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ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time! and hes the sweetest guy ever and i love him to death but neways when we go out to places or we watch movies he makes fun of gay people! and it kinda pisses me off but i don't say anything i just laugh cuz i don't wanna lose him! but the reason why it makes me mad is cuz my step brother is gay! and i don't know how to tell him that he is and that it bothers me! HELP
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just let him know how you feel about that subject, and ask him to stop making rude comments about it. or at least have him stop saying that in front of you. if he knew how you felt, he probably wouldn't say it.
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ask him to stop and explain why it bugs you.if he really loves you,then he will stop.
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try bringing it up in a casual way. i know how you feel cause my horse trainer is gay but hes such a cool guys and it seriously ticks me off when people make fun of gay guys or else when really conceited guys are homophobic and think that the gay guy is hitting on them when really their not.talk to him and tell him that you love him and all but it sorta makes you mad when he talks about gay people like that or try having him talk to your stepbrother and see if it helps. hope i helped.
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well, i think you should tell your b/f that maybe all gay people are so weird. and try telling him that your step brother is gay, if he can't except that, then he is immature. so just try to talk to him about it, i'm sure it'll work out.
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You should just sit him down and tell him how you feel about it, say "I dont like it when you... and it really offends me." If he loves you as much as you love him, he would understand and appreciate your concerns.
Good Luck and Lots of love
College Girl NH
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If he really cares about you and really likes you, he's not going to break up with you because you tell him how you feel. Just maybe bring it up next time it happens. DON'T sound like your nagging him or trying to put him down. Calmly try to express to him that you don;t approve of that and it bothers you. Maybe ask him why he does it. Maybe he doesn't know it's hurting anyone. Let me kno how it goes.
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gay people ARE gross.
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Next time he makes fun of gay people, debate it. Ask him what's so wrong with them. If through out the conversation he brings up that it's wrong, ask him since when is another person's beliefs more important than someone elses. Just prove your point, you might change is perception a little bit. If that doesn't work, just say that you don't like it when he makes fun of gay people. Any good b/f will stop doing what makes his g/f uncomfortable.
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Tell ur bf how you feel about it, because thats the only way he will ever understand!!
-steph
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tell him! he'll def. understand. and if he keeps making fun of gay people, he's NOT a good b/f. *MuCh lOvE*nazY!
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He seems immature. There are always going to be people like that and thats how life is. Sadly. Full of immature people. I know its hard to see that cuz i have a friend thats gay and one that is bi (but they are older more of my moms frineds) but still. I would just tell him to be a lil more nice. And not to bring it up that they are gay. Just to cut down cuz you dont like critism-trix
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just sweetly tell that its not nice.... if he likes you ebough he will stop saying it... dont tell him about your stepbrother unless he doenst stop saying it
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The next time he says that be like shut up my brothers gay. And maybe he will stop. And if you lose him he isn't worth the time because if he can't respect your the brother he can't respect you.
<3 -Brit
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You should tell him that your step brother is gay and that it pisses you off (not necessarily in those words) when he makes fun of gay people. if he cares anything about your feelings then he will stop.
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If he doesnt no that your step brother is gay, tell him . tell him that you get pissed wen he dose that evan thought its funny. but say it the sweetest way you can. and if he really loves you, he should stop and not break up with you . Good Luck
Dannie
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He's your boyfriend. You can't build a relationship without the ability to talk to him, and you can't hide things from him in fear of losing him. I doubt that your boyfriend will think any less of you because your step brother is gay. A lot of people who are homophobic are just simply naive. If you explain to him how you feel, and how it bothers you when he says such things, I'd be willing to bet he'll lighten up.
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well just tell him that he is and if he cant respect that your step brother is gay then maybe you to should break up because you need someone that resects you and your family but tell him not to make fun of them when you guys are togther like hanging out wise
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