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Night games.
Well my X gf and i are still good friends. But in the past 3 months i have been talking to her best friend online a little. Cool chick. Then i met her one day like 2 weeks ago, at night. Me and all my friends always sneak out so yeah thats about the only time i get to see her. So me and her started hangin out at night, alot. Sometimes just us. Im not tryin to push things, i've only made out with her. But shes such a awsome person i always have a blast when im with her. But recently i got cought for sneakin out and got my car taken away lol. I get it back june 21, and my parents go outa town for a week on june 21. So yeah house to myself.. But see the girl i like also got caught sneakin out so shes now grounded to. Except she doesnt have a car, and got her cell phone and computer taken away so i have no way of getting in touch with her. I dont want this period of us not being able to talk, affect the progress we've made. But yeah i know she likes me because she has a boyfriend, but shes in the same situation i am, cuz i have a girlfriend but i like thsi other girl alot better. So yeah she had the opportunity to sleep over at her boyfriends house with like all her best friends but she choose to sneak out with me. Ok well anyways myu question is, is there any way to keep the "silence" from keeping us to drift farther appart. And basically whats the final step in making her mine once we do hang out. Ill rate high for any reasonable advice, and basically for reading this whole thing.
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I’m afraid there is no real way how your love for each other with out it backfiring, trust me. I know how it feels like to be betrayed. And that’s what you will happen if you keep this up. Your friend will feel deceive (because they have been). By hiding this from them it will only drive ill fillings toward you and them. And there is no reason for it. Just tell them that this why you feel this way (though you might want to start it off gently). Be honest with yourself. Is there anything wrong with feeling the way you do? Of course not! I hope this helped. Let me know if this helped.
~Teen Guru~
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i was in the same situation not to long ago. the "silence" should not affect you all. it may seem a little akward talking to her once you all do get to talk a little bit. but if you like her as much as you say you do, and she likes you as much as she says she does, it won't affect you.
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you are sneaking out with your ex's best friend................i hope the ex is over you. you are cheating on your girlfriend so if i were you either dump one or dump them both because if your current girlfriend is lyke in love with you she might try to hurt the girl you are sneaking out with. you should really dump one or both cause cheating on someone is retarded.
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Oy. I really dont know how you could stay in touch...any way of sending her a note just saying hello? When you do hang out, just ask her out. I'm against the term "making her mine" because she will be your girlfriend, not your property, but I think that's a matter of phrasing. Just tell her you like her and see how she responds...then act.
Also, I don't condone sneaking out, but you didn't ask of that, so I won't mention anymore. :P
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if you know where she lives during the day or just after dark you should go to her house and throw rocks at her window. she will be able to talk to you perhaps and she will think about how sweet that is. girls love it when you throw rocks at there window
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ok first ignore what stephanie said. she's no fun lol
second, it's fine if you don't talk to her. it's called "giving her the gift of missing you." you'll finally get in touch with her again and she'll be into you more.
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Hey Sweetie,
Ok what you should do first of all if her parents know it was "You" that she snuck out with you should go to her house and apologize to her parents to be on the safe side, And it might help ya out in the long run. Then you should stop sneaking out and you need to exsplain to her to stop sneaking out to because if you do something bad could happen if pat curfew or something. Best bet is when she gets off of bein grounded ask to hang out with her during the day so she wont have to worry about sneakin out at night! Hope I helped somewhat!
-Stephanie
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