ok well 3 years ago i went on a cruise and i was hanging out with 2 guys and my cousin, my cousin's name is Lexi, my friend i met on the cruise were Matt and Reily. I started to like Reily, and Matt liked me, and Reily liked Lexi, and lexi liked no one. We were playing truth or dare and Reily was dared to kiss me but didnt, then he held my hand! i was young and it was the first time a guy ever did that, i was melting in my seat when my aunt *Lexi's mother* comes in and we quickly pull away from eachother and she yells at me and Lexi cause we were supposted to be in this one room but we left- with 2 guys! so we werent aloud to see them again, i was crying on my buncbed cause she had ruined my first holding hands moment with a guy i liked, the phone rang and with relief i answered it, It was Matt! Matt said the only reason Reily held my hand earlier was because he was drugged up! so my grandma was listening on my phonecall and the next day told everyone that i was hanging out with druggies!!! Reily was taking benidryl because earlier on the boat he got sick! so they said i couldn't see them, i ran outta the room and Lexi and my other cousin after me, my cousin pinned me against the wall and was choking me! and Lexi was watching and was scared, some how, i got away and then they dragged me all the way back the whole public saw me!! So then i was known as the "hellchild" and my one aunt said that my other cousin, Caitlyn had it before me then i got it, BUT WHAT ABOUT LEXI?! the ages are Caitlyn, Lexi, then me! THEY SKIPPED LEXI! and they didnt give her a label! So now 3 years later i still feel bad for that day and i'm mad still and my aunt just recently asked me to go down *where all my family lives .. the same neighborhood!* i dont want to, cause i know that to get rid of my horrid label is to let them walk all over me, and if i act like "the hellchild" i'll be miserable. What the hell do i do?!?!? i'll rate high!
*Jill*
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? PrincessAva answered Sunday June 12 2005, 2:02 am: Well i understand your situation. Something like this happened to me. I was at the mall with my best friend, her boyfriend, and my boyfriend. My dad called my cell and asked where i was. I told him at the mall. HE started yelling at me and said that he said i couldnt go to the mall. He came over and i told him that he said i could go to the mall and he called me a lying bitch. i started running and he caught up with me and pinned me down. turns out he told some dumbass story to his friends that i was selling my self. so i got know as the "wild child" to his friends. But after a year it went down because i told them the story and they ended up believeing me. dont let them walk all over you but dont act like the hell child act somewhere in the middle. dont let them walk all over you but still act like your in control
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MALiiBU_BARBiiE answered Sunday June 12 2005, 1:23 am: wow, that's happened to me 2. parents are very difficult to understand. if you do go, get rid of your "hellchild" label. be an angel, pretend like nothing happened, and act like they never found out. basically, act like they don't remember. your in a very tuff situation! but they are your family, so you should go. the "hellchild" label will eventually go away once they see how much you have changed. [ MALiiBU_BARBiiE's advice column | Ask MALiiBU_BARBiiE A Question ]
poa answered Friday June 10 2005, 8:18 pm: Cut off some goddamn fingers.
FireFairy141 answered Friday June 10 2005, 7:54 pm: Go, then be a bitch, if they wanna label you as a hellchild go with it! I know i would! Do everything in your power to piss them off. If there gonna be mean, give them a reason. Dont just lay there and take it! Bitch, and piss people off, and just be down-right mean. And since you dont even want to really go, then hopefully you wont get invited again. Hope this helped.
P.S. The person i'm with says NEVER SAY YOUR NAME ON THE INTERNET!! JILLIAN MACKANIA DOHRTEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (sp?) heehee GOOD LUCK!
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