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I shave down there and when it starts growing back...and I try to shave it hurts sooo bad and bleeds. Does anyone know any tricks or anything that will work? I've tried nair and it dosn't work. Thanks soo much for your help!

wait till its longer and DONT put lotion on after cause the like stuff will cause it to irritate even more just wait till urhair is grown out then do it...

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how do you have sex with your parents being home. if there room was downstairs and yours was upstairs and you wanted your boo to stay the night. how do you do it without gettin caught!

just dont moan to loud...i dunno never tried it!?

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I just finished my period..like yesterday but now when I wipe it looks like there is poop on the toilet paper...AM I GOING TO DIEE...please helppp THANKSSSSSSS..I rate 5's

no its dried up blood ur fine ur not going to die.

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i live around chicago IL, and were having a drought, so its really hot around here. it gets really humid - and my hair is naturally wavy. if i scrunch it and wear it curly, it gets frizzy, and if i straighten it and wear it straight, it doesnt stay striaght, it puffs up etc. i have to go to summer school every day from 8-12, and i have very thick and quite long hair, what are some easy hair styles that i could do quick in the morning that doent look sloppy?

Ha i know how ya feel i was just in chicago like 3 days ago and yess the hell it is hott just wear it in a bun i did an i usually wear my hair down but defintly try wearin a cute bun or cute pony tail! hope i helped!

-stephie boo

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Hello. You know how you have those 3 pictures, the kickit and the other two, well i have those types of pictures. How do i get them on my column. Do i put the url's in my profile or what? If you dont know thats alright.... thanks.
~Brina~

yeah you do and where you see URL HERE thats where you put the url's of the pictures you got!

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ok i have like dark brown hair what if i wanted highlights like blonde streeks is there stuff i could do at home cause i dont have the money to go out n buy stuff right now. but is there anyway i could mix stuff together its like 10 somethin at night and i got some places to go its important so yeah i heard peroxide and lemon works what do u think ishould do? any help and please dont put like oh go to www.google.com go to this site just give me info on your own like personal results. ill rate 5's! byes!

I think lemon juice works and stuff im sure you dont wanna hear that but yeah it works. And I think if you mix peroxide with that it might iuno never tryed it? Hope I helped!

-StephAnie-

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ok this is the thing. i've read about the veet thing. if it doesnt work for anyone, well it might not work for me.

this is the real question.

if you shave your leg, does it get thicker?

i kno this sound so stupid cuz i wasn't allow to shave my dang legs. and just in case i have to do it behind my mom's back...

well i heard it does and gets thicker and stuff...

is it true?

and if you shave, how long does it last?

my friend says her legs only last for like 8 hours

Hey Sweetie,

Well from my friends Ive talked to they said they wouldnt reccomend "VEET" it doesnt work they just make it seem like it does specially the commercial I mean come on who believes that. But yeah your hair will somewhat grow faster but the thickness kinda depends for me it doesnt but like my cousin she has like thick hair that grows back So I dont know about all the stuff about it growing in thick but I do know for a fact that Veet does not work, So just stick to the razor and shaving cream thats best!

-StephAnie-

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Ok well im 16 and going to be a jounior in high school. I have a girlfriend... me and her have been really close friends since the end of 8th grade, and at times i liked her.. and she liked me. We never went out until like the 24th of may this year. We are still together. But now that we are together... i dont really like her like that. I mean shes still the same person she was before, i donno as friends we are good but as a couple we are just too different. So how do i get to be single again without loosing a good friend? I'll rate high im desprate.
-cRw-

Hey Sweetie,

Damn Dude that sucks, You need to talk to her tell her how you feel that you thought everything would work out and be strong like your friendship but when you two got together it wasnt the same. I had the same exact problem but technically me and my best friend didnt go out we just flirted and talked alot, You should talk to her because if you keep the relationship going while your havin doughts and she is perfectly fine it could hurt her in the long run. Just talk to her and if she is your best friend she will understand, Well at least for me my best friend listened and understood where I was coming from!! Hope I helped!

-x0x0x0-
STEPHANiE

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Does anyone know a good website to find cute cursors for my advice column? Thank you! I'll rate anyone well who knows one.

