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ok im 13 and im sort of dating this 16 year old for a while we have been close and like his friend is going out with my frie so we go places with each other. well i get out of school on the 24 and we were all going to walk to there house and hang out there but ive never been to his house b for do you think i should go remember he's 16 and im 13.?
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well u should go to his house and if you feel kinda wird leave he'll probley understand and if he trys to do any thing you dont want him to do just leave and never go back
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well if your scared he might try to like rape you or something you have to consider that is a really big age gap first and then well how good do you know this guy how long have you gone out with him do you know if he has ever done anything with other girls this shouldnt be that hard to answer you probably dont want to go or bring like someone you can trust with you primarily a big guy or maybe a can of mase just anything to help
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omg people who say stuff about age... it doesznt matter AT ALL!! unless hes over 18 and ur under 18... omg when i started dating my bf he was 16 and i was 13 but im 14 now and hes 16 babeSz it doesnt matter at all.. age aint nothing but a number!
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in my opinion age doesnt matter. it seems that you are at least smart enought to ask about it. what i think is that if you have known him for a long time and you really think you can trust him then yeah go to his house. but if he is violent and mean or you just met him then wait.
i hope this helps
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Age is just a number
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honestly, you don't sound like you're comfortable with going. you're asking complete strangers for advice on the situation, and reminding us of the age difference...sounds to me like something in you is telling you its a bad idea. from knowing nothing more about either of you than your ages, and nothing at all about your personalities, or your past relationships, and other determining factors, it is very difficult to guess whether or not you're about to put yourself in a dangerous situation or not. Just because he is 3 years older than you doesn't necessarily mean he's not going to respect you and force you into doing things you don't want to be doing. there are most definitely a good number of trustworthy 16 year olds in the world...but at the same time, there are plenty of guys eager to take advantage of girls who they believe are vulnerable. you need to ask yourself if this is a good idea, and what your parents opinions are (or what their opinions would be, if you're sneaking behind their backs...which should be a red flag in itself) and make this judgement based on your relationship with these guys, and how well you can take care of yourself if things do go wrong. hope i helped <3
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If theres a parent there do it..if not i wouldnt im 13 too i wouldnt go to his house and no parent was going to be there anything could happen if u were there w/ him w/ no adult
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I don't think you should go IF THERE IS NOT AN ADULT CLOSE TO YOU IN THE SAME HOUSE!!! You are onlt thirteen. I mean, he might not mean it like that. He might just want to watch a movie or talk but make sure there is an adult. Have you ever learned about sex in school and how it will change your life dramatically if you are too young to do it? Even if yoiu use a condom, nothing is 100% sure of not getting you pregnant. The condom could tear or something. Just... be careful. If he moves too fast, tell him to listen to you. After telling him three time to listen, if he doesn't stop and ask you "What's the matter?" or something, you need to fight him off before he tries to do something. Chances are he's a nice guy and doesn't want you like THAT but you have to know what COULD POSSIBLY HAPPEN IF YOU DON'T BE CAREFUL TO WHAT YOU ARE DOING. If he is touching you, and you think it feels... kinda good, still, you need to get him away and tell him you're not ready for that yet. If he's a good boyfriend, he'll listen to you and respect your feelings. Best of luck, sweetie. Remember, just be careful, O.K?
~~~Kayla~~~
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if an adult will be present, shouldn't be a problem. That would ease your mind as well.
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