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ok today i was supposed to go to the mall with a clsoe friend of mine except the person that was goin to take me is in LA right now and CANT take me today.. except me and my guy friend have been watin forever for this day and really want to go btu there is no way i need to tell him i cant go the easiest and nicest way possible.. how can i do this ?? thanks
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oh .. well maybe your guy friend might know someone who could take both of you even if it means somebody else coming along but if that doesnt work just tell him "im sorry but the person who is supposed to take me to the mall is in LA right now and i was wondering if it was possible for you to take me?" and then just go from there. hope i helped :]
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just be like i cant go my ride balled can we reschedual and hopfully he'll under stand
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You simply tell him you lost your ride and will have to make it another day. Be sure you let him know you feel bad about it. :)
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Is there a public transportation system in your town; like some sort of community coach, bus, or van? If not, do you have money for a cab? Does your city have a discount bus line? My town has the A-line and the B-line, which both charge $5 to come to your house and get you, and take you wherever you want.
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This could be...
ACTUAL DIALOGUE!
You: Hey, so like. We should really get a car and stuff.
Guy: Yeah, totally.
You: Yep.
Guy: So when are we going to the mall?
You: That chick skipped out and went to LA.
Guy: What a bitch.
You: Totally, she is our only form of transportation, then she leaves us like we can take a bus or a subway or something.
Guy: I know.
You: Sigh, if only there were such thing as a bus or a subway.
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Well if this day was of such great importance, calling it off will hurt him no matter WHAT you say. Because of this, it's best to be honest. Just tell him that you'd LOVE to see him, but, as unfortunate as it is, you simply do not have transportation. Of course he'll be hurt, but he'll understand that sometimes these things happen. It'll be crushing, I'm shore.. but it's not the end of the world, and you guys can set up new plans as soon as possible.. just make shore to let him know this. =]
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Just be honest. Tell him you're sorry but you can't go today since your ride went to LA instead. Then suggest you go another time. I'm sure he'll understand that these things happen.
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