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Ah wow, Stuck.


Question Posted Friday June 10 2005, 10:49 am

Ok well im 16 and going to be a jounior in high school. I have a girlfriend... me and her have been really close friends since the end of 8th grade, and at times i liked her.. and she liked me. We never went out until like the 24th of may this year. We are still together. But now that we are together... i dont really like her like that. I mean shes still the same person she was before, i donno as friends we are good but as a couple we are just too different. So how do i get to be single again without loosing a good friend? I'll rate high im desprate.
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losingrip101 answered Sunday June 12 2005, 12:29 am:
be honest but dont say its me not you or i made a mistake or we made better friends then gfs itll be weird but you may bot be able to do it without losin her tell her you want to be friends but right now you need to focus only on school as soon you will hopefully furthering you ed
losingrip hope i helpd

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HyperMickiHAhe answered Saturday June 11 2005, 12:56 pm:
tell her that gurls like the truth and not to be lied to so tell her straight off then you can invite her to the movies a week later so she knows you DO want to be friends:)

GoOd LuCk
Micki

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xooLEMONADEoxx13 answered Saturday June 11 2005, 12:07 am:
whatever you do don't say i hope we can still be friends! it's the kiss of death. you should just tell her as it is. It is the best thing ever to do!

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hydrine answered Friday June 10 2005, 8:52 pm:
First of all if you are good friends then you should be able to just tell her that you care about her but not that way and you just want to be friend.. if your such good friend as you say your friend ship will survive outta this. good luck

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mauigirl answered Friday June 10 2005, 1:13 pm:
"i just want to be friends" doesn't work anymore... because half the time the person doesn't even want to be friends. but since you really want to just be friends, try to do it together so she doesn't feel "dumped". because this will make her embarresed, especially if she still likes you and then she won't want to hang around with you. so bring up "i think i liked this better when we were friends." you'll almost positively get "i think so too...." and it's easy from there. then before the next time you see her at school instant message or text message her (it's less pressure) and talk about friend stuff. it'll help make her less nervous. hope i helped!

sierra

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JamesBaybiGurl answered Friday June 10 2005, 11:10 am:
Hey Sweetie,

Damn Dude that sucks, You need to talk to her tell her how you feel that you thought everything would work out and be strong like your friendship but when you two got together it wasnt the same. I had the same exact problem but technically me and my best friend didnt go out we just flirted and talked alot, You should talk to her because if you keep the relationship going while your havin doughts and she is perfectly fine it could hurt her in the long run. Just talk to her and if she is your best friend she will understand, Well at least for me my best friend listened and understood where I was coming from!! Hope I helped!

-x0x0x0-
STEPHANiE

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lilaquidas18 answered Friday June 10 2005, 11:09 am:
Just tell her how you feel tell her that you guys did so much together as a friend and that she ment so much to you as a bestfriend that it didnt feel the same as a friend. Just be honest with her maybe she feels the same to and doesnt know how to tell you.Atleast do it now before she gets hurt.Rate me

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