we cant stand them and i need help on how to get them to sto
Question Posted Thursday April 1 2004, 9:26 pm
ok so there are these 3 girls tommy summer and jordan lets call them (tsj)then there is me darci and courtney lets call us (adc)ok so tsj used to me really close friends with us but now tsj have like theri own little inside jokes and we all used to be really good friends but now whne tommy or summer are 2gether they are big bitches then whne summer and jordan are togfether they are bitches me darci and courtney try talkign to then but the when the words come out they go right through tsj ears they ignore us and we fell excluded an really want to tell them how we feel but if we do we are afriand that they will hate us even more.... ok so here is whats going on summer ignores me all day except for history and jordan hates my gut which i dont know why and tommy never talks to me its the same going on with courtney and darci to those stupid bitch whores leaves us out of everything should we write them a note telling them how we feel or should we just let it go???i mean summer and jordan have these little inside jokes like cherry and bazooka and all this crap and it pisses me off the most cuz they leave us out of the picture andi fell like choking them they need to be more nice to us shoudl i tell them that?? ok we are all in 8th grade and i know we should resolve it asome how but its still not gonna work i really really really nedd help on what to do???? help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? GO0DBYE_KiSS_x answered Friday August 5 2005, 4:54 pm: I know girls like that. I used to be in adc's shoes. Instead of picking one option, write them a note first. Explaining all of your feelings. Don't make anything at all in it mean. If they don't feel bad and include you, drop it and move on. You shouldn't waste your time on them if they won't give any time for you. Obviously you have Courtney and Darci as your friends and you can make other ones. Hope I helped!
alpha answered Thursday April 1 2004, 10:55 pm: Let it go. They're not your friends anymore, and it sounds like they don't deserve to be. Don't give them any attention, because it makes them feel superior when you do. A note will not change anything, except give them one more thing to snicker about.
You, Darci and Courtney should stick together and not care who "leaves you out of the picture" -- you don't need those girls. You never know: at some point, one or more of them might wake up and start acting decent to you again, but I wouldn't hold your breath. [ alpha's advice column | Ask alpha A Question ]
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