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heyy i'm brittany. i'm 13 years old and going into the 8th grade. i live in southern indiana, close to louisville,kentucky. i don't have a boyfriend.. but i've been in many bad relationships. i used to cut myself, i was suicidal, so i can help you with that. i do competitvie cheerleading, club volleyball, and golf. if you need fast advice just I.M. me at sixmilestogox or oxobroxo (both AIM). i'm normally online everyday. i guess that's all
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ok so i cut, so obviously im depressed. i cant decide if i should go to a psychologist and have them give me anti-depressants, or if i should just go to our family doctor and get some from him. what do you think? i dont want my parents in the same room as me if i went to the doctor, so how would i do that? id feel bad if i said i dont want my parents to come in, but is that what im supposed to do? is the doctor going to ask me questions? and would i have to show him my cuts? their really teeny and a little red, so they really arent that noticable, but would he still give me anti-depressants? im not wanting anti-depressants just for my cutting, i am depressed so i have other problems other than cutting. thank youuuu
hey. yeah i used to cut myself. i went to a physchologist and got help from him. one of my friends went to a doctor, and he sent her to a physchologist. i would go to a physchologist because he knows more about mental stuff then the doctor. and yeah you just ask your parents nicely to stay out in the waiting room or whatever. i don't know about the doctor, but the physhologist asks you a few questions about why you did it and how long and simple stuff like that. and my physchologist didn't give me anything but 3 weeks at a mental hospital. but mine were huge and right on my veins. i think you can ask for anti-depressants, just make sure you mention all of you're other reasons for being depressed. good luck.
well im gonna be cheering this year, i've only cheered once in 6th grade. but the squad im about to enter they do stunts and jumps, my question is how can i get better in the jumping ? i have until august, i wanna be good at the jumping because this is a competitive squad ! ♥
hey! i cheer! ok first you want to stretch your legs so you can get to be more flexible in the air. (stretch about 2 to 3 times a day.)& to work on your height, you want to stand in your bedroom floor and do straight up and down jumps. do probablly 20 a day and touch your ceiling. once you have done that for a week, move on to a room with higher ceilings. once you have done this process for 2-3 weeks, you want to start putting it all together. at first, you do not want to work on your flexibily, just your height. i would take 10 minutes out of the day and just work on your height. after you do that for about a week, you want to start working on your flexibilty in the air. by then, your jumps should be super high and you should be super flexible. (sounds super weird, but that's what we were told to do!) good luck :) ♥♥
okay my friend is having a party tomorrow night and her parents arent going to be home .. and my mom treats me like im 5 so im thinking of getting dropped off early and then sleeping over there and then getting picked up later the next day so theres no sign that there was a party .. do you think thats going to work?? cuz if it doesnt then im screwed!!
yes. that will work. just act like it's a simple sleep over and her parents are at the grocery store or whatever if she asks where they are. have fun :)
Okay, my best friend in the whole wide world is moving. And I have no idea what to say to him. He's only going like 30 minutes away, but he's my best friend! And I don't know how to deal with this anymore. I'll miss him to much. How can I get over this?
that bites. just think that it's not the end. you all can try go get together every weekend or so if you all both drive like 15 minutes. yeah i know how you feel, 30 minutes just seems so far away. but just pretend like its not the end and everything will still be the same. best wishes.
i have serius issues on depression. i mean everyday for the past month ive been down. please dont make fun of me. i cant help it. i just lost a gr8 friend/boyfriend a couple of weeks ago and i havent been happy or the same since then. i dont want to take freakin pills cause it makes me feel unhuman. it lowers my self esteem. i havent had any self esteem in over a month. everybody told me to move on and find someone else to go out with but its not that simple to move on after a heartbreak. i have changed so much in the past month. Please help me. what the heck should i do? ill do anything if it works. ill rate high and ill write super great about you if you just help me. thanks and please hurry!
moving on is a process. you automatically do it when you are ready. i've been attatched to a guy for 2 years now. act like you are over him. then, once you show everyone that you are over him (even though you are really not), you will overcome this. you will find a day when you are sooo over him that you can scream, and you will feel soooo much better. that's one way it can happen. another way is that, you can find another guy that you like (we all know that's very hard.) once you find this guy, and get close to him, you will just forget this whole bad relationship thing and will be happy again. (sounds like a dream, but it happened to my sisters friend who was in a 6 year relationship, and was depressed for about a full year.) well i hopped that worked for ya! smile :)
How do you put music on advicenators?
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you can go to www.cdzinc.com and find the artist and the song you want. then right click on the song and copy the song URL. then go to your bio box on your profile thingy and paste it there!
I am so in love with my girlfriend. She is amazing and everything I need her to be. But this summer I have the choice to move away to Philly with my father (which I been wanting for years) to get away from my mother. And I will be getting paid to play basketball there. But my girlfriend will still be here and I don't want to leave her cause I know we would have a great future together if I stay and I know things won't be the same even if I do come and visit a lot. What do you guys think I should do?
yeah that situation sucks. my sister went to college last year in California, and i'm in Indiana, and so is her boyfriend. i would take the shot to go to Philly and play basketball because that's what you want to do and that's what you love. if you guys love each other as much as you say you do, then nothing should happen. you can just learn to trust her. you all could call each other everyday, you can bring her up every other weekend, and so on. it'll work. trust her, she'll make it work. things won't change. if you see that things start to change, you might want to talk to her about it. well idk if that helped.. but good luck!