Ok im not at home right now, But I know an extremly cute site, I can just get online later tonight my aim screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO! And I got some urls that you can use to get a cursor!!

-Stephanie-

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Well my X gf and i are still good friends. But in the past 3 months i have been talking to her best friend online a little. Cool chick. Then i met her one day like 2 weeks ago, at night. Me and all my friends always sneak out so yeah thats about the only time i get to see her. So me and her started hangin out at night, alot. Sometimes just us. Im not tryin to push things, i've only made out with her. But shes such a awsome person i always have a blast when im with her. But recently i got cought for sneakin out and got my car taken away lol. I get it back june 21, and my parents go outa town for a week on june 21. So yeah house to myself.. But see the girl i like also got caught sneakin out so shes now grounded to. Except she doesnt have a car, and got her cell phone and computer taken away so i have no way of getting in touch with her. I dont want this period of us not being able to talk, affect the progress we've made. But yeah i know she likes me because she has a boyfriend, but shes in the same situation i am, cuz i have a girlfriend but i like thsi other girl alot better. So yeah she had the opportunity to sleep over at her boyfriends house with like all her best friends but she choose to sneak out with me. Ok well anyways myu question is, is there any way to keep the "silence" from keeping us to drift farther appart. And basically whats the final step in making her mine once we do hang out. Ill rate high for any reasonable advice, and basically for reading this whole thing.

Hey Sweetie,

Ok what you should do first of all if her parents know it was "You" that she snuck out with you should go to her house and apologize to her parents to be on the safe side, And it might help ya out in the long run. Then you should stop sneaking out and you need to exsplain to her to stop sneaking out to because if you do something bad could happen if pat curfew or something. Best bet is when she gets off of bein grounded ask to hang out with her during the day so she wont have to worry about sneakin out at night! Hope I helped somewhat!

-Stephanie

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i just wanted to know who sang that song because i liked the lyric but its not important but thx for paying attention to my dumb question =)

Lol the person that sings it is called "RISE AGAINST" and its called "SING LIFE AWAY"..

-stephAnie-

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hi i was reading your advice to this person about asking about what this song meant

"WE LiVE 0N FR0NT P0RCHES AND SWiNG LiFE AWAY"

~iT KiNDA MEANS HE iS TALKiN AB0UT H0W LiKE HE WANTS T0 JUST LiKE S0METiMES BE WiTH Y0U AND JUST SiT D0WN AND SWiNG WiTH Y0U AND C0MPARE EVERYTHiNG YALL HAVE BEEN THR0UGH AND iF Y0UR STiLL THERE F0R HiM...iTS A PRETTY C00L S0NG i LiKED iT!!!~



Am I loud and clear, or am I breaking up?
Am I still your charm, or am I just bad luck?
Are we getting closer, or are we just getting more lost?

I'll show you mine if you show me yours first
Let's compare scars, I'll tell you whose is worse
Let's unwrite these pages and replace them with our own words

We live on front porches and swing life away,
We get by just fine here on minimum wage
If love is a labor I'll slave till the end,
I won't cross these streets until you hold my hand

I've been here so long, I think that it's time to move
The winter's so cold, summer's over too soon
Let's pack our bags and settle down where palm trees grow

I've got some friends, some that I hardly know
But we've had some times, I wouldn't trade for the world
We chase these days down with talks of the places that we will go

We live on front porches and swing life away,
We get by just fine here on minimum wage
If love is a labor I'll slave till the end,
I won't cross these streets until you hold my hand....until you hold my hand

I'll show you mine if you show me yours first
Let's compare scars, I'll tell you whose is worse
Let's unwrite these pages and replace them with our own words

We live on front porches and swing life away,
We get by just fine here on minimum wage
If love is a labor I'll slave till the end,
I won't cross these streets until you hold my hand

Swing life away [x4]

who sings the song?

hi i was reading your advice to this person about asking about what this song meant


?? LOL IM SORTA LOST WHAT DID WAS YOUR QUETION ??

