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ok like, i have this boyfriend and we've been going out for around 5 months(a long time) and now every thing about him is starting to bug me! its like i just dont want to be around him anymore but i've felt this way for a few weeks but like last week we went like.. way further that we had been. and he's always talking about how he couldnt live without me and like how he would kill himself, and he is serious. what should i do? (link)
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hey. this is a hard one, i have a close friend who went threw almost the exact same thing. What I would recommend, is tell him what it is that is bothering you, and that you think you need to spend some time apart. If you still want to try things..tell him that you would like to take a little break, and see each other less. If you do want to end things, lay it onh im litely. Make sure he knows you still love him so much AS a friend and dont want this to ruin things between you two. If he really is serious about suicide afterwards, tell someone, do help him... I hope i helped and I hope everything works out hun.. good luck !
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i started cuttin in 6 th grade.. im now goin into 8th .. i stopped for 8 months but then my mom and this lady she knows got into a verbal fight and i hate fighting so i cut again.. [between the 8 months i only cut 2 but not bad] i got so upset that i cut and i left like 19 deep cuts... my mom and her best friend patti dont know i cut but patti knows what is going on so i have kind of been living with her a couple nights during the week because she doesnt want me to be around the enviroment.. well the lady moved out and everything is normal but now i still get really mad and cut.. is there anyway to stop cutting other than rubber bands and the red marker because it doesnt work.
[ i have told one adult who is 20 and she is talking to me when i go to work with her monday wednesday and friday but i still cut ] .. sorry it was so long. * thanks (link)
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Hey. I'm going into ninth grade, and i'm giong threw the same thing you are. I have been cutting since 5th and I am just now trying to stop. Yeah, its to do because, trust me i know, its really addicting. It really is worth it though. The way I am trying now, because i do not want to talk to my mom or start going to therapy, although that may work for you if you want to try it, is by telling one of my very close friends who i trust with everything. After talking to her about it, i just call her whenever someone made me angry, or sad enough to cut, and she has a way of always cheering me up, and I have been cutting a lot less. I know things are hard for you right now, but stopping really will be worth it. Maybe try talking to a really close friend, if you think one could help you.
I dont know how much that helped// but I hope it did. Good luck hun !!
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What are the bases?
i knoe base 1 is making out whats theres? (link)
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people say the bases different ways
One: make out
Two: feel up
Three: finger/hand job
Four: sex
or the other way is:
One: make out/feel up
Two: finger/handjob
Three: eat out/blow job
Four: sex
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okay.. well i really really need help.. i have frizzy curly hair its like really frizzy and stuff and i want to know if any one knows anything that can straighten my hair really well and be like permanent and i mean like it would be really straight and look good and prices.. thanks soo much.. i rate 5's
Thankss (link)
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hair salons have chemical straightening, that will keep your hair straight. you have to get it done profesionally, though because it can really mess up your hair or scalp if the chemicals are on too long. its just like a revese perm or whatever. I get it done, i like it a lot. Its not permenate for like ever..
http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip086.htm
theres a website all about it.. it kind of makes it sound more risky then it is, buti hope it helps
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"its not your actions that make me feel the way i feel, its just being around you. and you dont make me feel bad otherwise i wouldnt wan to be with you. i care for you and you make me feel great its just that it hasnt built up to incredible yet"
How do you interput that? I don't understand what my boyfriend means when he said that. (link)
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wow that is really hard to understand. The way i would take it, is that he is saying its not the things you do that make him like you so much, its just you in genrel.. you make him feel really good.. and he wants to be with you and likes you a lot..but you dont make him feel "incredible" yet.
ahah sorry that didnt really help
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my mom went threw my journels and red some stuff about how bad i want to die and details about a time where i was raped and she flipped out at me
i feel so betrayed that MY mother did this because she always talks about how journels are a good thing, and one time i had my friend pamela sleep over and she wont let me have her over anymore because pamela snooped and red one of my journels.. and my sister read my moms journel once and she was grounded for 2 weeks
she doesn't listen to what i say though when i try to explain how i feel she just says im being selfish and just trying to turn this around on her
what can i do to make her see what she did was rong she wont even apoligize.. (link)
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wow.. I would hate it if my mom did that. Journels are a personal thing, you should be able to write your feelings down in there no matter what they are. Your mom, however, does have a reason to worry. Can you imagine how devestated she would be if something happened to you? She shouldn't have read it, but now she can try to make you feel better with everything that has happened in your life. Sit her down and have a talk with her. Tell her you really didnt like what she did, and i'm sure you'll be able to get her to listen, if you don't loose your cool and just have a good talk with her.
Good Luck
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