I am a homeschooled girl, I'm turning 15 in about two months. I am doing this program for middle schoolers, where I go and pick up tons of work each month. Apparently, theres so much, that its hard cramming it all in a month, but I manage to get it done the very beggining of the next month, meaning I turn it in late. This happens, because either I didn't have parents take me because they were gone, or I wasn't done. Most of the time it was just not going on time. I expected a lot from myself when I was in public school, my grades were always in a high range. But now, I am failing three classes. Ever since I saw my grades, I have been feeling guilty for eating, sleeping, or doing anything I want because I shouldn't deserve to do what I want. I am so full of stress, I think that maybe another reason. I see a therapist that takes both of my parents sides, and my parents are divorced, but they still fight. But, I'm not going to drown myself in excuses because I've managed to do well in the past. There are lots of other stressful things going on, but I am just really scared that I'm going to get held back. I havn't finished the month of May, I tried to last night, but those thoughts of being a failure took over and kept me from concentrating. I have no idea what to do with the present work, but I do have goals for high school, I might be staying home again. Could anyone share some advice that could help me get my stress out and my future thoughts in?
I'll definetly rate because of the length of this question. It will be more than just thank you.
wow. that's complicated. find a way to make your homework your first priority. make yourself think that you are soo much butter then what your grades show. grades show nothing. think about your longterm goals. (ex: graduating from HS,college,etc.) think of all the good things that homework pays off for. & well your stress.. it will ease it's way away once you get ontop of your crapload of work.
ok well 3 years ago i went on a cruise and i was hanging out with 2 guys and my cousin, my cousin's name is Lexi, my friend i met on the cruise were Matt and Reily. I started to like Reily, and Matt liked me, and Reily liked Lexi, and lexi liked no one. We were playing truth or dare and Reily was dared to kiss me but didnt, then he held my hand! i was young and it was the first time a guy ever did that, i was melting in my seat when my aunt *Lexi's mother* comes in and we quickly pull away from eachother and she yells at me and Lexi cause we were supposted to be in this one room but we left- with 2 guys! so we werent aloud to see them again, i was crying on my buncbed cause she had ruined my first holding hands moment with a guy i liked, the phone rang and with relief i answered it, It was Matt! Matt said the only reason Reily held my hand earlier was because he was drugged up! so my grandma was listening on my phonecall and the next day told everyone that i was hanging out with druggies!!! Reily was taking benidryl because earlier on the boat he got sick! so they said i couldn't see them, i ran outta the room and Lexi and my other cousin after me, my cousin pinned me against the wall and was choking me! and Lexi was watching and was scared, some how, i got away and then they dragged me all the way back the whole public saw me!! So then i was known as the "hellchild" and my one aunt said that my other cousin, Caitlyn had it before me then i got it, BUT WHAT ABOUT LEXI?! the ages are Caitlyn, Lexi, then me! THEY SKIPPED LEXI! and they didnt give her a label! So now 3 years later i still feel bad for that day and i'm mad still and my aunt just recently asked me to go down *where all my family lives .. the same neighborhood!* i dont want to, cause i know that to get rid of my horrid label is to let them walk all over me, and if i act like "the hellchild" i'll be miserable. What the hell do i do?!?!? i'll rate high!
*Jill*
wow, that's happened to me 2. parents are very difficult to understand. if you do go, get rid of your "hellchild" label. be an angel, pretend like nothing happened, and act like they never found out. basically, act like they don't remember. your in a very tuff situation! but they are your family, so you should go. the "hellchild" label will eventually go away once they see how much you have changed.
Well my X gf and i are still good friends. But in the past 3 months i have been talking to her best friend online a little. Cool chick. Then i met her one day like 2 weeks ago, at night. Me and all my friends always sneak out so yeah thats about the only time i get to see her. So me and her started hangin out at night, alot. Sometimes just us. Im not tryin to push things, i've only made out with her. But shes such a awsome person i always have a blast when im with her. But recently i got cought for sneakin out and got my car taken away lol. I get it back june 21, and my parents go outa town for a week on june 21. So yeah house to myself.. But see the girl i like also got caught sneakin out so shes now grounded to. Except she doesnt have a car, and got her cell phone and computer taken away so i have no way of getting in touch with her. I dont want this period of us not being able to talk, affect the progress we've made. But yeah i know she likes me because she has a boyfriend, but shes in the same situation i am, cuz i have a girlfriend but i like thsi other girl alot better. So yeah she had the opportunity to sleep over at her boyfriends house with like all her best friends but she choose to sneak out with me. Ok well anyways myu question is, is there any way to keep the "silence" from keeping us to drift farther appart. And basically whats the final step in making her mine once we do hang out. Ill rate high for any reasonable advice, and basically for reading this whole thing.
i was in the same situation not to long ago. the "silence" should not affect you all. it may seem a little akward talking to her once you all do get to talk a little bit. but if you like her as much as you say you do, and she likes you as much as she says she does, it won't affect you.