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ok like, i have this boyfriend and we've been going out for around 5 months(a long time) and now every thing about him is starting to bug me! its like i just dont want to be around him anymore but i've felt this way for a few weeks but like last week we went like.. way further that we had been. and he's always talking about how he couldnt live without me and like how he would kill himself, and he is serious. what should i do?
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ok i have gone through this like africkin billlion times and i know it puts like so much freaking pressure on you...I know how it gets like u dont want to be around him like you cant stand it and you try to aviod it most likely what you have to do is break up w/ him he wont commit sucide he may be carzy about you but that is probably just for show do you want to be friends with him?
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hey. this is a hard one, i have a close friend who went threw almost the exact same thing. What I would recommend, is tell him what it is that is bothering you, and that you think you need to spend some time apart. If you still want to try things..tell him that you would like to take a little break, and see each other less. If you do want to end things, lay it onh im litely. Make sure he knows you still love him so much AS a friend and dont want this to ruin things between you two. If he really is serious about suicide afterwards, tell someone, do help him... I hope i helped and I hope everything works out hun.. good luck !
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tell him how you feel but make sure he knows you still want to be friends. keep in touch with him, even if he's not the right one for you. tell his parents the situation.. he might just actually have a real mental problem.
i'll be thinking about you
-hope it helps-
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Tell him EXACTLY how you feel. If he bugged you before you should tell him in a soft way. Tell im what things he did or said bugged you. Don't try to change him and mold him into the perfect dream boyfriend you want though. That hurts knowing a girlfriend would change some things about her boyfriend if she could. Now that you guys went further than you have ever been, he now feels closer to you and now realizes that he loves you so much. Or he's just excited about how everything turned our and felt great. If you don't like the idea of him killinh himself without you, you need to tell him. Also try telling him how you feel about him when he says certain things and what you think he needs to improve on.
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Okay, this guy seems kinda creepy. If you dont like him you should never have gone "alot farther" than you did. But anyway, you have to sit him down and tell him that you dont like it when he talks like that, and that you dont like him as much as you did when you first got togeather, and that people change over time. Hopefully he'll understand, and it wont be your fault if he does somthing, because thats his choice.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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