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i'm a normal teenage girl who likes boys cheerleading and showing paint horses.
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Member Since: January 30, 2005
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Hey.............my older sister is having a baby but she doesn't kno yet if it's a boy or girl and she needs some cute names!! (Don't worry she's married and like 29 years old!!) Thanx!! (link)
umm i think that a cute boy name is james or kyle and if its a girl ashley or jordan. hope i helped.


hey! i'm on a healthier diet because i know i have been eating too much crap! i had a good dinner around 8 oclock and haven't ate anything since, since i know it's bad for you! and it's now around midnight, and my stomach hurts really bad! why does it hurt? (link)
it probably hurts because your not used to eating what you ate. maybe the diet that your on isnt the right diet for you. maybe you should try a different diet and see if that maybe makes you feel better. hope i helped.


i sweat alot in my armpits. im not doing any hard activity just relaxed. i would go to school or even talk on the fone and i would start sweating. this is reallllllllyyyyyyyy embarassing me. i use deordant and stuff. i cant wear normal clothes woithout them getting all sweaty. i need to know if theres anything out there that i can get from the drugstore.
~A.E~ (link)
um the only thing that i can think of is to matbe go to a doctor or the dermatologist. maybe they can help you and tell you something to try. hope i helped.


I have a boyfriend for about 3 months now. For the past 1 and 1/2 months I have realized I dont really like him anymore. Every time Im out I always check out and flirt with all the guys. The only reason I have been going out with him is because I have someone to go to the movies and someone who will spend their money on. Am I wrong? Should I break up with him and if so how would I do it?
I will rate high!! (link)
you should break up with him because it sounds like your just using him. its not fair to him if he really likes you and you dont like him. you should break up with him but do it gently cause if you do it the wrong way it could hurt him pretty bad. good luck. hope i helped.


what are sum good eyeshadow colors? (link)
umm it really depends on what your eye color is. if ur eyes r blue like mine then light colors look really pretty but darker colors amke ur eye color look brighter. brown eyes dark colors look really pretty. green and hazel look good in pretty much anything. hope i helped.


OK my cousin is pretty much a slut. she's 11. she wheres really tight shirts that go up past her bellybutton along with a really short skirt. She wears VERY thick padded bras so she uses a C cup. When someone calls her a slut she giggles and says "nuh uh..!" And I'm gettin sick of it because my friends are like "how does it feel to have an 11 yr old have bigger boobs than you" and honestly i really dont care because im not fake but no one realizes that. and on top or it, she brags about gettin slapped in the ass by other guys and she shaves which i dont think she should be doing when she's 11 even though its not my choice. What can do to help her without gettin her upset?? (link)
my sister is sorta like that she walks around with really short shorts and skirts and she has to show off her belly all the time. she is only ten, and she takes my bras and stuffs them so it looks like they are bigger than they are. we cant find a way to stop her so the only way really is to let her discover that shes a slut for herself. hope i helped.


Ok latly my boyfriend has been coming over to the house im 13 and he is 14. But the point is... my brothers 8 and everytime where around him or he follows us and he sees us kiss he like starts to choke my boyfriend until he stops! its so annoying and when we try to get away from him he just follows us help!!!! (link)
try telling him that its ok if you kiss but its not ok for him to choke your boyfriend. tell him that thats very violent and not a good thing to do. hope i helped:)


At the end of the school year, my entire grade is going on a field trip to Islands of Adventure. We can hang out with whoever we want and sit with whomever we want on the buses. My problem is that I don't belong to a certain clique - I have a lot of friends from various groups and some of them don't know the others. I promised the group I see least that I would hang out with them, but now other groups have been asking me, and I can't exactly say, "No, I don't want to." If I had it my way, I would love for everyone to hang out, but I know some of them don't get along and I don't want anyone to feel left out. Also, the group I promised to hang out with is the group I would most like to be with on this trip, considering I don't see them as often and I sometimes get sort of sick of some of the people in my classes. Not to mention, it's hard for over 20 kids to hang out and go on the rides together. :( Any ideas? (link)
if you already told them that you would hang out with them then thats what you need to do. if you just tell the other people sorry but i already made other plans to hang out with these people but if you wanna hang out with us you're more than welcome to. hope i helped:)


what can i do to destroy someones life completely ?? i freakin hate this girl . she's turning everyone against me and calling me a bitch , a slut and a poser . she sucks up to everyone ! at first not many people liked her , but now she sucked up to everyone and told them that i hated them . so nobody talks to me except like 2 people . (link)
maybe you should talk to her instead of destroying her life completely. find out why she did it or try thinking of maybe something that you did to cause this. hope i helped.


ok with every guy ive dating they have been touchy and lovey and stuff but this one guy now is just so shy and wont open up how do i get him to and be touchy and huggy and affectionate? (link)
maybe you should try to make the first move. maybe he hasnt had that many girlfriends and hes somewhat new to everything. you should let him know that you dont care and he can be affectionate towards you.hope i helped.


ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time! and hes the sweetest guy ever and i love him to death but neways when we go out to places or we watch movies he makes fun of gay people! and it kinda pisses me off but i don't say anything i just laugh cuz i don't wanna lose him! but the reason why it makes me mad is cuz my step brother is gay! and i don't know how to tell him that he is and that it bothers me! HELP (link)
try bringing it up in a casual way. i know how you feel cause my horse trainer is gay but hes such a cool guys and it seriously ticks me off when people make fun of gay guys or else when really conceited guys are homophobic and think that the gay guy is hitting on them when really their not.talk to him and tell him that you love him and all but it sorta makes you mad when he talks about gay people like that or try having him talk to your stepbrother and see if it helps. hope i helped.


hey whenever i have love im penis getz larger wut do u think i should do about that? (link)
im not a guy so i dont know much about that but maybe you should try seeing a doctor and ask about it or talk to another guy in your family.hope i helped.


ok well im bulimic..im trying to deal with my problem but i haven't been doing it for that long but like everytime i stick my fingers down my throat it like feels like i scratch something in the same spot everytime and then it starts bleeding..is that the reason its bleeding?
xO thanks (link)
i really don't know why your throats bleeding but you should really talk to someone about your problem. your probably doing this because you think that you need to lose weight but that probably not true at all. try talking to your mom or a counseler and try a different way to lose weight try excercising and taking a daily jog everyday try eating healthier. and when your bulimic it completely destroys your teeth. because the acid in your stomach comes up and hits your teeth and eats your teeth away. hope i helped.


OK i got this realllly cute real Guchi purse for my birthday. Its really cute! and I just figured out that the most popular girl in school has the same purse! Im really mad cause i really want to use it but i can't because if she see's it shes gonna hate me! and well she kinda likes me right now and lets me hang out with her and shes really nice and stuff. BUt we cant have any of the same stuff as them. Even clothes. It really stinks cause i love all her clothes and i have the oppurtunitiys to but them! I really like there group! should i even hang out with them? (link)
if they wont like you just cause you have the same stuff as them then they are not worth it. be yourself and no one else should care. have your own style and if your purse is your style then dont worry about what other people think.there are plenty of other really cool people that would want to hang out with you. and who knows maybe wearing your purse and not caring what the really cool popular girl thinks will make you the really cool poular girl. hope i helped


im tryin 2 put on a few pounds. wat r sum ways to gain some healthy weight without having to eat an excessive amount of food. my goal is to get in 3200 cals a day(i no, thats a lot!) PLZ HELP me find some ways i can get these calories in! its hard to eat that much but i REALLY wanna be a few lbs heavier thanx!

IF YA WANT ILL RATE U A 5!! (link)
i really can't help that well in this department seeing as i can't gain weight at all no matter how hard i try. i understand what your going through. i just barely hit 85lbs. and im 14. maybe you should try eating a little bit more than you normally do. and try not to do as much excercising.hope i helped.


In my house, my siblings have about average grades. Since i was young i have done extremely well. Last year i got a 4.0 through the hole year. Now school is getting very difficult for me but somehow i manage to do okay. It is my freshmen year in high school and i got 4 a's and 2 b's and i wish i could do better. I have a hard time memorizing things so when tests come i bomb them. My family is not what you would call rich, but we arent poor either. my parents would have all 3 of us kids in college at the same time when im a freshmen in college. I want to get a schollarship somewhere but as my dad says, "A's will get you schollarships, b's wont." My question is what are some different ways that all of you memorize the hard facts, expecially in biology and history. (link)
history is a very easy subject to learn. you can think of ways to memorize things withh silly things like woodrow wilson was president in ww1. get it ww in ww1. i know that school can get really hard i had the same problem that you do and im just now starting to get a's again. im not the best at biology though so i can't help you much there. if you have any other questions feel free to ask. hope i helped.


okay my best guy friend and my best girl friend are going out...i really wish them luck..but i cant help but feel jealous...i keep telling myself that i dont like the guy.but every time i see him i melt..the girl invites me to the movies with them but i dont think i could take it..watching them hold hands..is there anything i can do about it..or should i just sit back and watch them go out to the movies and crap right in front of me...i promise ill rate high and i really need help...(13 female) (link)
The same thing has happened to me plenty of times and i always felt really bad about it. you have a few options to solve your problem.you can tell your friends how you feel about it but theres not much that they can do. you can deal with it and keep it to yourself.or you can try talking to someone else like a sibling or relative and see what they say. hope i helped.




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