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stept monster
my parents divorsed when i was 3, my dad got remaried about 2 years ago with out asking me or even telling me about it, or her. i hate her and my dad knows but doesnt care how do i get rid of her!?!
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There's no way to get rid of her... I hate my moms boyfriend and I've told her- but she doesn't care.
All I can tell you is... Be the person you wanted your parents to be.
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My dad got married too without telling me...he didnt even tell his own mum. so you arent alone. but he must be in love with her to want to marry her, theres nothing you can do to split them up so just try to avoid her if you can without avoiding your dad too. you might not like her very much but you'll just have to try and accept that they are together.
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Sorry to say but theres nothing you can do. Your dad loves her and you want him to be happy right? Stay out of it. She doesnt have to be in your life only your dad does so dont push him away. ♥
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Hey you may not liek her but dont you want your dad to be happy! try and talk to her and get along with her.
Love Kim
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SOME Psychologists and Family Therapists say that parents should not remarry until their children are grown, and this is why. You feel left out and it is bad enough that your family is not intact, now you have to deal with an "intruder". At the very least, someone who is competing for your fathers attention. But fact is there is not much you can do. If she is a witch, and not nice to you or him. The best thing you can do is stay out of the way, and give her enough rope to hang herself. If she is not good, he will figure it out and dump her soon enough. But if you keep pointing out her faults, that means he is ALSO at fault for choosing her, and he won't want to be wrong, so he will keep her longer than normal so as to make things work. It is easier for him to figure things out on his own, without input from others. And like one other person advised. YOU MUST BE CIVIL. You cannot be the trouble maker, because you will just bring trouble onto yourself. Be patient. Some day you will be an adult and on your own. Your relationship with your dad with be different then.
I hope this helps.
Michele
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I've had a few step mothers myself. I do understand you not liking her, I also know you need to at least try if you care about your father. You don't have to be best friends just be civil. Your dad doesn't have to ask permission to get remarried. Neither does your mom. Adults usually do whats best for them. Its to bad parents have to get divorced but they do. It is just easier than working out their problems I guess. You really do have to try to get along with her. It will make your dad happy and he isn't going to get rid of her. Your not liking her and being mean to her will only make him more protective of her anyway. I'm afraid your stuck with her.
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i hate to say it but you cant get rid of her, if your dad loves her he will stay with her, what you can do though is try to talk to your dad and tell him how you feel about her and explain that you dont want to be around that woman
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