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I have really curly hair. I want to be a straightening iron around $100 since the last straightening iron I got (wet2set $30) leaves my hair looking really dried out & fried. Does anyone know of a flat iron around my price range that we'll leave my hair looking healthier than the cheap one? Thanks!

Hey Sweetie,

Hey I have naturally curly hair and I love str8nin it now what I do is I have a str8ner it works really really good, Thing is you cant find a str8ner that is gonna make your hair look healthy what you gotta do is just kinda find a condtioning stuff that you can put in your hair. Like my friend l0l she is right here she said use like Petroleum Jelly not alot but lil tiny bit and it makes ur hair not frizzy but I reccomend going to a salon and askin them for the best like shampoo and stuff to use after you str8n your hair cause its not ur str8ner its just your hair products!! Hope I helped!!

-StephAnie-

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when you go to get a physical.. sumtimes yoou have to pee in a cup right? well can they tell by ur urin if you have smoked weed.. cuz i thought that when you go they get a urin sample to see if you have done drugs?? or maybe im thinking of sumthing else.?? PLEASE I RATE HIGH

if you are not dumb about this i will rate you a 5..

Hey Sweetie,


Yessums you can get checked for smoking weed. Its scary I got drunk like once ever in my life and some dude gave me weed I was sooo scared like literally like they told me if you smoke it constantly it takes a month to get out of your system but you should try eating stuff with Vinegar in it because that helps like get it out of your system faster so like eat pickles and stuff like that. But yeah they can check now if you did it once like me then it will be out of your system in 2days!! Hope I helped!

-StephAnie

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I have liked this guy since I was in third grade, (I'm in tenth now) and he told all of my friends that he liked me too. But when my friends told him that he should ask me out, (with out me knowing so i was like incredibly embarresd) he said he wasnt alowwed to date yet. But just last Sunday when i was sitting in his car and we were listening to music (Hollaback Girl) he said it was his girlfriends favorite song! I just brushed it off at first and pretended that i didnt notice, but it really hurt! I dont know how to act around him anymore, cause he still acts like he likes me....Someone help me please!

Hey Sweetie,


My Mom used to Hate when older boys would talk to me and then like in 9th grade I got my first bf he was a sweetheart but he was 17 and believe me its a shock! But his mom prolly im guessin he is a Mommys Boy and so that prolly means that she needs more time tryin to figure out how to let go. But that shows he is very respectful and doesnt lie to his mom you shouldnt have anything to be mad about or anything its perfectly fine. Just find ways to make him want you more and even try goin to his house and meeting his Mom or something! It will work moms are better talking to then the fathers lol!! And thats from expierene!!

-StephAnie-

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I have a friend you always says she's really depressed. At first i really was worried and i belived her to the fullest, but now its like she does it only for attention!! I hate it! She wont even eat anymore! I try to get her too but she refuses to! I dont know how to act around her anymore, cause she always takes everything the wrong way, Please please please help!! I'll rate high i promise!! I just dont know what to do!

Hey Sweetie,

Ok your friend is going through Depression, I need more help on this like question!! So if you have aol my screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO!! I can help ya cause I suffered the same thing from one of my friends and I know how it feels to be in your shoes not only Ive been through it to and I can help ya out!!

-StephAnie-

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Im going to the beach this month, and I have no confidence when it comes to wearing a bikini. I'm pretty skinny everywhere else except my waistline. (I have really huge love handles that are unproportional to the rest of me.) I've been trying to lose it before this summer, but not seen any progress. Im also uncomfortable wearing bikini bottoms for some reason, I know im weird. So i bought some girl swim shorts that go to my knees (like surf shorts.) Do you think that would look stupid for me to wear those and a small tee or tank top when im swimming?

Hey Hun,


NOOOOO LOL we are so alike I except I have huge thighs and I hate showing them off, So I wear Boardshorts or like you say "Surf Shorts" They are the cutest thing ever!! I reccomend them to you they will look 100% better if you dont feel comfortable wearing a bikinni ive been wearing Boardshorts cause not only do I surf just I never felt comfortable showin my stuff like that! SOOOO CUTE!! Lol alrighy then be ready to have them guys lookin at ya at the beach cause if you wear board shorts they are defintly hott!!

