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PARTY
okay my friend is having a party tomorrow night and her parents arent going to be home .. and my mom treats me like im 5 so im thinking of getting dropped off early and then sleeping over there and then getting picked up later the next day so theres no sign that there was a party .. do you think thats going to work?? cuz if it doesnt then im screwed!!
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Alright, that does sound like a good idea, but you have to make sure that there is no way your mom could find out about this party. I have done this many times before, and I have even had to sneak out a couple dozen times at one in the morning just so I could go to a party, since my mom treats me like I'm in kindergarten. So far I have never gotten caught, but I have had some close calls. And the only reason I almost got caught once was when my mom had called someone's parents and found out that I had been lying about who was going to be over and where I was going to be. Luckily I was able to lie my way out of it and didn't get in any trouble. So this is what I suggest you do: First think if there is any way your mom could find out that the party has no parents. (Does she know your friend's parents well? Could she call over there to check up on you and find out about the party? Does she ask for the phone numbers of your friend's parents?) If she does and she asks to call and talk to the parents then this is what you need to do. Give her your friend's home number and have your friend pretend to be her parents. This really does work, trust me. I've done this before. And after your mom is convinced tell her the time you want to get dropped off at and picked up at the next morning. But consider any other problems that might come up: (What if your mom wants to say hi to the parents when she drops you off? What if she pulls up at the house and sees that there are no cars in the drive-way and thinks there are no parents home?) Think of lies to come up with if this happens, like "One of their cars is being worked on right now so her mom has to share the other car with her dad. She just got home from work, and her dad probably left to go pick up her brother from basketball practice"... or something like that. If your mom wants to meet the parents then you need to get a ride to the party other than your mom, because if she wants to meet them then you are screwed. After you are at your friend's house everything will be alot easier for you. Then all you have to worry about is your mom calling over there to check up on you, or even dropping by. If she did do this then think up another lie: "I didn't know there was going to be other people over here. Her parents let my friend's cousins come over and some of their friends for this family thing. It's no big deal. Relax." If you think through every possibility of your mom finding out about this party and you come up with good solutions for every situation then you should be ready for this party and it should work out perfectly. Just make sure to let your friend in on your lies and plans on how to get this to work, because you don't want your friend saying something to your mom that might make it seem like you are lying. That is really hard to cover up plus it will make your mom more suspicious and she will start asking more questions. This should work and hopefully your a good liar and your mom is gullible lol. Have fun and Good luck! ~Sherah
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i would most definately pull a stunt like that...sounds good
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yea, it works... just tell her youll cal her when you need a ride :]
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Dear Party,
What you should do is talk to your mom be like mom i'm _ and i really don't need to be treated like they way i've been feeling treated. Is there a way i could show you I'm as responsible as anyone else.
If you go to this party and 'sneak out' You wouldn't have your mom's trust and your going to need it in the future. Also if you think your being like the other kids and being grown up by going out to this party and sneaking out. What if you get caught? Then you won't seem like such a mature teen. My best advice is talk to her.
Sincerely,
Sydney
(I hope my advice helps)
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Hye it might work yes.just say your hangin out and gonna stay the night and you'll ring when you want a lift!
Love Kim
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ya i do it all the time it works
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yes. that will work. just act like it's a simple sleep over and her parents are at the grocery store or whatever if she asks where they are. have fun :)
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Whenever I do something like that I get caught. Just make sure you have all your shit done at your house so your mom doesn't call looking for you and make sure you don't smell like alchohal when you come home and make sure you keep your story straight. Also, remember not to stress over it all night and to enjoy yourself because worrying is a buzz kill.
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Yeah. That's definently the best thing to do. Just make sure you get over there earlier than the others are supposed to get there, (maybe help her set up and clean). And if you're mother is one of those that calls and likes to talk to you at your friend's house like before she goes to bed to tell you good night, tell her you might go out to see a movie so you might not be at your friend's house to answer the phone!! Just a tip! :-D Good Luck!!
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yeah sounds good to me...i mean if you get dropped off on time ...she will see people hanging around..so just make sure you get to your friends house an hour before the party starts..maybe earlier..whatever can be worked out.
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duh deffiantly sleep over your friends house.. but don't make it obvious or drop any hints to your mom make sure she doesnt know, but if you want to go then you deffinatly have to sleep over it's the only way to hide it.
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That's a better solution, but are you going to feel guilty after hiding that from your mom?
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