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Love Triangle...kinda!
I have liked this guy since I was in third grade, (I'm in tenth now) and he told all of my friends that he liked me too. But when my friends told him that he should ask me out, (with out me knowing so i was like incredibly embarresd) he said he wasnt alowwed to date yet. But just last Sunday when i was sitting in his car and we were listening to music (Hollaback Girl) he said it was his girlfriends favorite song! I just brushed it off at first and pretended that i didnt notice, but it really hurt! I dont know how to act around him anymore, cause he still acts like he likes me....Someone help me please!
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"im not aloud to date yet." thats so lame.
but i bet you hes shy becuase he likes you so much.
what i do when i like a guy, is just forget all about liking him & chill.
if it really bugs you, then i think you should talk to him about it. ask him why he said he wasn't aloud to date, yet he has a girlfriend.
seems a little fishy to me. but who knows.
<3 lemme know what goes down.
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You should tell him how you feel, then give him a chance to explain.
Hope I could help!
~K.C~
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Yeah.. so you'Re an oldeR giRl... I'm shoRe he was just tRying to impRess you! UnfoRtunately foR him.. it didn't go as planned. Sounds like he's just playing 'HaRd To Get', if you ask ME. PeRsonally, I don't play head games. If someone is inteRested in me, then I want them to flat out SAY IT, and I do the same. PeRhaps you should just question him on his feelings!! That's the only way to know FOR SHORE what he's feeling.. anything else.. is puRely an assumption!! Goodluck -- hope this helps!! :)
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Wow that's so hypocritical!
He lied about not being able to date probably to avoid hurting your feelings. But why doesn't he just say he has a gf? Ask him why and then IM me to tell me about what he says.
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dont go out with the stoner of doom. trust me i've been there.
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ok well he likes you because he told your friends he likes you!I think that he does not have a gf and he said it was his gfs favorite song to make you jealous and to see your reaction?because if you said to him you have a gf?he could then say no i want you as my gf!or to see how u would take it?or maybe he just said it because someone told him you like him and he wants to make you jealous.i have been to school with boys since 3 years old so i know that thats what they do!I think you should act cool around him now just like you are friends.Also act like you do not care.If he said it to you why don't you say it to him tell him tell him you have a bf and see his reaction play his game.when he asks you say to him do you have a gf?if he says no you say i don't have a bf.Then see what happens from there, but maybe you should bare in mind he might have a gf although i don't think he does.I hope i helped if you need further advice inbox me i am happy to help lv sweetcorn xx
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Well, it might just be a thing that is with guys. Maybe he doesn't like to pursue women who are older than him. Perhaps he feels incredibly intimidated about some quality that you possess. A quality that he may yet adore. You should know, that guys can say and act all sorts of ways. Especially if this particular guy is good when it comes to flirtation. I'm not trying to compare him to others, but I want you to realize that he may have led you on. So, I think you should ask him why he said that he couldn't have a girlfriend when he told you in the car that he does have a girlfriend. If he lies, then he's no good. I don't think you want a liar. Then you'll have to move on . Yeah I know :easier said than done. You just really have to try if he lies . Because believe it or not, you may just deserve better and you're not seeing it. So , I hope I was some sort of help and good luck. You'll never know the full truth if you don't ask him.You're just feeling pressured and a bit insecure. Once you find out the truth though, you should feel and act a lot better around him. Especially when you acknowledge such truth.
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well if hes lieng to you already and you aint even going out then that doesnt really give you a good impression of him does it? well what i think you should do is tell him straight ask him why he say that he wasnt alloud to date when he has a gf and why did he tell you that he has a gf when he knew it would upset you tell him that if hes trying to impress you then that isnt the way he should be going about it hes upset you once by lieng to you and again by him having a gf tell him you do like him and if he does like you then he shouldnt be upsetting you like that
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Wow, I'm beginning to think that he is a jerk. I'm also beginning to think he was messing with your mind but then again, maybe he didn't want to hurt you. He could like both you and his girlfriend (which is kinda bad if you think about it)I think you just need to get over him which I know is easier said than done or you could wait for him but I wouldn't waste my time even though some things are worth waiting for. Just stay friends and maybe you'll find another cool dude to like. :)
~K~
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Hey Sweetie,
My Mom used to Hate when older boys would talk to me and then like in 9th grade I got my first bf he was a sweetheart but he was 17 and believe me its a shock! But his mom prolly im guessin he is a Mommys Boy and so that prolly means that she needs more time tryin to figure out how to let go. But that shows he is very respectful and doesnt lie to his mom you shouldnt have anything to be mad about or anything its perfectly fine. Just find ways to make him want you more and even try goin to his house and meeting his Mom or something! It will work moms are better talking to then the fathers lol!! And thats from expierene!!
-StephAnie-
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