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Turned her back
When I was 9 my mom threw me and brother out on the streets. He was 16 at the time and he took care of me. I'm 15 now and he's 23. Well I usually don't tlak about my past because I really don't think that it's that bad. At least I had my brother and that's more than some people have. Well the school found out about what was going on so I had to go to the school counsellor and talk to him and he told me that it would be a good idea to find someone that I can really trust at school to talk to if I have a problem. I really don't have a best friend I have friends but I never really got close enough to anyone where I was comfortable talking to them about important stuff. Well anyway I finally got up the courage to talk a girl that I've been friends with for a long time. At first she was really nice about it she said she would be there for me and that she understood and that it's ok to talk about things. Then I heard her say that I'm a lier and that I make things up for attention. I finally talked to someone and they did this to me. She told everyone that I pretend to do drugs and that I act all tough but I really don't. I've never said that I've done drugs or even tried them. I don't believe that they are the answer to anything.
My question is what can I do about this? Should I say something to her or pretend like nothing happened? And should I trust someone else or should I just keep things to myself like I did before? Thank you in advance and I will rate high.
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Well for the most part I would say ...ignore it. I mean theres only 2 people who really need to now the truth and thats You and the Good Lord. You beleive your self and he does too. But if some one says this stff to your face dont be afraid to stand up for your self. Tell them "hey i dont know where u herd that but its not true!" i dont know what else to say so i hope ive helped in any way possible
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thats sad but if your fine thats good you can talk to me anytime if you need to and your mother was wrong and your brother was an absolute angel to help you. you will get through this time at school to be perfectley capable of living a good life with your brother/? good luck write back
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i know exactly how you feel my mom walked out on me when i was two and my grandmother took me in. i couldnt talk to her about because she was stubborn. what you should do is approach this girl with it and tell her to stop doing this. if she doesnt simply tell the counsler and you shouldnt keep all your emotions, your anger, your sadness, your lonliness, and stuff like that all bottled up. try to find a psychiatrist or another friend(it might be hard to trust many people now) to talk to this about or you could talk to one of us here at advicenators. of course if none of this works for you, you could talk to your school counsler and tell him that there is no one else you can talk to and thats why your asking to talk to him. i hope i have helped
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If you were to deny any of this, it would seem to others as if you are trying to protect yourself because you really do those things. Although that is not the case, teenagers love drama and gossip, and will just make shit up. The best thing you can do is ignore it. If someone brings it up, laugh about it. It's really hard to make things up about someone who doesn't give a damn. They're doing it to get a rise out of you; if they can't, they'll stop.
It will die over very quickly. My advice to you, is to find someone else. Preferably someone who is not a bitch.
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