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I really like this guy, John. I talk to him all the time on the phone but I don't get to see him that often because he lives 30 minutes away. Well he knows that I like him, and he tells me that he likes me too, but he constantly is telling me about all these girls that he hooks up with. He knows it gets me jealous because i've told him but he continues to do it. How can I stop being so jealous???? I really want him to like me, I feel like i'm being played ... Please help!
Follow your heart - if you feel like you're being played you probably are. He doesn't seem to care much for your feelings. I could be wrong...
okay my friend is having a party tomorrow night and her parents arent going to be home .. and my mom treats me like im 5 so im thinking of getting dropped off early and then sleeping over there and then getting picked up later the next day so theres no sign that there was a party .. do you think thats going to work?? cuz if it doesnt then im screwed!!
That's a better solution, but are you going to feel guilty after hiding that from your mom?
16/f - Ok, i have this guy friend and we always just joke around and just have a good time and everything. well i used to like him but then i pretty much got over him and we're just friends. one night i gave him this quiz that tricks you into tellin the quizgiver who the person takin the quiz likes, and he said he liked this other grl that goes to out school. but, last week at a party, he was telling every1 that he likes me, not the other girl, and all his friends keep tellin me he likes me but when i ask him about it he jsut says he doesnt like me like that. idk who to believe now, him, or all his best friends that keep telling me he likes me. and idk what to do about it .. any ideas?
I'd be curious to know what that quiz you gave him is... I have my own ideas on who I'd give it to lol
anyway, you should just go up to him and tell him that you like him, just simple like that. Be honest. and then ask what he thinks of you/how he feels about that/if he could just give you a chance... you could be surprised!
ok so i met a guy and now i like him. but anyways we were talking about guitars and i asked him what kind he has and so on and then he said heyy i could give you lessons..cheap cheap haha. 20 for ummm well i dont really have a set time limit. so i said sounds nice..and then he said does $5 sound ok? and i said you just said 20...so he said shut up...i dont have a set price either haha..then i said haha...and then he said wait...i have a new savings plan. i asked him what and he said $5 more and ill play with no shirt...and then i was of course joking and said $10 more for naked...and he said DEAL! and then we can have other lessons after ;) he says i love you..not a lot..but you no its just the kind where your kidding around like...he says im mean..so i say :( and then he goes im sorry i luv u. so yeah just like that. he says he wants a hug and to be comforted a lot...so i say i would if i could..hes had a rough life..so i said he deserves a hug and stuff. he asked me if i masterbated and how much...haha. then we were talking about bands...and he said i can play my guitar while screaming like him...and i said well lets just brag about it..and then he tells me while sweaty from playing hard all night with my hair all wet infront of my eyes with my boxers to my hips how i always wear them with no shirt on. it all sounds like flirting to me...but ive never really understood what flirting is. he asked me how far ive been with a guy and that girls wont let him eat them out. then he said wouldnt you let me? then i said...i have no answer to that..and he said haha u would i know it im smart like that. i guess i was flirting when i said that? he has a girlfriend and i was wondering if this counts as cheating. help! i like him and of course i wish he didnt have a girlfriend..but i dont want to be flirting and messing around with him or anything else when he has one. i dont want to hurt (as in her feelings, not physically) the girl hes with or have her come and beat the crap out of me haha.
Ask him how he really feels about you, and how he feels about his girlfriend, and if he loves her why is he playing around in her back?
because even if you like him, if he can cheat on her he can also cheat on you...
but maybe he doesn't love her and he really loves you, but he can't let his girlfriend go like that. So asking him is the best solution.
what are the benefits of waiting for marriage? for those of you that are, whats your reason? it could go either way so let me know what you think.
Pro's: the guy will also feel very special that you wait for him, for the one, and most guys respect that a lot. go for your values.
Con's: there's nothing wrong with sleeping with a guy before marriage, if you're in love at that moment and he means a lot to you, I don't think it matters what will happen afterwards as long as in that moment your feelings are just as intense for eachother and he doesnt just want sex. (ie: threatening to leave you for someone else)
I'm a 15 year old girl, he's 17. We both like eachother. But he's not sure if he wants to go out with me. He's worried about our age difference since he's turning 18 in like 5 months. Even then we'll have 2 years between us still. He's told my friend that he does want to go out with me, but he's concerned about the age thing. Should I just give up on him, or still try to hook up with him? Help? :)
Love doesn't have an age, the only thing that should matter is how you both feel for eachother. Never give up on the one that makes you smile. :)
My boyfriend is going to be 15 on the 25th and I am already 15. On june 5th, we will have been going out for 8 months. I feel comfortable with him and I love him. We have been talking about having sex but we just aren't sure if we should because of the ages we are. I know its illegal until you are 18 but we really want to. And also, what condems are the best to use? Please help!
The law about that, here in Canada anyway, is that you have to be over 14, and the other person involved has to be over 14 also, and less than 2 years difference. It can't be a person in authority (like a babysitter). so it isn't illegal, but I don't think you should do it anyway. As for the type of condoms, just ask a pharmacist or something.
why is it that guy find girl on girl action so attractive??
ill rate if ur advice is good
Everybody wants what they can't have. That's why guys like it, they know they can't have it.