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i really like this girl and she just got out of a tough relationship. she needs space..and i'm willing to give her that. what should i do, though? i really like her. she sort of led me on and stuff, then regretted it i guess. i feel sort of sad i guess too. how do i make her see i really want to be with her, but not being too pushy? help!! (link)
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Ok so basically you just need to reassure her that you are there when she is ready. Dont be overbarring to the point where she would want to castrate you. So be careful but affectionate.
Lauren
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I dont know if i should ask this guy out that goes to my school he doesnt think tat i like him and we dont talk a lot but i like this guy a lot and i want to ask him out so bad but i dont know how......plz help me....i rate high....
love,
dont know what to do (link)
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Ok well first of all how do you know you really like this kid if you don't talk to him a lot. He could be some secret psycho stalker kid who is obsessed with Richard Simmons. Get to know him better first then think about asking him out.
Lauren
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Hey guyz! I REALLY NEED HELP BAD
i really NEED to shave my legs but i dont know how to ask my mom! I really NEED HELP
plz help me
-Needin Help B A D (link)
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Alright Darlin' try going to her and explaining that you feel it's time. But avoid the whole " But everybody at school does it!" because that will just frustrate her. Come to her like an adult. Don't whine and complain if she says no, just make sure she is aware what your opinion on the matter is. She will respect your maturity, and that maturity will help you get what you want. Lauren
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i have this project to do and it says that i have to create a timeline of WWII also the holocaust but it also says be creative. i have all the information but i need a creatine way of making a time line for that period of time (link)
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Ok so i did something similar and for the title use this phrase " In Line With Time". It may sound weird but I scored extra points for that one time, just b/c its more interesting than the usual title. Use bright colors(I know its hard considering you are reviewing the Holocaust)It will be more appealing to the eye that way. Get some pictures off of the internet and slap them on their with a caption beneath it. Arthur Schindler is a good person to use in relation to the Holocaust. Just go with your instincts. Just have fun with it. Lauren
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Well , i have been going out with this guy. we never see each other and sometimes people tell me he is makin moves and flirting with other girls!! i dont know what to do. should i break up with him? thanks in advance .. :o]
signed,
mixed emotions (link)
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Alright so I don't think you should break up with him just because of what others say. Confront him about it. Don't take it lying down either. If it turns out that this is true, stand up and be willing to do what needs to be done to keep him. That is if you truly believe that he has the will to commit himself to you. Make yourself more available.
Lauren
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okay i like this guy he's in college he's about 2 years older then i am. i am only 17. i really like him and i told my friends that i do. all of my friends suggest that i should just call him and tell him that i like him. would this be right or should i just get to know him more?? (link)
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Ok so if you just call this guy randomly and say that you like him, he's going to think your just a kid with some school girl crush. Be more realistic about it.Ask him out for coffee, or lunch. Nothing too date-like seeing how it is sort of out of the blue.Make it causual and comfortable. We all know guys are a little slow but EVENTUALLY he will catch on.
Lauren
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my friend dani is a really weird person. she's my friend and all but i don't know how to tell her how weird she is. help me. (link)
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Well first oh all, judging her like this isn't really the friend-like thing to do.
Accept her for who she is. Her "weirdness" is just part of her personality that a true friend should love.
Lauren
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OK I am a little young but please take this seriously! My best guy friend, he's 13, his dad died today. He has a heart attack =( well I know he probably doesn't want to talk to me yet but how can I comfort him. I really don't know how to appraoch him. I might write hima letter tellign him how much he means to me and how special hsi dad was... is that a good start? Any ideas.... I want to make this as easy as I can for him. Thanks for your time. (link)
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I think the letter thing is an excellent idea. A couple of weeks ago I had a friend commit suicide.So I wrote a letter to his little sister and his older brother. In the letter I basically showed my undying love for them as well as my contiuous presence. Just let him know you'll always be there. Constantly by his side, day or night, even at 3 in the morning( trust me it may get to that)It will mean bunches to him. GOOD LUCK!!!
Lauren
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Ok well these 2 guys in my science class keep bugging me about my boyfriend. They keep saying "arnt u gonna break up with him!" hes a retard (he really isnt) he looks like a dog. and it gets so annoying! and then my best friends boyfriend is like a porcupine and they dont say anything there just like im happy for you! i get sad and also mad. they also call me ugly and im not! just i hate them. is there anything i can do to make them stop? and not to tell a teacher because that didnt work when i tried. please help!!
sorry if this was long! (link)
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You can either take the high road or you can talk it straight back. Ok so i think you should say something to them to really affect their menhood. Say something to them of the effect that an old girlfriend of theirs let some secrets slip about their "privates" or lack there of. That or just spread some rumors about their inadequacy. Lord knows girls are the best at spreading rumors, use that to your benefit.
Lauren
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Ok heres the deal..im 14 and in the 9 grade and i feel like i have no friends..i mean yea i talk to people at school but idk like at lunch i sit with these ppl that my "friend" sits w. and i dont even sit by her i sit at the end of the table w. these boys and i dont even tlk to them i just sit there and eat my lunch. Then there comes the weekends and i have nothing to do and i usually stay home w. my mom and dad and i come home every day after school its really is pathetic..any idea to help me? (link)
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Alright doll here's my suggestion. PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE! Start talking to these boys you sit by, join in on the conversation. Truly show your personality. Just because you don't usually talk to them doesn't mean you can't.Open up and show them who you are. No one can deny the confidence of a person who is willing to talk to people they don't know. Confidence reflects personality. Trust me, show them yours and you'll have friends in no time!
Lauren
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