This is a long story so bare with me, please! Ok... i've known this guy since i was in about 6 but we were never close until the begining of my seventh grade year when i had a crush on him randomly. Unfortunately, i had the stupid idea of telling him that at the begining of my eight grade year/ his ninth. He said we were just friend and we've continued to be that off and on, but i think i still like him. Anyway... he said he was asking a girl out when he got his permit which his 15th birthday is tomorrow. I know he probably won't ask me unless everyone else turns him down, but i don't know if I should say yes or no if he does. I don't think he likes me, but if he does then should I say yes? I've also heard from his sister that he's starting to act a little... "different" so I feel weird around him lately. What should I do? I'm really confused
Additional info, added Wednesday July 27 2005, 12:55 pm: He's a good friend and one of his friend says i'm one of his good friends... we've had a bumpy past but should i risk his friendship by going out. then again... you never know unless you give it a chance I guess. I need an answer by tonight if possible. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lildanceQT1 answered Friday July 29 2005, 1:29 pm: I wouldn't risk your friendship... to me it sounds like this guy is only going for you if everyone else says no and in my opinion second best isn't good enough ya know... follow your heart though
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kareneeh_745 answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 10:06 pm: uuuh..hello..
dilemma?
uuuh..i think you should first project what would happen if you'd say yes and if you'd say no..after that, weigh which is heavier..go for that..dont just follow your heart becoz though it will cause gratification it would als0 be a ground for embarrassment..
inthedark535 answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 3:20 pm: ok, well first thing u said he'd prefer to go out with other girls before you. so right there, that should be a red flag sayin uh oh. you dont want him wanting to be with other girls if he's with you. i probably would date him if he asked me FIRST. but, take things slow and work on the friendship part of the relationship more than the sexual part. [ inthedark535's advice column | Ask inthedark535 A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 1:40 pm: If he asks then go if you want to. You can go out and still remain friends if it doesn't work out. So long as you talk to each other you can get out (if need to) before things get ugly. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 1:40 pm: If he asks then go if you want to. You can go out and still remain friends if it doesn't work out. So long as you talk to each other you can get out (if need to) before things get ugly. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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