-StephAnie-

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are they real.... ??
Posted Wednesday June 08 2005, 10:40 am
2 of my >usually< best friends have started to talk about me behind my baq and sayin that i did somethinbut i didnt it was one of my other friends that doesnt like christin...i cant help it that she doesnt like her but still she shouldnt be blamin it on me that i did it should she? She plays the message to everybody on her fone.Christin does get on my nerves alot but still i wouldnt hate her enough to beat her up...it just shows that she is fake and doesnt want to be a friend..Morgan..is just i dont kno the word to describe her but when i was on the fone the other night with my friend breanna her friend that likes her yelled SLUT....she wont even tell her mom and dad that guys touch her butt atschool and at a party she had to kiss this guy ..and she didnt say that she didnt like it..i dont kno if i'm over reacting or i just need some1 to talk to coz two of myother best friends feal the same way bout both of them and they dont like CHRISTIN at all coz when shes gonna do sumthin with her friends she acts like she owns them....i just cant stand her!!!!help me please thanxS

P.S..
i still want them to be friends but they wont talk to me long enough to talk this out and wont believe soo so are they real friends if they dont...?

Hey Sweetie,


Well you kinda answered your own question "she is fake and doesnt want to be a friend", It pretty much exsplains it she is just nothin but fake and doesnt know how to be a friend at all!! I think you should just get them to work things out if not you cant make them be friends they are just gonna have to learn how to grow up and not hold grudges!!

-StepHAnie-

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ok so i was talkin to my ex n he told me to listen to a song n thats what he wants in life....the song is swing life away by rise against.....the he IMed me n said "we live on front porches and swing life away"...anybody know what the song means or what that verse above means?
thanks


"WE LiVE 0N FR0NT P0RCHES AND SWiNG LiFE AWAY"

~iT KiNDA MEANS HE iS TALKiN AB0UT H0W LiKE HE WANTS T0 JUST LiKE S0METiMES BE WiTH Y0U AND JUST SiT D0WN AND SWiNG WiTH Y0U AND C0MPARE EVERYTHiNG YALL HAVE BEEN THR0UGH AND iF Y0UR STiLL THERE F0R HiM...iTS A PRETTY C00L S0NG i LiKED iT!!!~



Am I loud and clear, or am I breaking up?
Am I still your charm, or am I just bad luck?
Are we getting closer, or are we just getting more lost?

I'll show you mine if you show me yours first
Let's compare scars, I'll tell you whose is worse
Let's unwrite these pages and replace them with our own words

We live on front porches and swing life away,
We get by just fine here on minimum wage
If love is a labor I'll slave till the end,
I won't cross these streets until you hold my hand

I've been here so long, I think that it's time to move
The winter's so cold, summer's over too soon
Let's pack our bags and settle down where palm trees grow

I've got some friends, some that I hardly know
But we've had some times, I wouldn't trade for the world
We chase these days down with talks of the places that we will go

We live on front porches and swing life away,
We get by just fine here on minimum wage
If love is a labor I'll slave till the end,
I won't cross these streets until you hold my hand....until you hold my hand

I'll show you mine if you show me yours first
Let's compare scars, I'll tell you whose is worse
Let's unwrite these pages and replace them with our own words

We live on front porches and swing life away,
We get by just fine here on minimum wage
If love is a labor I'll slave till the end,
I won't cross these streets until you hold my hand

Swing life away [x4]




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i'm usually teased and pushed around at school, and i'm a bit of a push over. its weird tohugh.... the people who are mean to me, are also the people who only get good things coming to them, and they expect me to be nice to them!
i end up being nice though, because i know what its like to be treated nastily

Hey there, I used to have the same exact problem when people pushed me around in 6th grade cause they thought they were cool cause they were older and stuff. I would normally just tell em what I thought about them and like just push em back and tell em off but I learned to not worry about it push em back but be slick about it. And yes you are right "What goes around...Stops there, And DEFINETLY does come back around"!!! Hope I helped!! Hang in there!!

-StephAnie

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