also likes me and whenever her best friend talks to me she tells me how much she likes me but i want to go out with the other girl and i dont want to make the other one hurt...

Well first of all, since I've had problems like this where I was in the girl that you don't like's situation... do not, I repeat, DO NOT put them against each other. That's the worst thing you could do to a girl is start a fight with her and her best friend. Obviously you don't want to hurt her, so don't talk to her about it. Talk to the one you like. Tell her that you care about her a lot and tell her what her friend is doing to you. Tell her to be nice to her friend but let her know that you don't have feelings for her. That maybe in the future things will change but for now, you're not ready for her. Talk to both of them and make sure you don't end up hurting her.

I hope I helped!!
xOx;;

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I have long straight hair and I part it on the side and I want to get sweeping bangs. I want them short enough to be able to leave them out when I put the rest of my hair up.. but I don't want them to get in my eyes and be annoying. So how long should they be?

I have them myself. My Mom's a hairdresser. Be sure to go to a hairdresser and not do them yourself because if you do them and you mess up, they might come out wrong. Pretend you're getting bangs, and only get them on one side and then when she/he is cutting them, make them keep trimming it down from the bottom and when they get to the point that looks good, then it will be alright.

Hope I helped!!

xOx;;

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ok so there are these 3 girls tommy summer and jordan lets call them (tsj)then there is me darci and courtney lets call us (adc)ok so tsj used to me really close friends with us but now tsj have like theri own little inside jokes and we all used to be really good friends but now whne tommy or summer are 2gether they are big bitches then whne summer and jordan are togfether they are bitches me darci and courtney try talkign to then but the when the words come out they go right through tsj ears they ignore us and we fell excluded an really want to tell them how we feel but if we do we are afriand that they will hate us even more.... ok so here is whats going on summer ignores me all day except for history and jordan hates my gut which i dont know why and tommy never talks to me its the same going on with courtney and darci to those stupid bitch whores leaves us out of everything should we write them a note telling them how we feel or should we just let it go???i mean summer and jordan have these little inside jokes like cherry and bazooka and all this crap and it pisses me off the most cuz they leave us out of the picture andi fell like choking them they need to be more nice to us shoudl i tell them that?? ok we are all in 8th grade and i know we should resolve it asome how but its still not gonna work i really really really nedd help on what to do???? help

I know girls like that. I used to be in adc's shoes. Instead of picking one option, write them a note first. Explaining all of your feelings. Don't make anything at all in it mean. If they don't feel bad and include you, drop it and move on. You shouldn't waste your time on them if they won't give any time for you. Obviously you have Courtney and Darci as your friends and you can make other ones. Hope I helped!

xOx;;

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okay my 16th birthday is comeing up and i want a car... hopefully my parents will buy me one, but what are some nice cars... like that everybody wants... under 20,000$!! please help... need to now quick! thanks in advance!!

Personally, if you're all cutsey like me.. I'd go with the VW Beetle. They're pretty cheap, stylish, and they're good on the road.

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well theres this guy that im kind of seeing (jack) but hes really getting on my nerves now. i mean hes alright at times but hes always calling me and txting me and wont leave me alone. if i dont reply then he gets paranoid that im md at him and rings me even more. weve been seeing each other for like two weeks now and hes already said that he loves me!! i mean how can he? well anyway then theresthis otherguy that likes me! (noah) well noah doesnt like jack and keeps dissing him to my face. i think thats why i dont like jack anymore butthe thing is noah doesnt know that im seeing jack and jack doesnt know that im seeing noah. i dont know who the best. jack is reliable, safe and sweet but is clingy and all i want is to have fun. noah is fun and outgoing and spontanious and just so fun to be around but i dont get the feelin he can be relied on! what should i do? who should i pick?
sorry this is so long
i'll rate high for a good answer!!

Everyone has had a two-guy problem. Ask yourself if you have fun with Jack. I don't know about you, but I like it when guys are romantic, but I also like to have fun. If he's just a sweetheart but isn't outgoing then you'll get bored pretty easily. Honestly, I don't think either one of them is right for you. Jack you will get bored with and he's too clingy. And Noah is fun but doesn't seem like he'd be a good person to really talk to. Unless those things are true and I don't know that already. If I'm right, then you should first try telling Jack that he's being too clingy and that you like him. But that you feel things are moving too quickly. If he gets angry or upset then move onto Noah and see what happens with that. If both don't work out, then that's fine. There are other fish in the sea, and obviously it isn't hard for you to get a boyfriend. So have fun and I hope I helped.

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ok first of all, please dont say go google it or yahoo or whatever. doesnt work. does anyone know the artist name or song title for this, im really dont know much of the lyrics so ill try. also im pretty sure the group starts with the letter "A". it usually also plays on the semi-emo station. so heres some of the words i remember, its teh chorus:
"wanted to be something that's different. wanted to see the change in me..."

sry i know its not a lot-thanks a lot!

I'm not sure what song or the artist is. But when I have a problem like that, I check out "Letssingit.com". All you do is type in the lyrics that you know in the box, click on "lyrics" and then it will look for results. Hope I helped!

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