i have been an advise columnist for a year now and i have been told i was pretty good but everyone who said that knew me so i'm trying my luck with people i dont know. tell me what you think and i hope i can help with your problems
Website: Tears of sadness
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: student
Age: 14
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Yahoo: samir25@sbcglobal.net
Member Since: May 22, 2005
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Well my X gf and i are still good friends. But in the past 3 months i have been talking to her best friend online a little. Cool chick. Then i met her one day like 2 weeks ago, at night. Me and all my friends always sneak out so yeah thats about the only time i get to see her. So me and her started hangin out at night, alot. Sometimes just us. Im not tryin to push things, i've only made out with her. But shes such a awsome person i always have a blast when im with her. But recently i got cought for sneakin out and got my car taken away lol. I get it back june 21, and my parents go outa town for a week on june 21. So yeah house to myself.. But see the girl i like also got caught sneakin out so shes now grounded to. Except she doesnt have a car, and got her cell phone and computer taken away so i have no way of getting in touch with her. I dont want this period of us not being able to talk, affect the progress we've made. But yeah i know she likes me because she has a boyfriend, but shes in the same situation i am, cuz i have a girlfriend but i like thsi other girl alot better. So yeah she had the opportunity to sleep over at her boyfriends house with like all her best friends but she choose to sneak out with me. Ok well anyways myu question is, is there any way to keep the "silence" from keeping us to drift farther appart. And basically whats the final step in making her mine once we do hang out. Ill rate high for any reasonable advice, and basically for reading this whole thing. (link)
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if you know where she lives during the day or just after dark you should go to her house and throw rocks at her window. she will be able to talk to you perhaps and she will think about how sweet that is. girls love it when you throw rocks at there window
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my parents divorsed when i was 3, my dad got remaried about 2 years ago with out asking me or even telling me about it, or her. i hate her and my dad knows but doesnt care how do i get rid of her!?! (link)
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i hate to say it but you cant get rid of her, if your dad loves her he will stay with her, what you can do though is try to talk to your dad and tell him how you feel about her and explain that you dont want to be around that woman
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I'm doing a DIY denim mini from a pair of jeans that i detest, but I cut it a little too short. Is there a decoration or something that I can add to the bottom that will make it longer, but won't take away from the "denim mini" idea? (link)
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your could add black lace to the bottom or some other color or you could make short little strands of beads and hang them from the bottom
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Does anyone know the song that goes "this is the story of a girl who cried a river and drowned the whole world. She's looks so sad in photographs but i absolutely love her when she smiles"? what song is it and who sings it? (link)
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story of a girl by nine days, i love that song
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I just got my school year book and I want a certain guy to sign it only I'm too shy to ask. If someone told me if I should or should not and give me confidence then I would ask him directly. So, should I or should I not ask him to sign my year book directly and why? Also, if you said no is there any other way I can get him to sign my year book? (link)
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i think you should take your year book to a class that he is in and ask everyone to sign it inclueding him so it wont be as weird
hope this helped
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I dont know if i should ask this guy out that goes to my school he doesnt think tat i like him and we dont talk a lot but i like this guy a lot and i want to ask him out so bad but i dont know how......plz help me....i rate high....
love,
dont know what to do (link)
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i think that you should write him a note or e-mail and tell him that you dont think its fair that you like him and he doesnt know. ask him not to treat you any differently but you just want to know what he thinks
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When I was 9 my mom threw me and brother out on the streets. He was 16 at the time and he took care of me. I'm 15 now and he's 23. Well I usually don't tlak about my past because I really don't think that it's that bad. At least I had my brother and that's more than some people have. Well the school found out about what was going on so I had to go to the school counsellor and talk to him and he told me that it would be a good idea to find someone that I can really trust at school to talk to if I have a problem. I really don't have a best friend I have friends but I never really got close enough to anyone where I was comfortable talking to them about important stuff. Well anyway I finally got up the courage to talk a girl that I've been friends with for a long time. At first she was really nice about it she said she would be there for me and that she understood and that it's ok to talk about things. Then I heard her say that I'm a lier and that I make things up for attention. I finally talked to someone and they did this to me. She told everyone that I pretend to do drugs and that I act all tough but I really don't. I've never said that I've done drugs or even tried them. I don't believe that they are the answer to anything.
