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15/f i was with a guy for about a month and then i broke up with him. then another guy that i went out with in 7th grade told me he likes me. i told him that i needed to get to know him better first and that i wanted to take things slwo cause i just broken up with a guy. so now we're getting to know each other, but hes very shy. i'm shy too, but i try not to be too much to give him confidence. but hes still very shy. so this wouldnt really be a problem, but i still like my ex. i didnt break up with him because i didnt like him anymore, it was for another reason (he didnt cheat on me or anything liek that). so i want to talk to my ex about what i think (and i'm kinda scared to do that and i dont know what to say). but i dont want to hurt the other guy. hes nice and everything, but i dont think i'll ever like him in that way, one of the reasons being that hes not very comfortable with me. i'm confused about what i feel and about what i should do. could anyone help me?
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well, i think you should try talking to ur ex, see if he feels the same way you feel about him.. and the new guy, tell him that your just interested in being friends with him, but dont hurt him
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If you guys aren't comfortable together it's best that you don't hook up. Being shy is one thing but being totally uncomfortable around someone is no way to build a relationship. And it's not your fault he's shy guys at that age usually. I'm sure he won't be sad or even mad that you don't want to go out w/ him, I'm not trying to sound mean but the truth is, he may be releaved.
Now about your other problem, I really think you should go for it! If you like him and things ended on good terms I'm sure he'd wanna be w/ u! Just call him, talk to him on the comp, write him a letter, what ever is easiest for you. Tell him you've been re thinking things and you think ya'll should be together! He'll proably be really excited.
Hope I helped! Come to me with any other questions!
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