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Ok heres the deal..im 14 and in the 9 grade and i feel like i have no friends..i mean yea i talk to people at school but idk like at lunch i sit with these ppl that my "friend" sits w. and i dont even sit by her i sit at the end of the table w. these boys and i dont even tlk to them i just sit there and eat my lunch. Then there comes the weekends and i have nothing to do and i usually stay home w. my mom and dad and i come home every day after school its really is pathetic..any idea to help me?
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I would suggest talking. If you dont talk, NO ONE will talk to you. Its a simple rule.
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Well- i had to come brand new in 9th grade to a new school...and so i made friends by just being nice to everyone and not acting like i had a barrier around myself.
It's only your first year of high school..next year try to get into some clubs so you'll make friends who have the same interests as you.
You're not completely pathetic..there is definitely still hope!! just be yourself and hopefully your friends will like you for yourself and nothing else
good luck-
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Be more talkative, let yourself be talked to. In class, don't hesitate to lean over and talk to the guy next to you, anything to bring up small talk. At lunch, tell a joke, pretend to flirt with someone you're totally not interested in. Have fun and people will want to have fun with you, be loud, laugh a lot. Trust me, the more fun it looks like you're having, the happier you are, the more attention you'll get. Hope I helped. -Angel
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try and be more social if you are with other people then they will probably with you so make an effort to join is there stories or convos with your own wacky stories or things youve done and when your at home on the weekends try and go somewhere with people in your classes dont be the odd ball be the "in there like swimwear" good luck with that please right back with your explanation
MmSBaBe167
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my advice is to go sign up for gymnastics or dance or some activity that interests you. when you get there, try to be outgoing and try to meet people who like the things you do. you can start conversation by bringing up music or new movies. hope i helped
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Alright doll here's my suggestion. PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE! Start talking to these boys you sit by, join in on the conversation. Truly show your personality. Just because you don't usually talk to them doesn't mean you can't.Open up and show them who you are. No one can deny the confidence of a person who is willing to talk to people they don't know. Confidence reflects personality. Trust me, show them yours and you'll have friends in no time!
Lauren
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Well,
it seems to me like you need to get close to someone. Talk to one person a lot. Someone who's nice to you, who respects you, and who doesn't mind telling you his/her secrets. Then, get his/her phone number. Call them up on the phone on the weekends and invite them to a movie or to come over and hang out. Trust m,e, you have friends. EVERYONE has friends no matter what. I have been through my teen years but still... I know what it's like to be teen. O.K? You know that we all luv ya here at ADVICENATORs.COM. O.K? Luv ya, girl
~~~Kayla~~~
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You need to join the conversation! Don't just sit there and not be noticed. When you know something is funny about what they are talking about say something. Or if you need to sit by your friend. Don't get pushed to the end of the table. Oh and about weekends ask some of your friends if they want to go to Six Flags or just go to your house and chill. Hope I helped you!
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okay i had another friend that had this same problem. see i have a lot of guy friends that i sit with at lunch and all you gotta do is be super fun! they love it, and about the whole "dont think you have any friends thing.." just forget about what they think about you. maybe you'll get to sit next to them. seriously fun is the key to friendly success
LiiLo
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well yea sorry but it dosent sound liek you have alot a friends what you should do is hang out with people that liek do things like you i mean idk what are you preppy gothic punk i dont know but if no ones like you then you should maybe try to get involed in so groups or soething you would meet alot of new friends there maybe idk i tried my best to answer the quest hope i helped
Sarah
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Talk to those people that you sit with! Be more outgoing. Theres nothing you can loose by doing that. Talk to people in your classes and just get to know them better. They will forsure like you. Just be nice and friendly! ♥
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Don't be so shy. If they're your friends then they will want to spend time with you. Ask them what their plans are for the weekend and if they say nothing then be like oh me either you want to hang out or something? You need to ask people to hang out with you if you want it to happen don't wait for them. I doubt that your friends don't wnat to be around you if they didn't then they would avoid you and wouldn't want you around them. Once you ask and you start to hang out with them they will start to ask to hang out with you and before you know it you'll be doing something everyday of the week.
Good luck and I hope I helped
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If she makes you sit at the end of the table with a bunch of boys and doesnt evan offer you a seat by her .... then thats toatlly not a honest friend! **(( people like to say true but w/e ))**If u want more friends then get more involved with more school and all that stuff....And if your still at the end with boys then hunny tell her that you want to sit by her and not by a bunch of boys! Luv ya
Jess oXoX
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Hey!
Hun, all you gotta do it put yourself out there. You say you don't talk to the people you sit with, well talk to them!! Get to know them then they will ask you to go to the mall with them ECT.!!
Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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