My question is what can I do about this? Should I say something to her or pretend like nothing happened? And should I trust someone else or should I just keep things to myself like I did before? Thank you in advance and I will rate high. (link)
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i know exactly how you feel my mom walked out on me when i was two and my grandmother took me in. i couldnt talk to her about because she was stubborn. what you should do is approach this girl with it and tell her to stop doing this. if she doesnt simply tell the counsler and you shouldnt keep all your emotions, your anger, your sadness, your lonliness, and stuff like that all bottled up. try to find a psychiatrist or another friend(it might be hard to trust many people now) to talk to this about or you could talk to one of us here at advicenators. of course if none of this works for you, you could talk to your school counsler and tell him that there is no one else you can talk to and thats why your asking to talk to him. i hope i have helped
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Theres this kid who i am friends with and well hes really ugly (not trying to sound mean) and no one would ever like him like that. Well and hes kind of a loser and this girl he likes is kind of snobby and popular.. And her friend is setting him up so he looks like a fool. Her friend is telling him that she likes him and that she wood say yes if he asked her out. What should i do so he doesnt get crushed? (link)
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either way he will get crushed but tell him what they have planned and that if shes that mean shes not worth it. if he thinks its weird or doesnt believe you or something just tell him its because your his friend
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Hey guyz! I REALLY NEED HELP BAD
i really NEED to shave my legs but i dont know how to ask my mom! I really NEED HELP
plz help me
-Needin Help B A D (link)
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tell your mom that you think you are ready to shave and that you feel embarrased around other girls that do shave. if she says no then you can do what i did,steal her razor when shes not home shave put it back, make sure she notices they are shaved and when she asks about it say you needed to shave so bad that you used tape as wax. she will realize that if you needed to shave that bad its time she bought you a razor
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Ok heres the deal..im 14 and in the 9 grade and i feel like i have no friends..i mean yea i talk to people at school but idk like at lunch i sit with these ppl that my "friend" sits w. and i dont even sit by her i sit at the end of the table w. these boys and i dont even tlk to them i just sit there and eat my lunch. Then there comes the weekends and i have nothing to do and i usually stay home w. my mom and dad and i come home every day after school its really is pathetic..any idea to help me? (link)
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my advice is to go sign up for gymnastics or dance or some activity that interests you. when you get there, try to be outgoing and try to meet people who like the things you do. you can start conversation by bringing up music or new movies. hope i helped
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I really want to get my fake nails taken off. Does anyone know how you can remove them other than chipping them off and going to the nail place (not an option as of this moment)? (link)
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from what i hear you can soak your hands in warm water and try to get your nail under the end and rip slowly
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ok im 13 and im sort of dating this 16 year old for a while we have been close and like his friend is going out with my frie so we go places with each other. well i get out of school on the 24 and we were all going to walk to there house and hang out there but ive never been to his house b for do you think i should go remember he's 16 and im 13.? (link)
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in my opinion age doesnt matter. it seems that you are at least smart enought to ask about it. what i think is that if you have known him for a long time and you really think you can trust him then yeah go to his house. but if he is violent and mean or you just met him then wait.
i hope this helps
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My husband and I were born, raised and married in Italy. We moved to Houston, TX together in 1994 and had our daughter in 1996. She currently goes to a multi-cultural school where she has befriended many Bosnian girls. I never gave a second thought to the fact that the majority of her friends are Bosnian. Well, not until this morning. She came up to me and told me that she loves Bosnia and wishes she was Bosnian.
Now, don't get me wrong, I have nothing against the people, country, or culture. I adore being around her friends and their parents. I just fear that my child is losing her Italian background. How can I get her excited about the Italian culture again?
She is currently 9-years-old.
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i am 14 and 75% italian. i went through this when i was 8. i wished i was french. but what i think you should do is show her pictures you have of italy and cook the delicious italian food for her and remind her that she can be friends with anyone she want but she cant change who she is know matter what. for me it was just a faze, i was out of it by the time i was 11. i dont know about your daughter but i bet that one day she will be grateful of her italian heritage
hope i helped
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What do you say to someone you see everyday, have never talked to, you have know what he likes, who is having problems fitting in and whose friends despise you and would not only make fun of you but him too for talking to him? Oh, and did I mention I am madly in love with him? (link)
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i've been through this. decide that you dont care if his friends make fun of you. then find his number and have a friend try to convince u to call him. if you do tell him you want to get to know him but find out if he would care that his friends make fun of him- if he doesnt, then go for it, but if he does care then hes not worth it
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