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Member Since: January 30, 2005
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hey im a girl and im bout to be 15..i feel like i *need* a boyfriend but i cant find any guy that i would want as one...every time i start "talkin" (thats what we call it here..it means that were both likin each other and we konw that we like each other but he hasnt asked me out yet hah) idk what happens...we talk for a lil bit but every time i like totally ditch him and i dont know why..i mean i want a boyfriend but im havin trouble gettin one in a way..i mean im scared im gonna get the reputation as a hoe or somethin bc everytime i end it with someone theres always a *back-up* i guess you could say bc a day or 2 later i have another guy..what is wrong with me? should i just leave the guys alone and be single for a while? is this jus a phase? do you think a lot of gurls go thru this?.. (link)
hmmm... well if you like him, you shouldn't ditch him.. make him feel comfortable, dont worry so much about what everyone thinks, if u like the guys and they like you, then go for it!


ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time! and hes the sweetest guy ever and i love him to death but neways when we go out to places or we watch movies he makes fun of gay people! and it kinda pisses me off but i don't say anything i just laugh cuz i don't wanna lose him! but the reason why it makes me mad is cuz my step brother is gay! and i don't know how to tell him that he is and that it bothers me! HELP (link)
well, i think you should tell your b/f that maybe all gay people are so weird. and try telling him that your step brother is gay, if he can't except that, then he is immature. so just try to talk to him about it, i'm sure it'll work out.


I have no idea what to get my boyfriend for v - day... he likes soccer, skiing, and snowboarding... i'm not really sure what kind of candy he likes and i want something great because i'm knew to this and i am bad at getting stuff for boys. Pleaz help, i rate high..
p.s. i want something that will make him smile (link)
well, if you have enough money, you can get him something that has to do with snowboarding or skiing, or soccor. Try talking to him about it, see what he would like.


Please help me with my relationship problem, my boyfriend is like absessed with tickling me, he thinks it's funny and cute. It's fun, but it gets annoying. When I tell him to stop, he just keeps doing it. I can't get away. What do I do?? No matter how much I ask, he won't stop. (link)
ahh, you need to break up with him, or have a serious talk with him, if he's touching you and you dont want him to, thats a little messed up, so just be confident and let him know, that when you don't want to be tickled anymore, he needs to stop.


15/f i was with a guy for about a month and then i broke up with him. then another guy that i went out with in 7th grade told me he likes me. i told him that i needed to get to know him better first and that i wanted to take things slwo cause i just broken up with a guy. so now we're getting to know each other, but hes very shy. i'm shy too, but i try not to be too much to give him confidence. but hes still very shy. so this wouldnt really be a problem, but i still like my ex. i didnt break up with him because i didnt like him anymore, it was for another reason (he didnt cheat on me or anything liek that). so i want to talk to my ex about what i think (and i'm kinda scared to do that and i dont know what to say). but i dont want to hurt the other guy. hes nice and everything, but i dont think i'll ever like him in that way, one of the reasons being that hes not very comfortable with me. i'm confused about what i feel and about what i should do. could anyone help me? (link)
well, i think you should try talking to ur ex, see if he feels the same way you feel about him.. and the new guy, tell him that your just interested in being friends with him, but dont hurt him




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