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cheating?
ok so i met a guy and now i like him. but anyways we were talking about guitars and i asked him what kind he has and so on and then he said heyy i could give you lessons..cheap cheap haha. 20 for ummm well i dont really have a set time limit. so i said sounds nice..and then he said does $5 sound ok? and i said you just said 20...so he said shut up...i dont have a set price either haha..then i said haha...and then he said wait...i have a new savings plan. i asked him what and he said $5 more and ill play with no shirt...and then i was of course joking and said $10 more for naked...and he said DEAL! and then we can have other lessons after ;) he says i love you..not a lot..but you no its just the kind where your kidding around like...he says im mean..so i say :( and then he goes im sorry i luv u. so yeah just like that. he says he wants a hug and to be comforted a lot...so i say i would if i could..hes had a rough life..so i said he deserves a hug and stuff. he asked me if i masterbated and how much...haha. then we were talking about bands...and he said i can play my guitar while screaming like him...and i said well lets just brag about it..and then he tells me while sweaty from playing hard all night with my hair all wet infront of my eyes with my boxers to my hips how i always wear them with no shirt on. it all sounds like flirting to me...but ive never really understood what flirting is. he asked me how far ive been with a guy and that girls wont let him eat them out. then he said wouldnt you let me? then i said...i have no answer to that..and he said haha u would i know it im smart like that. i guess i was flirting when i said that? he has a girlfriend and i was wondering if this counts as cheating. help! i like him and of course i wish he didnt have a girlfriend..but i dont want to be flirting and messing around with him or anything else when he has one. i dont want to hurt (as in her feelings, not physically) the girl hes with or have her come and beat the crap out of me haha.
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Hes probably a bit confused, you're best just to play it by ear. I do the same thing with a girl I know, even though I know shes in a relationship with someone else, im not trying to get in her pants or anything, im just trying to be friendly and make things entertaining. While I do like her and I wish to pursue a bit more of a relationship I don't dare even try when shes in a relationship with someone else. Just continue doing what you have been doing, let him make the choices because the balls in his court.
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Ask him how he really feels about you, and how he feels about his girlfriend, and if he loves her why is he playing around in her back?
because even if you like him, if he can cheat on her he can also cheat on you...
but maybe he doesn't love her and he really loves you, but he can't let his girlfriend go like that. So asking him is the best solution.
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